What should I do if I become more and more autistic and depressed?

It depends on whether you're a man or a woman!

Autism is characterized by indifference to emotion, refusal to communicate, delayed language development, repetitive and stereotyped behaviors, and significant limitations in the range of activities interested. In today's terms, I don't like to communicate, I'm not good at communication, and I'm lonely.

There are many reasons for autism: some are disease defects. Since the early 1990s, there has been a surge in people with autism, with an average of 1 in 110 children exhibiting autism symptoms.

With the increasing statistical incidence, the disease has gradually begun to attract people's attention. It's actually a disease. In 2010, the famous actor Jet Li and the article starred in the movie "Ocean Paradise", which tells the story of autistic families, which further aroused the attention of ordinary people to the autistic community.

There are also some living environments, such as the family environment, where children from poor families and parents are prone to autism from an early age.

Why do you feel that people are becoming more and more autistic now?

In fact, a big reason is that the current social pressure is increasing, not only children, but also many adults are becoming more and more withdrawn, coupled with the development of the Internet, many people are unwilling to communicate with people face-to-face, they are all holding their mobile phones all day long to play online, shopping things, chatting are more and more biased towards the Internet, so that they lack self-confidence when communicating with people face-to-face, and over time they don't like to communicate and block themselves.

It is also possible that he is self-absorbed, he is autistic, and he thinks others are like this.

Because people are now more and more addicted to the Internet, and do not want to go to the real world to communicate with others, they can only vent themselves on the Internet, now people's pressure is increasing, people are in a hurry to make money, so that they are less and less in contact with their relatives and friends, now people's life is particularly stressful, every day after getting home from work, they want to rest directly, and they are unwilling to carry out any social activities with others, resulting in their own lives are very monotonous, and there will be autistic behavior.

Why do you feel that people are becoming more and more autistic now?

The pace of life is getting faster and faster, the communication between people is getting less and less, we are losing more and more time and balance with the mobile phone every day, friends meet and chat for a few words, they each hold their mobile phones to play, there are not too many topics, and the communication after going home is becoming less and less, the main factor is because there is less communication, and what you want to express is suppressed, so you need to communicate more and express more.

This can be a projection mentality.

What is Projective Psychology?

To put it simply, it is to extend what you think to other people, and think that you think the same as everyone else's.

You're smart, you've probably already seen the answer.

Are people really autistic nowatic?

If we need an answer, we need an argument.

However, there is no evidence that modern people are more autistic than they used to be.

Lack of mental strength and financial pressure are enormous.

Don't imagine that all other people are like you just because you have autism, it's very much like the second fool in the village, who drinks yam egg paste every day, and thinks that all Chinese eat yam egg paste three times a day.

Dear, none of this is a problem, is it?

First of all, let's see, not having a job is not so terrible, you need to take the initiative to find a job, not wait at home, there should be no one person's job can fall pie in the sky So, we have to go out together.

Again, your idea is wrong, you can't think that you are out of society, but you have always been closely connected with society, at least, we can still talk on the computer, can't we, we can still make friends here, even if it is a passerby, it is also a dear passerby.

What can you do if a bunch of people can't speak, listening is also a good choice, let's make a comparison.

Three people are talking, A, B, C, A is having fun, while B has been listening attentively, and C has been looking for an opportunity to interject, and finally, he interjects and interrupts A. I think it's easier for B to fit into the collective.

Your circle of life is not small, but large.

If you can experience it with your heart, you will find that there are many people who love you. At least, even I, a passerby, will persuade you and want you to live a good life, not to mention the people around you.

Happiness is very simple, happiness is to end when no longer forced, abandon this idea, boldly move forward, you will find your own tomorrow, this is inevitable, believe in yourself, only believe is possible, 2013, we struggle together.

Read more books, learn more about the topics that classmates talk about together, and accumulate more materials about these topics; I really can't interject, and I don't have to be embarrassed, listen to them carefully, for those who say well, look at her with a smile and praise her, and the people who are popular are not necessarily the ones who talk the most. You don't just want to define yourself as autistic or what, don't define yourself, everyone has her suitable occasions for performance, introverts and extroverts are not absolutely good or bad, just be the best version of yourself.

Strive for the initiative, such as taking the initiative to invite others out for activities; When others are playing together, if you are interested, you can take the initiative to ask, can you take me a ?..Take the initiative to help others and ask for help from others at the same time. In short, you must first let others know that you exist, and others will let you exist.

