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Isn't it contradictory that being troubled because there is no trouble, which is itself a problem? If someone asks me to say something under the title "What if I don't have troubles", then I find that I have been caught up in a paradoxical fallacy from the beginning, because what if I really didn't have problems, I wouldn't exist? And if I have the question of "what to do", isn't that a nuisance in itself?
If I have such troubles, how can I still be "free of them"?
But if I had to imagine "if I didn't have troubles", then I think I'd be a god! Don't you think, the one who has no troubles, the happiest person? And that kind of happiness is the real happiness.
Although many others, including friends upstairs, may say that you don't know what happiness is without troubles, and this is not wrong, but the happiness they are talking about is not what I call happiness. Their kind of happiness of "not knowing what happiness is without trouble" is dependent, that is, it must be conditional, that is, to be happy for what or for what to be happy, and to be happy for what we get, so when we are happy because of what we get, is it possible to have two other opposite situations at the same time, that is, not to gain or to lose? These two opposite situations in turn lead to a state that is the opposite of happiness, which is affliction.
A person who is happy because he has gained something will most likely also be troubled by not getting or losing what he has gained and is happy, and this kind of happiness is what most people call happiness that complements and complements troubles, but it is not what I call real happiness.
True happiness is the kind of happiness that has no dependence, that is, our happy state of mind is completely independent of external influences. The Buddha said, "Desire is the root of troubles," and people who have no desires and no desires will naturally have no problems because they have no desires and no desires. For example, if I'm happy because I got a high score or was rewarded, then I'm bound to be upset because I failed or was criticized, and if I'm happy because of the first sentence, then I'm probably upset when I didn't get the first place or lost the first place.
And if a person's heart is at peace because of tranquility, because he is not at all troubles caused by what he wants, then he is not a truly pure and happy person. This kind of happiness is also true happiness because it is not dependent on anything, that is, it does not need to be dependent on any external objects. How can it be said that there is no happiness without trouble?!
I can only say that if I had no troubles, I would really be in heaven in this world, and not only would there be no external object that could tempt me, but also that nothing external object could hurt me.
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If there is no black, there is no white, and if there is no trouble, you don't know what happiness is, and it is easy to write.
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I've always been an optimistic girl, giggling all day long, without any worries, but one day, I actually had such a day - troubles came to me! It was early on a Saturday morning. I was about to watch TV after breakfast when suddenly my mom came up to me and said angrily
I know what is the use of watching TV, not going to do my homework quickly, and not studying hard? "Mom, I've been studying at school for five days, let me have a good rest today!" "I begged my mother.
I saw my mother's eyes glaring at me, alas, it seems that I can't watch TV anymore, so I have to put down the remote control and go back to the room to do my homework! Time passed in the blink of an eye, and it was already noon, and I had finally finished my homework. I stretched and muttered to myself
I finally finished my homework, so my mother wouldn't talk about me! I can finally relax! With that, I went into the living room and turned on the TV to watch.
I didn't watch it for long, my mother "killed" out of the kitchen, snatched the remote control in my hand and said to me angrily: "Let you do your homework, you watch TV again, study until you don't see you working so hard, you only know how to watch TV all day long, what's the use of it in the future?" Hearing this, I immediately felt extremely aggrieved and said:
Mom, I've finished my homework, why don't you let me watch TV, the machine needs to rest, I'm human, I need to rest ...... more"In the end, my mother drove me back to my room to study ......Yes! I really don't know when my mom will understand me and be considerate of me, I know it's for my good, but I really want to have a relaxing Saturday! Trouble, you go quickly!
I don't need you!
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Nine years old, which was supposed to be a carefree age, but I was often troubled by worries, and I was really depressed.
My troubles come from my father's love, and I am an only child, so I love me in every way. I'm really afraid of melting in my mouth, and I'm afraid of falling off in my arms, so I can't wait to put me in a box to be safe.
For example, many of my classmates invited me to participate in some activities, and when I asked my dad for permission, he always refused without hesitation. He said: "Now that society is so complicated, what if you get separated from your classmates, get lost, and be abducted.
I had no choice but to decline the invitations of my classmates again and again. Over time, I gradually became estranged from my classmates.
