Boyfriend canceled our date? What should I do

In fact, you are not at fault, just don't love to be angry, usually men don't like girls to lose their temper at every turn, men like women to be coquettish, when you often get angry or calculating for a sentence or a trivial thing that is not worth mentioning, the other party will feel very tired with you, it doesn't matter once or twice, and it can't be done often.

And a man will choose between several girls at the same time (in this case, the other party is in his heart, you can't see it).

If he hangs you up within three minutes, then he may be dating someone else at the time (most likely, judging by the three-minute call), and there is some of his physical needs of a mature man who can't get from you, so at this time there is another person who can give him, what will he do...

What you need to do is: send a message when he doesn't answer **, ask him rhetorically with an attitude of admitting his mistake, and summarize the reasons in the message he replies to you.

Oh, what men need most is self-esteem and face! It's just one day, it's okay, if he really loves you, tomorrow will be fine! If he really doesn't love you, he may always be like this, after all, he is so mature!

You don't have to worry too much, there is no one right or wrong in love, it's normal to have a small conflict for a while, just be happy!

Guys like to joke with the women they like, and sometimes it's too much, but if it's just the two of you, it becomes a kind of sweetness, and you get angry because of what he said, and he's annoyed, and of course he's a guy, and he's personable, so he turns around and laughs at you, and you get even angrier, and if you say something that's more aggressive, of course he'll get angry.

I remember watching TV today, and there was a passage in it: It was the boy's fault, the girl got angry, the boy comforted the girl, apologized to her, the girl didn't appreciate it, and got even more angry, so the two continued to quarrel, and the quarrel to the end, getting farther and farther away from the real reason for the quarrel.

There are also psychological problems: girls are angry about small things, boys are already very annoyed, but they have to say good things to girls, and when they say good things, not only do they not appreciate it, but they also say ugly things, and they are hostile to boys, and boys' patience is generally not good, and then the fire will get bigger and bigger.

So you should be very serious about talking to him and talking about your psychology If he doesn't answer, you will text and try to say good things After all, you are going to get married, so you can make a step give way.

I wish you all a happy marriage.

It's too sensitive, maybe people don't mean to insult you!

What are men most afraid of women? Crying, making trouble, and hanging!

This is going to marry home, and the family must not be turned upside down? Cold.

Let's think about whether I should marry you, I guess!

Don't overthink it. Maybe he might have something.

Sad? What's the use of being sad, ask him the reason, pay attention to ask in a soft tone, and don't be too tough.

Once you know what the problem is, it's time to solve it. Was he unwell or was there something else important?

Or is it something special?

If he doesn't want to say don't push too hard, otherwise he will feel very uncomfortable and will have a rebellious mentality.

Be lenient in everything, and things will get better.

Why are you so suspicious?

That's not good!

What if something really happened to him?

It won't be that he doesn't care about you, sometimes some socialization is inevitable, it's impossible that you're the only one in his world, or you need to socialize with other people, it's easier to do things with more friends, you have to understand him, you can think about it from another angle, if your friends get together, do you choose to wronged your boyfriend, or choose to offend a person.

Why didn't he take you with him? If he thinks you're his girlfriend, it's just right to take you to a friend's party!!

It's important for men to socialize.

Anyway, you're here for a long time.

It's yours and you'll never be able to run

You're a little more generous.

Let your boyfriend feel guilty about you.

Far more cost-effective than if you show anger at it

I hope you can be happy! ~

Excuse A real man is a lone wolf.

Whether he really has a social scene or wants to avoid you, you shouldn't be wrong to say that:

Make a ** to the senior and say, "Senior, I'm **, are you done?" If the other party says that he is done, then 89 out of 10 is allowed to go to him, and you can say, "I don't know if it's convenient to go to you now?" I'm afraid it's too late to affect your rest.

Do you think I'm going to go over now or another day? "Then look at the other person's opinion.

If the other party says that you are not done yet, you say, "Then you are busy, it's a little late today, why don't I find you another day, what do you think?" If the other party answers well, then you have to think about whether the other party is "dragging" or really agreeing. If the other party makes it clear when you will go to look for him, then you must go to him on time.

Hehe, you try not to go out during this time.

Don't use Q on the computer

Only on your phone.

Then he said that your parents took you out of the field, and it would take a while to come back, and the landlord asked for a share.

In my message, it is to cancel the relationship.

To the marriage tree class.

Thank you for adopting o(o

Click on the QQ settings on your phone, find the contacts, privacy options, and scroll down to turn off the acceptance of appointment information.

I think this senior may be a little annoyed because you are coming at night, think about it, the senior has already said that there is a party at night, it may be that he does not want to receive you and put forward the pretext, and you said to come later at this time, isn't that a loophole?! So I should immediately reply to **, I just made a mistake for a while, I want to go at night, I really can't leave, I won't bother you today, another day, I will definitely visit another day.

The meaning of changing the day here does not necessarily mean that he is going, but implies that "I will not disturb my predecessors anymore".

Of course, it means that if you want to go, you can still go.

For example, in a few days, pick a good weather, call ** again, condolences, and then change the topic, say, what good things I bought today, you can also taste it. Or, I have something to do today, and I really need you to do me a favor, so that's it. If it still doesn't work, change it again, it's all a reason.

Of course, people now say that this is a bit hypocritical, but if the seniors really made this decision because they didn't want to receive you, then it would definitely be very annoying for you to go, after all, he is a senior, and we have to respect the wishes of the seniors as juniors.

The Chinese talk about integrity! Spirit! Together!

Since you've said it, you can't cancel the contract casually.

Then someone else will feel like that! I can't put it into words!!

