I m very cowardly now, who came in to enlighten me!

I think that if you tolerate others again and again, he will think that it is your responsibility, and you should do that, always consider others, and accommodate others, and in their eyes, you owe them You are a lamb to be slaughtered, don't think that you are high, and if you continue like this, they will only bully you Liu Bei said, I'd rather the people of the world bear me, I won't bear the people of the world, don't be so great, I agree with what Cao Cao said, I'd rather bear the people of the world, than let the people of the world bear me, at least then you won't get hurt Everyone is equal and not inferior Remember, in combination with the current situation There is no difference between a good person and a stupid person Maybe you were a stupid person before, but you must be a smart person in the future If yesterday you dreamed of failure Then tomorrow will you succeed? Tomorrow is changeable, change it yourself!!

Humility to others, empathy to others, consideration of others, and accommodation to others are not nests, these are all things that a person with noble character should do. The real nest is that others deliberately bully you, but you blindly tolerate it, and would rather suffer dumb losses than resist.

I hope that you can always insist on your nobility, and at the same time be able to say "no" loudly when you feel that your interests have been seriously violated, know how to refuse and know how to defend your rights.

I think so...The more you are like this, the more others think you are weak and easy to bully....It's a vicious circle. You should make a new friend, try to change yourself from him, don't always be humble, say what you think...Do what you want to do. If you succeed, you can slowly bring an assertive you to old friends...They'll be impressed with you....

Remember....Be sure to take your time....Don't worry....You can definitely do it! I'm rooting for you.

I would like to ask you: have you been hit by something serious? Sometimes there's nothing wrong with empathizing with others and accommodating others.

But you have to look at the situation, and you have to look at what kind of people you are targeting. You can't generalize. You can't say it's a wretch, it's just a temporary setback.

It's good to get over that.

Think more about yourself, why do you have to think so much about others? It's weird. Also, find more good friends, especially the kind of people who value friendship, don't look down on others, have their own personality, and match your liking.

That's not called a nest, it's being kind to others. So do I. Man has to live his own life. But you can't blindly humble others in life. Moderation is sufficient.

You understand your thoughts first! Kindness is not weakness. Comity is certainly not a nest. Your question is what, who has backed down?

2 can have. But the 2 to the worthy of the person will get.

This is not called a nest, this is just the way you care about others, there is nothing wrong with spelling, it's just that others don't understand you, this is an advantage.

Alas, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. You're going to have to get colder.

It's good to be good yourself, and you don't care what others do.

You are still a student, and in your mind the concept of brothers is to share blessings and difficulties. Stick a knife for the two brothers. Please correct this thinking immediately.

When you grow up, you will find that the so-called brothers are only eating and drinking, and they are very united when they fight. Even students do the same. Friendship is better than what is now called brotherhood, so you should find a good friend, a good friend to talk to, a close friend, it will be of great help to you.

And your brother may give you some advice when you are upset, but you can try, and their advice is perfunctory, or simply incoherent. I hope you think twice, or study hard, and don't participate in those things.

Brother, I had the same experience as you when you were so old, also because we were both young at the time, there were many things we never thought about, I don't know what a brother is, brother is not you talking to him or talking to him is a good brother, not the same, the real good brother is to take the initiative to help you solve when you are in trouble (of course, I am not talking about fighting) is to comfort you when you are in a bad mood, and when you are impulsive (such as fighting) to block you and persuade you. It's a brother, brother, if you don't know the word brother now, in fact, it's nothing, I'm the same when I'm old, brother is by your heart, good brother is not much, I'm the same, to be honest, I don't go back to enlighten people, but to brother is to be heart-to-heart, I just do it, so I have a lot of brothers now, don't fight, there is no point in fighting. I wish you a good brother soon.

Adolescence is an eventful season, and everybody experiences it, and the occasional quarrel is sometimes based on mutual trust.

What about your own gang, not only do you not push it out, but you also have to do a better job to prove that you don't have anyone who is the same.

It's okay. Maybe it will be fine in two days.

It's going to be fine as you get older.

Find another relationship. Be responsible for yourself. Why worry about a woman? After all, I have driven myself into a dead end.

That's your first love, everyone is unforgettable, we will always push the difficult problem to time, then give yourself a little time and get rid of it. Try to appreciate the people around you, maybe your colleagues will see her shadow, and that's normal. But love, what a man should have most is responsibility.

Finally, don't let your sadness be used as an excuse to escape from pleasure and reality, men will be more mature psychologically and mentally when they go through a relationship. You come out and you feel different. Good luck to the landlord!

You also have to enlighten, friend, you yourself talk about the problem so dead, no one enlightens it, the best thing is to let yourself relax and face what needs to be faced.

Introverted? I guess it's better to be a little open to everything.

I'm very direct in my words, and I avoid a lot of trouble, try it yourself, I guess you want to trap yourself to death, or be like a man, be brave, don't be like a girl.

Remember the lesson, a relationship that doesn't move around equals okay.

my god ！Do you know each other? Maybe in this case, it will be comfortable to be a friend and a lover.

Also, don't think too much about it, take this love as a compulsory course in life, and don't care too much about it, otherwise you will miss out on beautiful things.

Perhaps, in the eight years you have been in love with her, she has long been no longer her, and you have kept it for her, maybe you have missed a lot of opportunities in the past eight years...

