Taboos in words and deeds, pay attention to words and deeds

It means words and actions that are forbidden or taboo; Refers to things that should be avoided in medicine.

Pronunciation: jìn jì.

Citation: Hyundai Lu Xun.

And Jieting Essays, casually flip through it": "Look at an old calendar that says, 'Not suitable for traveling, not for bathing, not suitable for going on the beam', you know that there were so many taboos before. ”

synonyms: taboo.

Example: Everything related to dreams is taboo for me, you can hurt me at will in life, I don't care, but you can't touch my dreams.

Taboo, a Chinese word, means words and deeds that are forbidden or taboo.

1. Name: Taboo.

2. Pronunciation: jìn jì

3. Interpretation: 1. Words and deeds that are prohibited or taboo.

Commit the emperor's taboo.

2. Refers to things that should be avoided in medicine.

3. Derived from Polynesian, it originally meant "sacred" and "extraordinary", and was later extended to "forbidden" and "dangerous".

Fourth, the concept: 1A kind of prohibition formed by people's attitude towards things that are sacred, unclean, and dangerous.

2.Dangerous and punitive are the two main features of taboos. It is the self-defense measures taken by people psychologically, in words and deeds for their own utilitarian purposes, and it is born from the worship of ghosts.

3.The taboo can be roughly divided into three stages: primordial stage, secondary stage and transformation and extinction.

4.Funeral taboos and ancestor worship are the original forms of taboos, and they are most directly related to ghost beliefs.

5.In the secondary stage, people inherited the taboos that appeared in the ghost worship of the primitive period, institutionalized, ritualized, and made cumbersome regulations.

6.In people's lives, whether it is etiquette, festivals, industries, etc., everything that is considered unlucky is almost taboo.

7.Since the beginning of modern times when the mind was emancipated and superstitions were broken, science gradually penetrated into the hearts of the people, and taboos naturally died out and transformed.

8.Taboos were originally passive precautions taken by ancient people because of supernatural fears or superstitious ideas. It used to play a role in regulating and restricting the law in ancient social life.

9.Today, many taboos have gradually died out with the elimination of people's mysteries and superstitious notions of forbidden objects, but there are still many taboos left behind and affecting people's lives.

Words and actions that are forbidden or taboo.

Hello.,I've got it.,It's all in there.,Now I've been using this to see.,Look at what I have.。。 Look at the personality signature! You can see the taboo.

In the usual conversation, don't make up and brag about yourself or how others are in front of others. Only humility can increase the credibility of others, and if you blow it indiscriminately, you will appear ignorant.

Be trustworthy to others and be punctual on time. If others entrust you with things, you must do what you can do, and if you are not sure, it is best not to agree, otherwise it is easy to lose your trust. When you have a meeting, run an errand, or go to an appointment, you must be on time so that you can win the trust of others.

Your clothes can match your identity, too casual can sometimes make people feel uncomfortable, and too much clothing will make people think that you are vain. In a social place, as long as you feel neat, generous, and decent, and can be in harmony with the whole environment, it is OK.

In an unfamiliar place, it's best not to look around, let alone flip through other people's things. It is rude for you to interrupt someone when they are talking, and it is also rude to be absent-minded when listening to someone else.

Be warm and friendly with others. If you are arrogant and rude, you will easily arouse the disgust of others, and if you are flattering and groveling, it will damage your personality and make people look down on you.

In the process of dating, don't casually ask about other people's privacy, talking too much will make people annoying.

When you go to someone else's house to do something, unless they insist on keeping you, you will not leave, which will make people criticize you.

When interacting with people, there are some things that you can't take too seriously. If someone unintentionally hurts your self-esteem, you can't mind too much, if you're too sensitive, it will make people think you're suspicious, and you can't be too impulsive if someone else says something in jokes.

Avoid some undignified habits, such as picking your nose, dipping your saliva in your book, asking someone to do it for you, not knowing how to thank you, and not apologizing for doing something wrong.

Proper humor can increase the atmosphere of interpersonal communication, and also help to ease some of the awkward atmosphere, but also bring you chic and charm, so that you can live in a relaxed mind.

Pay attention to the personality and venue of the people you come into contact with, and you can joke with these appropriate occasions, and you must pay attention to your words and deeds, and be calm and busy without being chaotic in formal occasions.

Dress appropriately and elegantly, behave slowly or quickly, listen to the other party's questions clearly, answer in a targeted manner, speak in a calm tone, and speak clearly. Through a short period of contact, you can express your well-fitting dress, proper manners, and confident language! Do the above and your interview will be a success!

Many graduates exchange clothes with their classmates and friends when they are going to interview, and rarely choose a set of clothes that really suit them. Suits, skirts and other transfer stickers will also appear on the BBS of major universities, and these formal clothes are called "interview clothes" by graduates. However, the clothes that are "transferred" from others may not be suitable for themselves, and if the effect is not good, there will be a counter-effect.

We often see male graduates wearing ill-fitting suits walking into the examination room at the interview site, which is completely inconsistent with their own temperament, and it is better to wear casual clothes. Sometimes girls wear miniskirts to enter the examination room, which is not in line with the occasion and gives people an undignified feeling. In the job interview, you must match your clothes reasonably according to your own temperament, don't blindly pay attention to formal or bright spots, and the most important thing is to meet your own characteristics.

Pay attention to words and deeds.

During the interview, he kept shaking his legs, obviously, he was unconscious of these small movements, but the interviewer took them all in his eyes.

From the moment you enter the door, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not have habitual small movements such as touching your scalp and rubbing your nose. When facing the interviewer, the attitude should be sincere and humble; After sitting, do not hunch over and do not sway your calves; The dress should be simple and elegant, boys' hair should not cover their foreheads, and girls should not wear too much perfume; If a girl wears a skirt, she should not wear socks, which will look like a "three-legged" feeling.

Interview is the most important part of job hunting, for the majority of job seekers, "details determine success or failure", we must pay attention to these small details, in order to lead to a successful job search.

Be prepared, don't be late, preferably 10 minutes early, speak politely, look natural, smile, be confident and sit down when the examiner tells you to "take a seat". When you sit down, don't lean back against a chair, don't hunch your waist, and don't necessarily straighten your waist, as this will give the impression of being rigid, and you should naturally straighten your waist. At the end of the interview, it's time to stand up and thank the examiner.

Open the door as you walk out of the interview room, then turn around and bow to the examiner and thank you again. Then gently close the door.

In the company, it is necessary to handle the relationship with colleagues, to do things in a high-profile manner, and to be a low-key person. We should pay attention to civility and politeness, be orderly, humble to each other, be close to each other, and remember: respecting others is respecting ourselves, and being convenient with others is convenient for ourselves.

Confucius once said: Those who are respectful are not insulted, those who are lenient are popular, those who are sensitive are meritorious, those who believe are allowed to do anything, and those who benefit are enough to make people.