There is no result with him, he is married, and he is reluctant to quit, what should I do?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-22
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how long you have known him, if there is no result with him, you must make a decision immediately. He's married. He didn't think about you at all, what do you have to give up. Know that if it's not yours, you'll never get it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    According to what you said, you and a boy knew each other before he got married, and you have always had feelings for him, but he is already married, so it is impossible for you to be together, but you are reluctant to quit, since he has left the family, it has become a thing of the past between you, there is no possibility, then what else do you have to be reluctant to, as the saying goes, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, a good man has, so as long as you work hard to be the best yourself, I believe that you will definitely be able to find a boy who truly belongs to you, and you will definitely be able to reap happy happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now that you know that there is no result, you don't need to contact it, otherwise you will delay yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In this case, let yourself renew another relationship as soon as possible, think about it, if the other party really has an affair with you, then what would you think? What about the other party? Maybe the other party likes you, but he loves his family more, and you have become a third party, so you still need to consider these things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no banquet in the world, he did not choose you when he got married, it means that your fate is exhausted, and the feelings should be broken, you are reluctant to hide him in your heart, people have married, let it go, adjust your mentality, there are thousands of people in the world, you will definitely meet someone who loves you more than him, as the saying goes, there are losses and gains, I believe that as long as you can let go of the past, there will definitely be better waiting for you in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now that he is married, there is no need for you to pester him anymore, if he doesn't choose you, it means that he doesn't love you, does it make sense for you not to quit in time, do you have any results from doing this? Since you love him, why didn't you make it clear sooner and wait until now? I hope you will be a wise girl, quickly cut off contact with him, find your own love again, and build your own home!

    Be a frank and upright person, I wish you to find a boyfriend who really belongs to you as soon as possible!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think in this case, you'd better quit! Time is the best medicine for trauma. At the time, I was reluctant, but if you think about it, if you blindly pursue, assuming you succeed, you will inadvertently hurt another woman, and it will be uncomfortable, right?

    If you can't catch up, you're just looking at what you hurt your feelings. After all, people are already married, which proves that people prefer their wives. So let it go, why bother to love a flower alone, there is no grass at the end of the world.

    As long as fate comes, everything will be fine. I wish you to find your other half soon!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Some people don't have to wait, some things to forget, no result of waiting, the last hurt is yourself, so you should let go, everything from the reality, start from the beginning, a life is very long and short, to learn to make trade-offs, calmly face life, there are a lot of things to do, don't keep entangled in this, look farther, sometimes the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, encounter things to be calm, think about it first, and then make a decision, so as not to be hurt, but also to increase troubles.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you know that there is no result, and he is already married and has his own home, the result of your nostalgia and entanglement can only be to hurt others and hurt yourself, the long pain is better than the short pain, there is nothing to be reluctant to, are you willing to share the man with another woman forever, are you willing to never walk in the sun with the person you love, give up him to have a new future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There's no way, although I don't know why you didn't get together, but the other party already has a family, so it can only be broken, you can still move forward, don't have illusions anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When the interruption continues, it is in turmoil. Some things are hard to do, but they have to be done.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This can be slowly forgotten, after all, he is already married!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why didn't he choose you to marry? That's a problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you already know each other before marriage, why didn't you achieve a positive result, think about it! Is there still a need for this to be consumed? It's normal to be reluctant, and time is the best antidote.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I can only let go, and the rest is asking for my own hardships.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you can't be a husband and wife, it's good to be a blue face. It's just that they don't overstep the line and cause unnecessary trouble to each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since there is no result, it is necessary to break it early, so as not to fall deeper and deeper and hurt others and oneself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I know that I still want to be stupid if it doesn't work out, wake up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You must make up your mind to quit, otherwise you will end up falling deeper and deeper.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There was no result with him, he got married, and he was reluctant to quit, but he already had a family, although you knew him before he got married, but he didn't choose to marry you after all.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you don't fall in love with the purpose of getting married, you're playing hooligan!

    This applies not only to men, but also to women;

    She must have her own unspeakable secrets, either married, or sick, or someone else in her heart. What is the specific reason, you need to slowly and carefully observe and understand from the daily clues;

    As for not letting you leave her, there will be many reasons, but not necessarily because of love for you;

    How do you do that? This has to ask yourself, from her daily words and deeds, as well as your understanding of her, there is no perception of her by the people around you, you need to judge for yourself whether this woman is worthy of your affection and love? If you can't let go of her, you can observe her for a while longer to understand why she said this; Open her knot and face it with her;

    If she doesn't let you leave her just because she wants to spend your money, advise you to leave as soon as possible!

    Follow your heart and judge wisely so you don't regret it!

    After all, life is short, it is not easy to love someone, it is even more difficult to live together for a lifetime, hypocritical feelings should be let go in time, sincere feelings should be cherished, where to go, it all depends on yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're actually quite childish, too! There are many ways to love someone, and it doesn't necessarily mean that his way is not good. Maybe he is so affectionate.

    Did you say that when you break up, he has to quietly acquiesce to it, so it's normal? For a person who loves you, the word breakup can't be said casually, it's very hurtful! If you break up because of a trivial matter, you will definitely regret it in your memories in the future!

    Put yourself in each other's shoes and think more!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Have a good talk and ask what the situation is.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You have to make a choice, otherwise sooner or later it will be known, and once you are known, you will have nothing, and you are playing with fire. How to deal with it depends on what you want to have a family If you want to play with feelings, the husband will not tolerate his wife and be good with others.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since you can't bear your husband, give up the people outside.

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