I'll start with a job, the job is earned by yourself, you are also a college graduate (although it is difficult for college students to find a job now), but as long as you don't think too high of yourself, you will definitely find a job that is okay, with a job, work hard, and get promoted by your boss, you will find that even if you think that the work of pediatrics is not good at what you do, it is not better than others (in the company, don't care too much about the salary, just as a process of experience accumulation, in the next few years, Experience is your biggest asset when you find a job).

Speaking of family, I actually feel very helpless in this situation of your family, but after all, as children, we can't say anything, your father didn't help you find a job, don't blame your father (men always like their children to be self-reliant and born), as for your mother, just say this, it's really not good, be more considerate of them.

Finally, when it comes to feelings, wages are just that, don't think so much, high wages only mean that the ability to consume is high, not other aspects. So please face this change with peace of mind.

Regardless of your final choice, please be calm and face your parents, they may not have done well, but they didn't hurt you, did they? After all, your life is in your own hands, not controlled by them; Please face your boyfriend safely, in fact, your boyfriend does not pay you more because his salary is higher than yours, men always hope that they can be more capable than their women, you just give him a chance to embody; Work hard, no matter how high or low the salary is, because you have to have your own financial foundation to control your life.

At the end, I will nag again: I wish you happiness!

It's hard for you to be a parent like this.

If I were you, I would go to the county town to find a job, even if the salary is not as high as it is now. After all, there is a boyfriend there, and it is possible to leave this annoying home. You'll earn more in the future.

Your boyfriend makes more money than you and you're out of balance? Are you afraid that he will dislike you or will you be psychologically uncomfortable? Isn't it good that he makes more money, you two save together and endure for another year, and you can get married and leave your family completely.

If your boyfriend really loves you, then the relationship between the two of you will not fade.

First of all, I don't think your father is weak, you also said that your father is a middle level in the company, if you are so incompetent as you say, how can you achieve such a position.

Then there is your mother, she has the freedom to choose her life, don't be too swayed by the life of her parents, the worst idea is nothing more than that they are divorced, but this does not mean that they do not love you.

Girls should be self-reliant, it is necessary to find a good job, but it is not necessary to be higher than your boyfriend, if a man will snub you or leave you because his salary is higher than yours, is such a person still worthy of your love???

Don't complain about your life, at least you're still online.

It's the effort that makes the most difference.

It's all about yourself, not on others.

You think your boyfriend will think you're underpaid, it's just that you think, not him.

Don't think it's too hard. If you don't think about him, the two of you will be happier!!

Get married early!

Go to the county with your boyfriend and look for a job again!

If this continues, family affection and love are all ruined, and it is not worth it

Work hard, your way is at your feet.

Believe in yourself, and one day you will find a path to success that belongs to you.

Grasp the opportunity of work first, because the contradiction between parents to be honest, is not something we can solve, the reason why the contradiction is caused by long-term accumulation, so now your task is to work hard, and after having a career, you will have a stronger ability and a more perfect angle to deal with the problems between parents.

Hey, instead of continuing to be sad, it's better to go to the big city to find your own sky, it's not easy to find a job when you're a college student, but it's better than a higher job, a junior college. Staying at home will only allow opportunities to slip through the way. I'm afraid that if I quit my current job, I will be wordy to death by my mother.

Earn a breath there, go out and prove to her that the money she spent on you was not in vain.

First, you are a girl's family, not to mention whether you have to learn to create your own future independently. But you shouldn't complain about your parents not helping you get a relationship and find a job when you are an adult, after all, everyone has their own hardships, everyone has their own space, since you complain that your parents shouldn't humiliate you, what right do you have to complain about your parents who have raised you for 18 years and have fulfilled their support obligations. At the very least, you should repay all the expenses that your parents have paid you since you turned 18, and you don't know if you have calculated the amount.

And I think you should have the ability to live independently after going to university, if you stick to the above ideas, I really think you have studied in vain! You didn't have an independent academic life in four years of college?

Second, men can never be relied on, and women want to be happy, first of all, they must be financially independent.

Lose your job, if you really love each other, go to the county with your boyfriend, lose your father's love and mother's love, don't lose the most important love in your life.

It's pathetic! It's all about pulling! Actually, it's not a big deal!

I'm pretty annoyed right now, too! Family matters, school matters, emotional matters, many things overwhelm me! Either way, I think sleep is the best thing to do!

Feel much better after a good night's sleep! And then slowly solve it one thing at a time! If you really can't solve it, don't leave it alone!

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain! There will always be a result in the end! Regardless of whether the result is good or bad, in short, having a result means that the matter is solved!

That's when I'm so much more relaxed! And so do you! You can also get some sleep, get yourself in a better mood first, and then work out everything slowly!

If the object doesn't work, you can change it again! There is no need to hang yourself from a tree! How are the parents doing, after all, it's them, not you!

You can move out to live with friends and occasionally contact your family, and that way, your parents' affairs will be sorted out! Seeing that you can get married, you should be older than me! I'm sure you can think of a better solution than I do!

As a person who has worked for more than 10 years, I tell you, Chinese society is like this now, really, there is no way, either you adapt to the society, or the society abandons you. We have a colleague, 27 years old, who is absolutely amazing when he shoots the leader, and he has no face and no skin. Our leader is a woman, he said that the leader is closer than his mother, really, now he has been transferred to a higher authority, and he wants this kind of person, haha, no way.