My ex boyfriend was mindful of what my presence meant

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're not wrong, such a person can't be called a man, cheating a girl out of money, there is no news, such a person hurry up and get the money back, don't pay attention to him, he doesn't deserve you, don't be sad, it will pass soon, there is a wonderful waiting for you behind, good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He's stupid C-1, really, an absolute disgrace to our boys!

    Please don't confuse him with us. He doesn't deserve your nostalgia and put the money.

    I'm going to come back and tell all the girls about you!!

    I see how he sticks flowers everywhere! Don't think about him anymore, him.

    If you don't deserve it, you find a good one, bring it to him, and tell him that you wanted it before.

    It's not that you are so pitiful and begging me, I don't bother to pay attention to you! Hmph, him off!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Good men don't promise women easily, bad men promise women every day, and they all break up and don't pay back their ex-girlfriends? Are you kidding. If I dump my girlfriend, I won't care if I go out to pick up garbage and eat, and I won't care if she borrows money. Is there no dignity for people? At least he didn't.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    lz if it's aimed at your title, that's all it can say. Your appearance will affect his current appearance"Communicative"Relationship. It's as simple as that.

    If it's for your content. You're dumped just because he doesn't feel new.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have you found a man, there are a lot of good men, and when you get married, your eyes should be bright, and you won't be hurt again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I suggest you go and see the movie "Twelve Nights".

    Feelings are vividly reflected in it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello! Is it necessary to mind your boyfriend's ex all the time? I think there are two scenarios for this issue:

    1.My boyfriend has no contact with his ex-girlfriend and can't get along, I don't think there's any need to mind in this case, let the past be a thing of the past. Live your little life well, and live a sweet and happy life.

    2.If the boyfriend is still in touch with his ex, and he will meet and have a meal together from time to time, I believe that 100% of girls will mind. The current girlfriend will have a sense of crisis.

    Now that you have broken up with your ex and have a current one, you should draw a line with your ex and keep your distance. Give your current girlfriend enough security.

    Of course, two people should still give each other enough trust when they are in love. If there is something that two people can communicate well face-to-face, talk about things, understand and tolerate each other, and love can last longer. Finally, I wish you all happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to mind your boyfriend's ex, because now everyone in Nanjing has several partners? The main thing is that the two of you love each other, the previous things are in the past, don't think too much, glory, you two are happy, he loves you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's necessary to keep minding your boyfriend's ex, I don't feel like there's any need for this, everyone has a past, and since it's over, then you have to let it go, so why bother? If so, you are asking for trouble, as long as he really loves you now and treats you well, it is fate between two people, and since their fate is over, that is the beginning of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not necessary, and you can't mind your boyfriend's ex all the time, you're not too young, and it's not easy to find a boyfriend who doesn't have a story, and you've always minded your boyfriend's ex, which will only add pain to yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think there's any need to mind your boyfriend's ex, everyone has a past, what you love is him now, as long as he is good to you, if you are entangled in his ex, then you are not suitable to be together, you will not be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's necessary, since it's already an ex, it means that it's in the past and has nothing to do with you. If you continue to mind, then you won't be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There's no need: your boyfriend just needs to be nice to you, don't care if he has an ex. Chong, Xu people have the freedom to make friends, but he chose you. Be good to you, if you don't have half a heart, you can rest assured to love him! You will be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you've always minded your boyfriend's celestial being, then the two of you are not suitable for being together. Does your boyfriend's ex hurt you. Now there are a lot of friends who have talked about it, and some of them are.

    Don't dwell on that. If you keep minding. You're going to be unhappy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not necessary, it looks like you're a little stingy, and the pattern is low! As long as he doesn't mention it and the two of them don't have contact, don't mind!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as he truly loves you, there's no need to care about his ex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Is it necessary? This question is put aside for the time being, since you asked, it means that you are more concerned about this problem, but you are very entangled, if your boyfriend and his ex are disconnected, then it is not that you mind the problem, but that he should not do it, if it is just that you ask for something excessive, or you always feel worried about this situation, you need to adjust yourself, take a step back and open the sky.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There's no need to mind, but if her presence gets in the way of your normal interactions, then have a good conversation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There's no need, as long as you're okay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it any good for you to compete with your boyfriend's ex? Who hasn't had a few exes these days, and how would you feel if your boyfriend had been minding your ex? A wise woman will live well in the moment and seize the happiness in front of her!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There's no need to bother yourself, who hasn't clicked on it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking to heart the things that make the ants unhappy.

    When you mind a person's past, it means that the person's past is not boring and exciting. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things as hidden, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    2. Unless you are already disgusted with each other, unless you have not loved each other before, unless you have no feelings for him at all, unless he has never entered your heart.

    3. It's normal to understand and spy on your ex's current life, and you have that curiosity, but if you want to completely get out of the previous relationship, you should try to minimize the peeping into your ex's life and let time dilute the memories of him, because if you keep spying on it, it will have a very big impact on your psychology and make it more difficult for you to get out of the shadow of the previous relationship.

    4. Generally, people who are more deeply invested are more difficult to come out, and obviously, you are more deeply invested than him.

    5. If you want to come out completely, you can start a new relationship, and you must stop Sun Yunzhi from spying on his life, find something to get busy, let yourself slowly forget him, give yourself a little time, and there will definitely be a forgotten Kaiqiao day.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The answer to this question depends on the values and personality of the ex-boyfriend. Some people may be very concerned about their partner's past, while others will not be too concerned. Generally speaking, if you haven't broken the law, committed a crime, or acted immorally in the past, most ex-boyfriends won't be overly scrutinized.

    But if you've had certain behaviors or incidents that have affected your ex-boyfriend's perception and feelings about you. In conclusion, it is important to communicate with your ex-boyfriend to allow you to understand each other better and deepen your relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Some people mind very much, afraid that the other party's past has no past, afraid that the ex will cry and the current will lose, and some people don't care, and if they don't participate in the first half of the other party's life, they will try to be the rest of their lives.

    In fact, if you care too much about the other party's past, or even linger on it, it will only estranged the current relationship and eat away at each other's trust, and in the end it must be a parting of ways, and it really doesn't make sense to punish the present with the past. The past is in the past, there is no way to erase it, and there is no way to change it, and what we can do is to cherish the present and join hands in the future.

    Anyone has a past experience, and if you want to say that you don't mind at all, it's a lie, how to say it, if you really care about the other person, you will still let go of the past. After all, the present and the future are more important. In fact, everyone has some kind of experience, whether it is good or bad, those unforgettable will still leave traces in their hearts after all.

    Since two people can be together, they should let go of the past. In the face of the present and the future in the future, those past things have passed, we don't have to deliberately forget those memories, it's good to be plain, it's good to be happy.

    Because I had to break up.

    Life has to go on, and the wounds of falling out of love will slowly heal over time, so who doesn't have a few romances in their life, these are all normal.

    Who doesn't have the past, but some people don't mind the other half's past, the past is the past, and the most important thing is the present, and some people don't mind the other half of the past very much.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because others actually care about you very much, thinking of the past when you were with Naiyuan Beimu Hongren, you will feel very uncomfortable in your heart, after all, now Chang Nai collapses in his own, and he will have bad emotions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's normal to mind, it shows that he cares about you.

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