How can I be strong? How can I keep my eyes from tears? How not to be bullied by your husband

Self-reliance, self-reliance, self-esteem. This is a step-by-step process, think about your own strengths, or hobbies, and persistently carry them forward, without all-round development, one trick to eat all over the world. If you really don't have one, and you don't want to go against the grain, try if you can leave him.

Excuse me, are you often at odds, the long road of life, the saddest thing is a marriage without love, a hooligan, hugging cloth trade silk.

Bandits come to trade silk, and I seek to come.

Send the son to wade Qi, as for Dunqiu.

I am scared, and there is no good matchmaker.

There will be no anger, and the autumn will be for a period.

Take the other side of the wall, in the hope of recovering the customs.

I didn't see the resumption, and I was crying and rippling.

Seeing the resumption of customs, laughing and talking.

Erbr Zhen, no blame.

Bring the chariot with me, and bribe me to move.

The mulberry has not fallen, and its Ye Woruo.

Yu dove, no mulberry;

Yu is a woman, and there is no delay.

The scruffiness of the scholar can still be said;

The woman's timidity cannot be said.

The fall of the mulberry is yellow.

Self-inferior, three-year-old food poverty.

Qi water soup soup, gradually car drapery.

The woman is not happy, and the gentleman is not happy.

Scholars are also reckless, two or three of their virtues.

At the age of three, she was a woman and worked hard in the house;

Sleep at night, and have a bright future.

As for the violence.

The brother didn't know, and he laughed.

Quietly think about it, bow down and mourn yourself.

And you grow old, and you always make me resentful.

Qi has a shore, and Xi has a pan.

The banquet of the general horn, smiling and smiling.

Swear by it, don't think about it.

But if you don't think about it, it's already gone!

Translation: The man was honest and loyal, and he exchanged cloth for silk. I didn't really come to change the silk, I came here to discuss marriage.

Send you across the water and go straight to Dunqiu. It's not that I'm deliberately delaying time, it's that you don't have a good matchmaker. Please don't be angry and make autumn a wedding date.

Climb up to the fallen wall, and look at those who come. I didn't see the person who came, and tears fell from my eyes. When I finally saw you, I talked and laughed. You use tortoise plates and yarrow to divinate hexagrams, and there is no bad omen. You pick me up in a car, and I will marry you with my belongings.

When the mulberry tree has not yet shed its leaves, its leaves are fresh and moist. Alas, turtledoves, don't be greedy for mulberries! Alas, girl, do not indulge in the love of men. Men are indulged in love, and they can get out. The girl is indulged in love, and she can't get rid of it.

When the mulberry tree loses its leaves, its leaves wither and turn yellow, and they fall off one after another. Since I married into your family, I have endured a life of poverty for many years. The water was rolling and the splash wet the curtain on the car.

There was nothing wrong with the woman, but the man's behavior was inconsistent. A man's love is not fixed, and his feelings change again and again.

As your wife for many years, there is nothing you have to do in the hard work of the family. Wake up early and go to bed late, there's not a day that isn't like this. When your wish was fulfilled, you began to be violent towards me. My brothers didn't understand my situation and laughed at me. When you think about it, you can only be sad yourself.

I wanted to grow old with you, but to grow old with you will make me resentful. No matter how wide the water is, there is always a shore, and no matter how big the low and humid depression is, there is also a side (meaning that everything has a certain limit, which contrasts with the fickleness of men). When they were teenagers, they played happily together and talked and laughed to their heart's content.

The oath is sincere and sincere, I didn't expect you to change your mind. If you break your oath and don't remember your old feelings, then forget it!

This is not something that can be changed overnight, I think the most effective way is to make yourself indifferent, people who love to cry are first very emotional, you let your heart calm down first, don't touch too many things that have nothing to do with you, and gradually relax your heart.

Women must be independent and capable first, divorce is not the fundamental solution to the problem, if you divorce and find someone else, others still treat you like this? So the first thing to change is yourself.

If you can't leave, you're not brave, no one is strong for you.

What kind of bullying is bullying? Did he mess with you to bully you, or did he just bully you?

It's really bullying or joking.

Women must have their own economic income, have their own jobs, and be busy with their own affairs. If your focus is on him, then you really have to rely on him.

Go back to your mother's house for a while, if he can't work hard for your future, then he is not worth trusting. At the very least, a man should be able to support his family.

Be strong for yourself, for yourself and for your future.

It's obvious that your husband is a bit addicted to the internet, you just have too weak personality, and if you can be a little stronger, it won't be like that. If you want to be strong, you must have a clear mind, don't panic in case of trouble, and discuss problems with your family.

Women must learn to be independent in terms of economy and feelings, can't let him feel that you can't live without him, can't let him have that illusion about you, you must stand up bravely, let yourself be independent, say that he thinks you can live well without them, don't accommodate others in everything, sometimes, men's bad problems are spoiled by women. I believe you can do it, go seriously and find a job you like, don't isolate yourself from the world, you should inject more things into your life, instead of going around the house every day. You should expand your social reach.