Just tell him that there is something going on at home.

Simple questions don't complicate words, you just need to send him a text back:

Brother Liu, my Xiao Wang, I didn't think about it carefully when I hit ** just now, you should be tired after you are busy, just take a good rest, I won't trouble you, I'm making an appointment with you on Monday or Tuesday, you see.

Simple and clear, it's much better than playing **, because you don't know what he was doing at the time, it's not good for everyone to hit rashly, and if you are not very mature, you can exercise, feel that you can't do it well, you can record this matter, what is the matter, what did you do at the time, what did you think later, and then check it regularly, it will be exercised, and don't take these small things too seriously, otherwise it will leave a very bad impression.

Immediately hit **, explain it to the old-timers, and ask if it is too late to finish the entertainment. The body is too tired. If that's the case, let's change the day, if the senior is in a good mood, in good spirits, and very happy to meet you, then don't shirk it.

What is your relationship? How ...... he behaved?

It's best to call ** later and say, "It's too late today, it should disturb your rest, you see it's like this, I'm visiting another day, okay?" Prepare with both hands, and he'll say, "Okay, I'm sorry, you're busy" or "I'm all set, it's okay, come on!" ”

That's OK.

No need to call**, it's better to express it by text:

Hello, excuse me, you have a party tonight, and you want to have a good rest at night, so I won't bother you. I'll see you another day. ”

Just hit ** and say another day, he will understand!

In fact, it is not as complicated as you think, and it is best to say it simply and clearly.

Since it's a senior, I won't bother with you!

Say that you want to ask him another day in order not to affect his rest, and then apologize to him, saying that you are sorry to disturb!

You are a timid person, you should do what you say, go, otherwise, you will not leave a good image in the hearts of your predecessors.

At a time when you don't know how to speak, telling the truth should be the best answer. You just said directly, you suddenly had something to do tonight, and it was too late to pass, please forgive him. He has guests himself, so he won't blame you.

Take the initiative to admit your mistakes...Think about it, if you cover him up like this, the elders will definitely know what the reason is, and it's better to take the initiative to admit your mistakes.

You can hit the ** and say; You don't know when you're going to socialize, and if it's late, you see if I'm here for you another day.

Tell him directly, I'm sorry, if he has something tonight, then he will visit another day, and ask him if he has time tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, if he chooses a day, you can make an appointment with a specific time If he says that he has no time recently, it is estimated that he doesn't want to meet you You have to find someone who has a close relationship with him to help you make an appointment I wish you success!

Your concerns are right, and rightly so. Just follow your concerns and say this on your mobile phone: Senior So-and-so originally planned to visit his predecessor tonight.

You said that there is a party, I am afraid that you will come home late and affect your rest, I think it is better to visit your old man another day, I don't know when you will have time. Since you promised to go to his house. Be sure to go to the circle according to the above method.

Otherwise, seniors tend to feel that you are too casual and appear immature.

Judging from your description, you should have a crush on this girl, and this girl took the initiative to ask for a date and was very happy, but the girl canceled the date four times, and it can be seen that he should have other reasons.

It shows that girls still care about you very much, and I suggest that you should take the initiative to date later. And be prepared to see him as much as possible.

I don't think there's any need to be sad, because it's obvious that she made an appointment with you, but she actually missed the appointment, and four times, but it's only three, which means that people may just use you as a spare tire, don't be stupid.

4 times in a row, she asked you to cancel temporarily, that feels like you are a spare tire, and she is very casual with you, the next time she asks you again, don't agree.

I think the girl proposed to cancel the date temporarily, of course, you will think that the girl does not pay attention to you, and it will be uncomfortable, you should ignore him next time when he asks you out, don't believe it, this girl is not worthy of your trust, ignore him.

It is already rare for a girl to take the initiative to ask you out, maybe she can't be on time because of something temporary, you can also ask her out, or ask the reason, don't rely on guessing.

It is not right for a girl to ask you out on a date by herself, because it is really uncomfortable to release pigeons often, you have to communicate with her and tell her that you are in a bad mood.

Then you can also take the initiative to ask him out, sometimes. There are some things that are very busy and you don't have time or things that change on the fly, so sometimes you can also take the initiative so that you can see that you have a positive attitude.

Then it's good if you ask her out next time, she will ask you out, just to get along with you. Maybe fate is not enough, so there is something to miss the appointment, you ask her to try it.

The other party offered to ask you out.

But you are released 4 more times.

So what does the other party do?

Why is there always something all of a sudden?

Isn't it very busy at work?

If yes.

Then it doesn't matter.

You can wait for each other a little longer.

You can also take the initiative to ask the other person.

In this case, I feel that the other person is playing and making jokes for you, and it is impossible to leave me every time because of something.

The girl's approach is very strange, repeated, and uncomfortable is also reasonable, you can talk to her well and see her attitude towards feelings.

There's no need to feel bad, you can find another opportunity to continue to date her, and then prepare well.

Yes, this is four times in a row, no one is upset, you have to explain to the girl, let him know that this is good, let the girl feel guilty, next time change him, and she is not allowed to be happy, should be an appointment.

Maybe he had something more important to do and canceled the date for the time being. Don't be uncomfortable, it's useless to be uncomfortable. Let it be.

I feel like you shouldn't go again in this case, I feel like he's deliberately teasing you by releasing pigeons.

I think you will not feel bad in your heart, you must first figure out the real reason for this matter, if this girl is really in a temporary emergency, and he has explained it to you clearly, then you don't have to be sad.

But if this girl's explanation is vague, she didn't eat, and the reason for temporarily canceling your appointment is not very important, it is enough to prove that this girl is probably deliberately teasing you.