Am I doing wrong to hurt someone I shouldn t have hurt?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think: if you really love him, and you separate from him, it is really for his good, and he will be really good in the future, then your choice is true, and if he is not good, you can't be blamed entirely. I think the most important thing is to look at your own ability to bear and face reality.

    If he can't even do that! Then you are right to let him go, even if both of your parents agree, he is unlikely to bring you happiness in the days to come! If he will be good in the future, then don't regret it, because loving someone is not just making him good!

    You say that after he left, you fell in love with another person. I don't think you really like this person later, you just put your previous feelings for him on this person later, you just want to find a shoulder to lean on and rest for a while, because you are tired! If you really like this person later, don't blame you, since you broke up with him.

    You have the right to choose your own happiness! If he hates you, then he's too selfish! If he really loves you and sees that you now have your own happiness, he will be happy for you, not hate you!!

    I also just broke up with my girlfriend because her parents wouldn't agree and they were far away from their home. She respects her parents' opinions and doesn't want them to worry. I also respect her opinion.

    She also has the right to choose, love is not a one-person thing. I'm sure she was in pain too! I don't blame her, I just hope that in the future she will be well)

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is a very subjective point of view, as everyone handles and deals with injuries differently. Here are some possible perspectives and explanations: Some people believe that forgiveness is a way to release themselves from the hurt and pain that has been dissipated by the overturn.

    This view holds that forgiveness is not about making the hurter feel good, but about freeing oneself from pain and suffering. Others believe that forgiveness is a weakness that gives the hurter more opportunities to hurt them. This view holds that not forgiving is a way to protect themselves from further harm and suffering.

    Others believe that forgiveness is an act that requires genuine repentance and apology from the other person. This view holds that forgiveness is meaningless if the injured person is not truly aware of their mistake and does not apologize and remediate action. In conclusion, everyone deals with and deals with injuries differently.

    Some may choose to forgive, others will not. The most important thing is that no matter what decision you make, respect your feelings and needs, and take positive steps to protect yourself.

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