When I saw this, I couldn't help but think of my sister immediately, and many of her are the same as you said, but they haven't been together for long, and I don't know if there will be anything going on. I'm just starting out now, and I always feel so good at first, in fact, I'm often worried that I'll encounter a situation like you in the future, and in my current situation, I will definitely not be able to stand it, and then I will divorce him. A woman should indeed have her own job, and now he doesn't let you go to work, which means that he is still worried about losing you, so tell him well, your family must have someone to go out to work to support the family.

Eat salty and light. To be angry is to punish yourself for what others have done wrong, anger will accelerate aging, women must learn to love themselves, and they must also learn to be strong. Think: What are those things? Why should I be angry and why should I cry?

Think about other things when you bully.

Why control? Looking at the words you type, you can feel that you are a lover of personality, and people's lives are very short. Dead people don't shed tears, and since they are going to die for a long time, don't embarrass yourself while you're alive.

It is necessary to have a strong will, a strong control mentality, and a relaxed mentality, and a perfect combination to achieve the goal!

It's very easy, that is, you don't want other people's comfort to be alone in everything, and then you will be very strong when you are in love, and now it is, such people are like this after falling out of love.

Tell yourself to be a strong person and not to be knocked down by anything.

In a word: be strong, be strong, be strong, and believe that everything will be okay with you.

Why do you have to control it, you can also endure it, and there is no shame in finding someone who no one is happy to cry.

I'm not strong, I won't let everyone see my tears, what's the big deal to endure it, it's a big deal to go home and hide under the covers and cry.

Look at everything lightly, don't look at everything with a perfect pair of eyes.

Live yourself, have your own job and career, and when you are strong, you will be stronger and avoid injury.

The so-called! Being strong and shedding tears, for people now, it is the same, tears are not strong, and being strong is not tears. There is no one in the world who can be so strong, because there is no one who does not cry.

Only those who are more ruthless and less emotional, if this kind of person is not particularly sad about him, they will not cry.

If you don't cry, you have to understand why you're crying,。。

Think about it. Feel for yourself, is this reason worth my crying? Is it worth my crying?

If it's not worth crying for that reason, even if it's reluctant. Let's put it down ruthlessly! If you put it down, you may cry. But this is the last time! If you don't put it down, you don't know. The reason that makes you cry will make you cry many times again.

Try to think of other happy things before crying, and eventually get used to it.

Don't be a weak person, no one will bully you, and tears will not fall.

Kiss. It's not a sin to cry, weep. It's comfortable to cry. Vent and detoxify.

Perseverance after setbacks.

Not strong, vulnerable to whom?

No one is always strong, maybe you can really let go after you have cried once, don't push yourself like this, it's better to be calm, face it well...

Personally, I don't think that crying doesn't mean I'm not strong, but it's a sign of sadness and heartache, so if I want to shed tears when I'm sad, I'll do it to my heart's content, and then I'll be strong enough to do what I have to do!

I have the same problem, I cry easily, I'm going to die

Punch your husband, and it will be cool in an instant, and your husband should cry.

Only by purifying the heart and having few desires can the problem of tears be solved.

Hello, you have to face up to your own character, the so-called "easy to change the nature of the country is difficult to change", you should know yourself correctly; When facing love, whether it is happiness or bitterness, it will make people feel excited, and it will be expressed through some physical and physiological reactions, and tears are also one of them, you don't have to worry about it. At the same time, we must face our feelings correctly, choose the right person, do more things, let go when we should let go, insist on it, and we must face life and feelings correctly!!

I used to like a boy very much, but that boy was with my good friend, and he also told me that at that time I said in ** that I would take care of my p business, and I cried for a long time after hanging up**, and I didn't know anything about love at that time, I only knew that I liked him very much, but now he is gone with someone else. So my friends around me are in love, and there are one or two boys who have chased me, but it didn't take long to give up, and then I fell in love with a boy in my first year of high school, chased him for two years, and confessed four times and was rejected four times, and when I was sad, I unconsciously shed tears in class, I was not a crying girl, but it was really sad at that time. People will always grow, time will bring you a lot, and it will precipitate a lot, so one day you will be sensible, you will stop your tears and live bravely.

Love is a matter of two people, and although you may seem fragile, you are not really fragile, right?

There are a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, and it depends on how you face them, and crying does not mean that you are not strong, and it is necessary to vent at the right time.

Tears are like our secretions, they are toxins in our body, and if we can't help it, then crying out will only make it more uncomfortable to hold it, and it is not good for the body.

Being strong doesn't mean not shedding tears, it's normal to shed tears, and it's normal not to shed them! Be positive and bold and you won't be so weak, and no matter how strong you are, you will cry...

Live for yourself. When you want to cry, tell yourself that nothing in this world is worth being sad about.

The only thing that can put an end to this shame is self-love and self-respect.

Learn to analyze the problem yourself. Why the tears? It's good to find the cause and prescribe the right medicine.

Being able to cry proves that you have feelings, what's wrong with crying. If you don't cry, it means that you are no longer so sensitive to the development of things, so what is the meaning of living.

Throw away your fear, be confident, and not be afraid of failure, and you will be able to become strong and move forward boldly!

Do whatever comes to mind, don't rub it off, as long as it's not illegal.

Being strong means that no matter what others say about you and blame you, you will not lose confidence in yourself and believe in yourself. To persist is to have a firm heart, you have to work hard for your ideals, don't give up. never give up ！