Ask for a psychological master, ask for a psychological master, please come in with a strong psychol

As a normal man, these should be the most intolerable things. But if he is a responsible man, he should be able to endure it. These things are not easy for others to persuade or something, what you have to do is to create more opportunities for them to "sit down and talk".

As long as your mother is willing to sincerely admit her mistakes to your father, he should forgive your mother for the sake of the family. When you do ideological work for your father, remember not to mention how your mother did it, and don't persuade him to forgive your mother. Say more for the sake of the family and you, and persuade them not to divorce first.

Forgiveness depends on your mother's performance in the future.

Hello this friend:

This is a mild form of obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it is better to do professional psychological counseling. Let me briefly analyze it. Always thinking about small things, and you have to find the only accurate answer, otherwise, your heart will be very uncomfortable, and you can't even sleep or eat.

In fact, there are many questions that we will never understand. There's no need to figure out every little thing. Why do people with OCD always have to understand every little thing?

Hehe, have you thought about this question? Why do you always have to understand every little thing, and if you don't understand it, you will feel uncomfortable? I'll tell you:

In essence, it is the pursuit of perfection in the character, and the character cannot allow the existence of things with uncertain answers, and cannot allow oneself to have things that one does not understand."

The great psychologist Carl Jung pointed out that "God made man, and man wants to be God". In other words, people just want to figure everything out.

You don't do what you do as a human being, you want to do what only God can do. Can you not be in pain? Can you not be depressed?

Do you want to figure out all the little things? Are you tired? You hurry up and be a man, not a god!

Being a human being means that you can make mistakes a lot, you can do things badly, and you can have a lot of problems that you don't understand!

When you allow yourself to have problems; When you accept your imperfections; When you become an ordinary person, your OCD is fine!

This is a mild form of obsessive-compulsive disorder, but because it is not long, the degree is not serious, it does not need to be special**, and it does not need to take medicine, so that you can enrich yourself, develop some hobbies, and when you are in a long time and have no time to calculate, it will slowly get better, because obsessive-compulsive disorder also stems from a habit.

My obsessive-compulsive disorder is counting the amount of hair that falls out every day, and I use a calculator to figure out how many hairs I lose every day on average each month, but once I'm busy, I don't have time to do the math.

Is your heart under too much pressure?

Relax, do what you like, relax, relax.

Then relax happily.

Ask a professional psychological counselor for counseling in time, don't delay.

Analysis: Hello! You have unconscious obsessive-compulsive symptoms though! But it doesn't have to be obsessive-compulsive! A detailed examination is also needed to confirm the diagnosis!

Suggestions: Hello! It's between you and a student!

It is very likely that this situation is due to the high pressure of studying! Or maybe it's because of something that makes you feel bad at school! The Chinese medicine you take to calm the heart and fire can only be used for temporary calming and calming the mind!

It's a palliative, not a cure! It is recommended that you have achieved improvement in your obsessive-compulsive symptoms with good stress relief measures! Do more exercise!

Listen more**! You can also watch more inspirational movies and film and television dramas! Stay in a good mood!

Heals soon! Hope it helps! Finally, I hope you are in good health!

Try to forget all your worries before going to bed.

The preface of one issue of The Reader is "The Stone of Forgotten Worries", but in fact, more than 90% of our worries are meaningless. If you don't sleep well, it will cause a chain reaction!

Also, smell the smell of oranges, lemons, mangoes, which can calm you down.

You can go to an elder to talk to you As for you saying that you don't have a good relationship with your classmates, only permanent interests, no permanent friends, you are doing well now, it doesn't mean that you will be good in the future, on the contrary, if you are not doing well now, it doesn't mean that you won't be good in the future, this is not a problem.

Psychological endurance is not good, if you want to be empty-eyed, you don't care about anything.

I want to open everything, look down on everything, and let go of everything.

Raise flowers, grow grass, and change the environment.

You care too much. That's how I came over. Listen to more songs you like. I listened to it back then's my life

I think your performance shows that you are in a mess, you need to take three deep breaths, and then make a targeted study plan, eat some nominal food, insist on doing eye exercises, and everyone will be calm when your grades go up, remember to guard against arrogance and rashness, treat people equally, treat people sincerely, and take deep breaths when you are in a hurry.

Narcissism requires capital, and we are narcissistic because we have capital narcissism. It's normal for self-motivated people to have shadows after failure. And the panic and insomnia you talked about are all caused by the feeling that you are sick.

You just tell yourself that you're normal. Everybody's like that. Very normal!

You can try sports, go to the playground to run a few laps when you are in a bad mood, or shout a few times loudly to vent the depression in your heart, don't let your nerves be so tight in the first year of high school, pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and the fatigue caused by high tension for a long time will make learning half the effort. Eat plenty of fruit to keep your mood happy.

You have the same characteristics as me, and I was like this in high school, I got better in college and grew up.

What do you want, to keep your grades, to get back to sleep, or to reduce pain?

Know your situation, you can never have all three.

Relax any two, and the third will be a natural alleviation.

The illusion of having all three will make the three lines rush together.

In fact, you are not sick, you live well, and when you grow up, you will slowly know how to control your emotions, you are still too young.

When you're getting carried away, think about how you've failed in the past.

When you fail, think about the situation when you have accomplishments.

English is slowly accumulating, not in a hurry, a little bit of daily tutoring, a long time to have an effect, only a year of high school slowly to recover eyesight, see more vista and green, temper and get along with people, recommended to read this book - the weakness of human nature.

