Recently, I have been a little arrogant and arrogant, what should I do to be low key and low key

Pride must have the capital of pride. That beauty is very cold, no one likes to take care of it, and she doesn't pay attention to it, because people have the capital to not take you seriously; That handsome guy is very popular, everyone likes her, and even male compatriots can have a love for her, because they are really handsome and handsome, so they are so likeable; The white-collar worker's salary is very high, and the work is quite easy, and the boss is calm and does not dare to yell at him, because he has a professional, technical, capable and educated, so his salary and status are proud of the world's small blue-collar workers. Aside from the conceit, our Qing Dynasty is proud of the world in Asia, porcelain, tea, gold and jade, which is not a global commodity, architecture, force, culture, and the foundation of the country can not be underestimated, because our country is conceited because of too proud capital!

But we're not talking about conceit, we're talking about pride.

Such nonsense, but because of the capital we are proud, people who can be really proud are proud and happy, pride is not a derogatory term, the development of conceit has a certain derogatory component, commenting on the pride of others, the psychology has some envy, jealousy and hatred. The landlord's pride got a degree of arrogance, terrible, lucky, proud. Bad is arrogance must suffer, fortunately the landlord realizes that he is too proud, proud that the landlord must have proud and arrogant capital, I envy, I am jealous, I am full of hatred, I really hope that you will be arrogant, and finally end up with nothing.

I'm sad, I have low self-esteem, because I don't even have the capital to be arrogant, so the landlord will reward me with points!

Pride is infallible, arrogance is guilty, and it is lucky to know it in time. How to do things is up to the landlord to decide.

Relax and let off steam.

You can go on a tour and relax.

Friend, your current situation is that your psychology is not mature enough, and your way of thinking has not changed to that of a successful person.

I've met a lot of entrepreneurs, and their first impression is peaceful. They don't deliberately show off themselves in front of ordinary people, giving people a sense of superiority. It doesn't conflict with people, which makes people angry.

So, with them, you will feel a little intimidated, but not disgusted. But that's not to say they're not arrogant.

In fact, after a long period of contact, you can feel their arrogance, and even some of the arrogance of "no one in sight". When they come into conflict with you, they tend to back down. On the surface, it is they who suppress themselves and do not express themselves.

In fact, this is not their compromise, but their way of expressing their arrogance. They don't see you as on the same level as them at all, so their peace, their tolerance, is like an adult treats a child. When I first found out about this, I was quite unhappy, but then I was relieved that compared to them, my way of thinking is really the same as that of a child.

Their way of thinking is really rigorous, very comprehensive, and very long-term. In fact, I've been cultivating this holistic way of thinking right now, and if you can only judge one thing by right or wrong, it means that you are thinking like an ordinary person. A simple thing, if you think about it holistically, you can really see a lot of things.

I used to look at some trolls on the Internet, and I always liked to refute them, but now I just think it's ridiculous. Because when you think about things from a holistic perspective, you get a sense of how naïve the trolls' arguments are.

Think of the same feeling when you talk to me. So, friend, if you want to be successful, you must first cultivate that kind of successful way of thinking. Low-key is not pretended by successful people, but an inevitable manifestation after the way of thinking changes.

What do you think you are? Is it a great man? Think about what you've been doing all these years?

Is there a capital that can make your name remain in history? How many people are proud of you? If you can't do this, be pragmatic, look at the world and don't always think about your own narrow environment, don't be complacent, you think you are very conceited, indicating that you have experienced too few things, you can't see Mount Tai, there are excellent people, and after you experience setbacks, you reflect on yourself, see what you have done, a stone is always so rough and angular on the ground, you look at the stones in the river, which is not smooth and round?

Do so many edges and corners work? So let's spread out and go outside! Create light, conceit always has to suffer, especially when you lack strength, this is called impetuousness, first calm down the mood, empathy, what kind of image you are in the eyes of others, if you become conceited, what kind of thoughts will they have, think of you as someone else, "This kid is again, too arrogant!"

They must think so, and it's good for everyone to get rid of this thought.

You say that these shortcomings of yours are that they bring trouble to your life and make your interpersonal relationships worse, and you say that such arrogance does not match the confidence of reality, so you want to suppress your arrogance. Does this mean that you are a person who is very demanding of yourself, or that your arrogance is just a cover for your inferiority? --Indeed, your words make me feel the spirit of a king rushing to my face, and I tremble I think that in order to correct it, you must first recognize your mistakes, you don't realize the reason why you are so arrogant, what is it that makes you so arrogant?

Accomplishment? Wealth? Looks?

Status? Which ones are worthy of your pride? You see your proud temperament as a trait that matches you, so what else do you change?

Isn't that true? Why do you want to change it? If you don't figure out this problem, it won't help to pretend to be low-key.

I want to say that which ones are arrogant, tricky, domineering, strong, and high-sighted, are not good characters. It will make you feel endless frustration until you have achieved something; Even if you achieve something, no one will congratulate you, and you will become a loner. Hope you figure it out.

When an event that can really kill all your conceit happens, you will feel that life is worse than death, and then you will be nirvana, and you will be really low-key and atmospheric.

It's your own heart's quest that goes wrong with itself. What you are looking for will bring you pain and a lot of trouble. You can meditate on what you are pursuing.

As far as what you said, it's right to take yourself very seriously, but how to take yourself seriously, you need to think, you compete with others, the mentality of winning and losing is too heavy, and softness is also a way to take yourself seriously. I hope that in the process of comparing yourself with others, you will find out your true strengths and face others with a confident attitude.

