Enlighten me with well meaning people.

Don't do that. Think things out of the way a little bit. Your friend lied to you because of his dishonesty, his dishonesty, it was his fault, you have no problem, and you don't mislead yourself.

I think your boyfriend is right to do this when you don't have money, and if you do, it only means that your personal demographics are problematic. You can borrow some from your friends first and work it out slowly.

Regardless of whether the friend who borrowed your money is cheating on you or not, you should not deceive another person, if you know that the friend who borrowed your money is cheating people, then you are deceiving other people, isn't the nature the same as him? Therefore, our principles of life must not be influenced by others, if he really deceives you, we should spend money to buy lessons and recognize a person! In this case, you can ask your boyfriend to accompany you and go directly to your friend to ask him to pay him back.

Don't do to others what you don't want to do to others, you have already tasted the taste of being deceived, and it is not comfortable, so don't let others be affected by your feelings, eat a trench and grow wise, remember not to pay attention to that kind of person in the future.

You at least recognize your friend's character, and you must despise your friend's character, and if you repeat this behavior, won't you become the same as him? Anyway, we can still make more money without this money, so let's lose it! Relax, you can't lose your favorite person because of this incident!

If the money is cheated, it should be used as a disaster or as a long-term investment Maybe your friend was forced Who has nothing to do like to do this trick of abduction and deception In the future, he will pay you back when he has money.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

I feel that it is difficult to accept being deceived.

Why lie to someone, right?

You must hate the person who lied to you.

Do you also want to be hated by others?

You accidentally stepped on someone else's poop while walking.

The most important thing you should do is not to go to that position again.

Instead of choosing a separate place, you can make a pile of poop yourself and let others step on it.

Harming others is not good for oneself.

I really don't know what you think, if someone lies to you, you want to lie to others? Friends who can be deceived by you are worthy of your heart, and it is your own loss.

Because you don't know how to say no.

You should be a kinder person, maybe a bit introverted and sensitive.

When people around you ask you for help or help, you usually don't refuse, but in fact, you are not very willing.

Maybe the people around you think you are very warm-hearted and like to be helpful, so they are also used to letting you do this and that.

It may also be that they often ask you to do things for them because you don't refuse every time they ask you to do things.

If you find yourself in a similar situation again, try to say what you really think in your heart (tactfully, of course, so as not to ruin the relationship).

Maybe some people don't mean to toss you, but you don't say it, so he doesn't know what you think.

Lack of self-confidence. This is the most fundamental problem.