Go out and walk around boldly, communicate with more and more people slowly, don't be afraid, just take your time.

Try to play with them, he can also participate in some activities.

You can increase your confidence in interacting with people through online chat. Keep smiling at all times. You can look in the mirror and say to yourself every morning when you wake up

You're living well, you're happy every day, there's sunshine everywhere. This will increase your self-confidence, relieve stress and soothe your mood.

Be lenient in everything. Don't get into the nitty-gritty. Don't think about unhappy things. Watch at least one joke a day and tell it to your friends or colleagues. This will ease your autism, so give it a try.

Since you are mild and you are aware of it, and most importantly you want to take the initiative to get rid of him, you are a very sober and wise person. So my analysis of your autism is likely to be self-righteous and think that there exists. It is very likely that it is just that you don't like to interact with people for a long time, and anxiety can also be caused by the impatience that you often don't associate with people and suddenly want to do it but can't do it.

First, strive to improve one's spiritual realm, and the most important thing is self-confidence.

Second, pay attention to your words and deeds, socialize with people more, participate in more crowded activities, friend gatherings and the like, talk unnecessarily, you can not say when you have nothing to say, but you must listen carefully to what others say, say it when you have something to say, especially try to maintain a natural attitude and do not grab words with others, and it is best to have a sense of humor when speaking.

Third, always introspect, often compare with others, and find out your own strengths and weaknesses with a calm mind to correct them.

Fourth, try to be honest with others. Do your best for people, don't do it, don't do it, and do it well.

You can try these methods!

First, when encountering things, it will be beneficial to find the reasons from within yourself.

Second, work. After graduation, there is no job stability, and the ability to stand independently in society has not been established, which should be said to be a root problem. Work has a direct impact on the ripple effects that follow.

can only rely on his own ability to base himself on society, speak and do not say that he is confident, at least he does not have to look at other people's faces. It is recommended to sort out your interests, hobbies, majors and career expectations, and make a strategic plan for your career, step by step, without external interference.

Third, love. It may be that it has been hit at the same time as work, and it has been blinded for a while, and it will activate the self-protection mechanism, that is, self-isolation, reducing or even eliminating contact with the outside world. It's completely unnecessary, and if you're out of love, you're not alive.

It is advisable to have faith in yourself that all good things are worth waiting for.

Fourth, family affection. From the big interpersonal aspect, it's the same, pay attention to a respect when interacting with others, even if you don't like it, don't show it in person, maybe this aspect is more deeply influenced by your parents, after all, living together is the longest, in this regard, it is best to form your own characteristics of life, try to sum up experience, learn lessons, growth is a process, accompanied by life. It is recommended to restore contact with classmates, at least keep in touch with classmates who play well, one is to put pressure on yourself and push yourself to be independent, and the other is to exchange information and constantly expand your social circle.

Treat family members and relatives with respect, even if you don't understand, don't argue.

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

In our daily lives, we often actively share our joys or feelings with others, and in the process of sharing, we feel happier. ......But recently, my desire to share has decreased a lot, and I no longer like to share with others. ......There are many reasons for this change, including a lack of soulmates that leads to a decrease in one's desire to share, a lack of a bosom friend who no longer shares because he does not want to burden others, and a lack of wanting to share because of a more indifferent state of mind.

1. Because of the lack of bosom friends, my desire to share gradually decreases.

The foundation of sharing is based on like-minded people and mutual acquaintances. Sharing is established when two people have the same or similar views on an issue. ......But if no one agrees with your opinion, you won't share it, and you won't find someone to share it with.

At this time, your desire to share will decrease.

2. In order not to increase the burden on others, I am not willing to share anymore.

Although sharing makes people feel happy, objectively speaking, frequent sharing can be a burden on others, which is not good for others or for themselves. ......Therefore, when you realize this problem, you will not want to share it because you don't want to burden others. ......As your experience grows, your understanding of this aspect of the problem will become more profound, and your desire to share will decrease.

3. As I get older, my mood becomes more indifferent and I no longer like to share.

For young people, they are energetic, lively and active, and they like to socialize with people very much. For people of Shangchang's age, they will behave more calmly and their mood will be more calm. ......Therefore, as a person grows older, his interaction with others will gradually decrease, and correspondingly, the behavior of sharing with others will gradually decrease, and he will prefer to be alone and meditate.