When you don't have a deep understanding of the world and yourself, you are usually more proud and confused. Without profound self-experience and life experience, and opinions are second-hand goods relayed from books and others, your feelings are empty, and your dignity stays on blunt words, not your own.

Really powerful people never deliberately show off, and real self-confidence is in their bones.

Empathize, stand in the perspective of others, and look at yourself.

If one day, you really realize that all your conceit, pride, pretentiousness, disdain for others, and so on, are actually caused by your inner inferiority, the problem you raised today will be solved. At that time, even if you have hundreds of millions of dollars, you will not be so public, because you have really understood yourself.

The greatest difficulty for man is to know himself and accept himself.

Think about it from someone else's point of view, if you were him, what would you do to someone like this?

Learn to keep a low profile, try to be less competitive in group life, some arguments are unnecessary, people don't like strong peers.

Learn to give, don't think about reciprocating when you give, the reward will naturally be invisibly attached to you.

To be cheerful is to be gregarious and integrate into everyone's life.

That's pretty much it.

The scenery should be long-term, less talk and more do!

Emphasizing being your authentic self is only the first step. Get rid of the disguise, see yourself clearly, understand yourself, and the most important thing is to develop yourself (if you are blind and confused, you are easy to go the wrong way, do the wrong things, and it is difficult to develop). How to develop?

Change the shortcomings, carry forward the advantages, and constantly improve the accumulated strength, so as to lay the foundation for future success. Therefore, there is no need to worry too much about temporary gains and losses, and there must be a long-term plan for the overall situation.

There is a good saying: be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner.

Recommend a book "The Three Elements of Personality Change Destiny" Xu Jinsheng.

Conceit is often inferior to low self-esteem!

In fact, self-confidence and modesty are excellent qualities of a person, self-confidence can make work and life full of vitality, and modesty can make people judge the situation and make up for the shortcomings!

But both must be grasped well, overconfidence is arrogance, and it is easy to be blindly impulsive and not listen to advice; If you are too modest, you will lose yourself and be indecisive!

It's a good thing that you have a low-key mindset, but it's not quite the right way! It is not a good way to deliberately suppress yourself, Meiyu will only shine after grinding, you may wish to participate in some high-intensity outdoor sports, contact more mentors and friends with rich life experience, and if you have leisure, you can also order some tasks for yourself to increase grinding, such as working as a waiter in a restaurant for three months, or being a delivery courier for a month! Experience a different life!

You can only take it slowly.

First of all, it needs to be settled, and there are many ways to settle down, and some people have experienced a lot of things before they start to be low-key. Others are always introspective and in control. Experience and remember in life.

In this way, you will grow, and you will find your own shortcomings, and you will change after discovering, and in general, you have made progress and started to self-reflect.

Secondly: being strong and high-profile is not a mistake, the key is when to be strong and when to be high-profile? This can be seen in the behavior of people around them who have such traits; Of course, it can be seen that you are in the prime of your youth, and it is understandable that since you subconsciously like to be high-profile and strong, you must learn to take more responsibility and learn to deal with it rationally.

Third, low-key people: modesty and an empty cup mentality are indispensable. Calm and calm: strength and calmness are indispensable personal advice, just to share.

This question depends on how old you are, 1. If you are between 17-20 years old, you are originally a flamboyant personality and more domineering, and suddenly you become lower and deeper, and you have scheming everywhere, which is not good, at least one point is that you have fewer friends! But you can't go your own way and don't take anyone seriously. 2. If you have already participated in the work or have just joined the work, it means that you have not suffered enough to eat, "people do not grow up by eating, but grow up by suffering" This sentence only the longer you work, the more you feel that it is the truth.

Finally, low-key is a strategy, how to win, how to do it, this is low-key. High-profile is called a lack of heart.

Yes, it's important to be yourself, but we live in society, and to realize our own value, we need to win the approval of others, and if you are very aggressive and demanding of people and things (derogatory), then you are likely to be very frustrated because you don't get the approval of others. It's okay to have ego, it's okay to be proud, it's okay to be domineering, these are all based on your strength, I'm also very proud, very domineering, because I'm capable, I'm talented, and others can't even say they can't ignore me. Strength is not brought by money, only money is not recuperated, talent is at best just the arrogance of an upstart, which is disgusting.

But your domineering should not be directed to anyone, it should be restrained and targeted. No one likes to be domineering. Low-key is not mediocre.

And when you say the same inside and out, you don't mean to hide yourself, but to show your character at the right time. If you always look at others with a critical eye, with your character, it is natural to point out sharply and then there will be an argument. Then you also think that this is not good, so you suppress yourself, but you still can't get used to other people's mistakes, and this contradiction begins to cycle.

In fact, many things such as social skills are also a kind of strength, and some things may be accepted by others without being depressed.

Why do you have to keep a low profile?

A conceited person is often a narcissistic person, and what could be more meaningful than loving oneself? If you love someone, you have to say it out loud, but if you love yourself, you have to hide it?

One of the boys I liked was an extremely narcissistic boy, he loved himself, every speech was like a performance, and the most serious audience was himself. Every time he walked up to the podium, it was as if the whole world was waiting for him to step forward. He doesn't necessarily speak to introduce his thoughts, but to show them his wonderful linguistic skills.

Loving someone will make you shine, and loving yourself is simply a great shine!

Why "down to earth"? And if you weren't originally on earth?