Is it a disguised rejection or should I continue to contact her

If it's worth chasing, take the initiative. It's not a woman, you have to wait for someone to come to see you.

Is this kind of thing for a woman to say?

It depends on the personality of the other party, if it is a cheerful type, then it may mean that the other party does not call you very much, but is embarrassed to reject you directly, and can only hint at you in this way euphemistically.

If it's dull, then if it's like you, but you're embarrassed to express it too directly, you're going to be so passive.

It's better to be proactive

It should be that she has an impression of you, but she may still be on a blind date with others, and she hasn't met a better one, or has good conditions, and now she is considering and comparing, and finally deciding which one to choose. You should continue to contact now, maybe the opportunity is a little better.

Girls must want you to take the initiative! I'm a girl, but you said that you asked her many times and said that it depends, so this situation is not optimistic! The result of your direct question is not as accurate as your own analysis, you think about it, if you don't like the girl who has been on a blind date, she asks you, you must politely refuse, if she asks you directly if you don't like him, you will definitely say:

No, you're a very nice person, a good girl......Something like that, right! So, she doesn't like you at least after the first meeting!

From a man's point of view, please forgive me if there is anything wrong

1.Constantly going out on dates with you is a kind of compensation to make up for his rejection of your love, he doesn't hate you, but he can't accept you as his lover, love is everywhere, all the time, there is nothing to say that there is no foundation and don't fall in love, it's just an excuse for men to decide, from another perspective, if you don't have a career foundation, but you like someone very much, this person confesses to you one day that he loves you, will you decide and accept the advice of your brother and sister? The best assumption is that this man is incomparably noble, so noble that he can't delay the future of the person who loves him if he doesn't have the ability!

2.This is the beginning of his sin, using your love, constantly pleasing you, to achieve his goals (such as breaking through your defenses, this may not be appropriate, you are only for reference), after the end, he will only admit that it is impulsive, he has long said that he can't fall in love with you, only brother and sister relationship, so it's just your willing dedication, you don't need to be responsible.

3。He is wavering, undecided, and doesn't want to accept you, but he's not too willing to give up on you completely, so he hangs up first and rides to find the horse.

4.It is recommended to keep a distance, if you are away, you can't get too close, and you can't alienate him, men always feel that what you can't get is the best, so you may be wrong in the first step of love, have your own private space, keep a mystery to him, do you want a man to know you completely, does he still have the desire to chase you? Please stop the intimate actions that only lovers have (holding hands, feeding), it should be inappropriate for lovers not to make intimate actions of lovers, and time is the only criterion for testing the truth.

Is he dating someone now, or hesitant about you, love will not stop the development of your career, this is not an excuse for love, work hard, and then contact him to try.

This second floor is analyzed in place, and the landlord can refer to it!

Not necessarily, maybe he doesn't want to give up on you for the time being, but he hasn't thought about whether to develop further, one step at a time, but you should rest assured that he hasn't rejected you yet. You can also relate to him in this way.

Ask him once clearly, just do it, if it doesn't work, don't contact him again. Indecisive boys hurt!