Once, I went ice skating with my friends, and I didn't change into skates yet. But I saw my father panting and running over, holding my hand and saying, "You, you can't slip, what if you fall, I'll lead you to slip." ”
In this way, he stayed with me all afternoon, making me and my classmates unhappy, and I knew that my father was good for me and was afraid that I would fall, so he didn't let me slip. But he did this, so I am still a "white master" of skating.
Also, he doesn't let him do small things like washing dishes, mopping the floor, tidying up his room, I asked him why? He said, "You are a student, as long as you do your studies well, this is the greatest comfort to me."
Gradually, at the age of nine, I became a little lazy worm with four bodies.
Dad, Dad, I can understand your love for me, but you never thought that I would be the little master of the 21st century in the future, and how could I face this highly competitive society with the way I am now? When will I be able to fly freely and alone like a bird? I'm looking forward to ......
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If you have troubles, you can find something to do. I listen to ** when I'm upset. Chat with your best friend or read some short articles with deep meaning.
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Have your own mind and let others.
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Hello, do you want some examples of life?
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Then life will be one less exciting.
Days without worries are boring.
It's monotonous.
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China doesn't make science fiction films, so why do you write science fiction essays.
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The sense of belonging costs a lot of work is the high development of the country's scenery and love hot work.
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Now you're asking questions here as "your troubles."
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The beginning and end should be concise, and the middle part should be substantial, you can write about myopia, short, fat, nicknames, stress, busy studying, etc.
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I don't want to worry about it (Fan Wen).
Alas, there is so much to be done! There are so many things to do every day: studying, doing homework, eating.
You can't miss anything, you have to do it every day, it's so annoying! I want to have no worries every day, and be happy every day!
One of my worries: time worries. Listen, my mom is calling me again, "Hurry up, it's time for school, or you'll be late again."
I sat up slowly, rubbing my eyes, reluctant to leave the warm bedding. No, it takes a minute or two to just get dressed, "Hurry up!" "Mom is pushing me again.
It's annoying! Brushing my teeth, washing my face, eating, ouch, finally finished, "Hurry up, or you're not late," "Oh" I replied nonchalantly and left. On the way, I stopped and stopped, and when I walked to school, yes!
Late. Alas, I really regret that I shouldn't have been so slow and didn't listen to my mother. I really hope to solve this trouble as soon as possible, to get ahead of time, and not to be crushed by time!
My second annoyance: sloppy annoyance. Look, this time the score is out, why is it not ideal, at a glance, this question is not careful, it is caused by carelessness and sloppiness.
Another time, I told myself many times before writing my homework to be careful and serious. But when I was doing the questions, I was still not careful. Such as:
The linguistic word for "courage" would be written as "courage"; Mathematically 3 ; 7=21 is sometimes written as 27; In English, one word and one letter are missing. Alas, it's really hateful, and many times it's a catastrophe caused by carelessness. I really hope that I can get rid of this bad habit and solve this problem in the future.
Therefore, I made up my mind that I must correct it, solve this hateful annoyance, and improve my grades!
Alas, you say that I am not annoyed, there are so many bad problems, how can I not be troubled, I really want to have no troubles. Therefore, I made up my mind to correct these bad problems of mine, so that all my troubles can be solved, and I can be happy every day! I'm going to say to myself:
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Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.
When you are troubled, you can rely on the outside world to alleviate your troubles, such as listening, playing ball exercises, playing online games, traveling, talking to someone, making trouble with friends, etc., etc., can alleviate the negative emotions in your heart, but it is not fundamentally solved, if you want to make your heart suddenly clear, you need to sort out the reason for your own emotions, whether it is someone else doing something or someone else saying a word, Any thing or words that can cause your emotions are caused by triggering those sensitive aspects of yourself, and external causes are caused by internal causes, think about why you have emotions about this matter or this sentence, explore yourself well, if you solve your sensitive aspects, then you will not be able to arouse your emotions when you encounter the same thing or hear the same words in the future, then you will have achieved corresponding growth.
Don't think so much, what's yours is yours, it's not yours, it's not okay, what I often say is to go with the flow, I do my best to do this, I don't know what the final result is, but I tried my best, I've done everything I could, let it be, go for a walk if you have too many worries, find time to eat a big meal by yourself, or find someone you like to tell about the so-called troubles you encounter, normally, everyone will go seriously. >>>More