If I had to choose, should I choose someone I like, or someone who likes me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes you can forgive a person you love for leaving you, but you can't stand a person who has loved you for a long time and turns away, and on the day of loss, you will find that the person who really needs each other is you and not him, so you still choose to like you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are ready to be hurt, then you should choose the person you like, after all, he is the one you like; But on the contrary, if you don't have the courage to face the harm he brings to you, you should choose someone who likes you, at least he will love you well, and feelings can be cultivated, and now you are at least too concerned about the person you like and ignore that the person who likes you may be just as good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Choose someone who likes me......Because people who like you will give you care and thoughtfulness, and give you a happy ...... for the next stopAnd the person you like may not be able to give you happiness, maybe more loss and sadness!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, choose the person who likes you, choose the one you like, you will suffer for the rest of your life, and choose the happiness that likes you for a lifetime.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like yourself, he (she) will feel sorry for you, and if you like her (him), you feel sorry for her (he) and you don't feel sorry for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Choose someone who likes you! Child.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Like my people! He's going to hurt you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Choose someone who likes you, because she loves you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Preferably people who like each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Being liked by someone should be a very happy thing, but what if you don't like that person? It probably became an ordeal.

    It's not that it's painful, it's just that there's more guilt in my heart. Because he likes you, you don't dare to do anything to hurt him. So that after a long time, your so-called accommodation has become a mutual affection in his eyes.

    He begins to indulge and enjoy your kindness to him.

    So, you start to learn to keep your distance from him, but you inadvertently hurt his heart. You shattered all his good illusions, you made him start to become cowardly, and you just did a very ordinary thing. Why blame yourself for all these faults?

    Why can't I choose someone I like? Maybe you've asked yourself that.

    You see his smile fade from his face, his former liking turning into disgust, and he begins to avoid you and no longer expects your arrival. You are afraid that one day he will come out and expose your cruelty to him, he will point at your nose and scold, you want to defend but you don't choose to speak.

    In fact, your heart is also very uncomfortable, because you know how cruel it is to be snubbed by someone you like. But you have to do it because you don't want to be what other people say you are. It's not like that's in your nature, and you don't want to waste your time on someone you don't deserve love because you know what your loved one looks like.

    If you don't like it, why give hope to others? Maybe many people like to enjoy the feeling of being loved, but for the person who loves you, it is just delaying others. He deserves a better partner, and you don't deserve his love at all, because you don't want to force yourself to love someone you don't like.

    It's really hard to fall in love because you never meet your ideal partner. If you like yourself, you can't look down on yourself, and what you like is looked down on by others. So he waited in the vast sea of people, always extending the time back.

    Maybe I really didn't meet the right person, or maybe I was too picky.

    In life, we often see some people who are excellent in all aspects, but they are still single. Most of the reasons come from them personally, because the better their own conditions, the higher the requirements for choosing a mate, so they are always reluctant to compromise but continue to seek. However, those who are incapable but still have to stand on the shelf must learn to self-examine.

    May you find your life partner sooner in the future!

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In my personal experience, if I had to choose again, I would definitely choose the person who loves me, because I think it is easier to enjoy love than to love others, at least in married life, what woman doesn't like to be coaxed, hurt by others, and held in the palm of her hand? So I think you should choose someone who loves you, but only if you don't hate him very much, otherwise you won't talk about it. I wish you the happiness that belongs to you soon!