People who are prone to anger may have a liver fire or stomach fire, and they can often drink some chrysanthemum tea, as for narcissism! There's nothing, there's no immediate way to get results if you're conceited, but you can try to get along with people who are a little stupid but have a good temper, and it's okay slowly, and my brother just gets along with me a lot, and he's not conceited.

A life of joy and suffering is fulfilling. A life of success and failure is reasonable. A life with gains and losses is fair.

If there is something worth getting carried away in, it means that you still have something to do as a person.

It's natural to participate in more social activities, participate in some school organizations, and meet people who are better than you and more qualified for narcissism.

It's still a lot of pressure to study, and I used to be similar to you. I can't sleep at night, and I have dark circles under my eyes every day. My teachers and classmates all said I was poisoned.

As long as you get into college for the college entrance examination, everything will be fine. I guess your vision loss has something to do with your insomnia at night

I recommend this book to you, I'm reading it now, "The Mysterious Mind Technique", in fact, autosuggestion to yourself is the best way, and now I am sure that it has left a little shadow in your heart, and I feel that through autosuggestion, it is possible to ** this situation.

You belong to the perfect type. In fact, the most important thing is the mentality, you have to balance your mentality and give yourself positive psychological cues. Like, failed.

I thought to myself, it's okay, failing means that I still have a lot of room for improvement... Do something to calm your mind. If you pay attention to myopia, it will improve. Believe me.

Adjust your mentality, don't be self-centered, have more contact with your classmates, and see things from the perspective of others.

Friend, you can see that you are more excited now.

If you want to defeat others, it means that you are already cowardly in your heart, thinking that the other party is better than you, and you have lost first.

Only without desire can we not be defeated.

Let me give you two small examples:

Example 1: When you are walking on the road and someone walks with a little lameness, will you laugh at him? Will you remember him?

In a few days, will you still remember that there was a cripple on the road? No, you won't. Because, this cripple is none of your business, and you don't even bother to care about him.

In the same way, even if you walk handsomely or ugly, not many people will pay attention to you, because you are simply insignificant to others.

Example 2: In "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", Li Mubai said to Yu Jiaolong: "You clench your fists, there is nothing in it; You open your hands, you own the world".

Friend, example 1 tells us, please be brave to go out, you are a road rage, even if you only have one leg, you are also a road rage, and the whole road is yours. You can't be cowardly from the heart, if you want to defeat your opponent, you have already admitted defeat. You shouldn't think about beating your opponent because you're better than him and he's not worth beating him.

Got it? Example 2 tells us that you must first let go of the knots in your heart, completely and completely, before you can have a new beginning. The past has dissipated like smoke, please think about the future and look at it with the heart of a road rage. The road ahead is very long, the road ahead is extremely exciting, and the road ahead needs your wonderful.

If you are a middle school student facing great study pressure, facing the college entrance examination, and facing thousands of troops crossing the Dumen Bridge, then I will send you a few words, facing your opponent, you have to "ignore your opponent, cast a shadow on him, and rule him for the rest of his life".

If you are already in the job and facing competition, I will dismiss the first three sentences and send you three sentences instead: "Respect your opponents, share your experiences, and be partners." This society is a cooperative society, not thinking about defeating opponents, but win-win.

Friend, I've said a lot. Do you understand, do you understand the truth?

Hope I didn't say it in vain.

Psychology alone can't teach you how to defeat the other person psychologically.

Can only teach you how to defend.

The real negotiators, the detectives, must have taken the experience from practice and then elevated it to theory, without which they would not have reached the level of a master.

Theoretically speaking, it is very simple, find the key points, find the key, and find the weak points of everyone's psychology.

But how much can be done?

This ability is either innate, or it grows with experience.

Don't go after this kind of thing, it's too floaty.

You've watched too many movies like this.

Even if you are good at reading words and feelings, it is a lot of experience accumulated over many years.

You can't change yourself in a few words.

Have a right attitude in life.

There is no point in being true to yourself and deliberately imitating others.

And that kind of connotation can't be replicated.

As a psychology major, give you a heads up.

To add: many movies amplify the psychological changes of people.

Realistic cases are basically impossible to find.

Big brother, the first paragraph shows that your own psychological quality is not strong, why do you still want to crush others psychologically? Do you have violent tendencies? Why break others?

Want to find the difference? If you really want to work against people, you should first exercise your own psychology, I think, if your own psychology is strong, will you think about anything else? Read more books, chat more with friends, say hello to strangers, 、、、

If you want to defeat others psychologically, you must first make yourself psychologically stable, and you can't do it yet, but you can do it like water

Why crush someone and turn him into a tool for you to create profits, isn't it?

Or you still have to soothe yourself with a normal heart.

Everyone has shortcomings.

It's just that there are people who are good at disguise.

You're very honest, and that's a lot better than a lot of people.

At least you're aware of your problem. And I really tried it. Instead of being self-righteous like some people have no one in their eyes.

Since it can't be completely corrected, then try to converge it and don't let the shortcomings be exposed often.

There are shortcomings that you think are weaknesses, but they are advantages in the eyes of others, and they are attractive.

Some of the shortcomings are innate, and some of them are acquired.

Disadvantages can be personality or lifestyle habits or even personality problems.

If it's just about your personality, for example, if you don't speak well, that's a disadvantage in some social situations, but on the other hand, at least you're not a slick person, giving people a sense of silence and stability, so there's really two sides to your personality.

If it's a habit of life, it is recommended that bad habits be changed in time, which should be very simple, and someone can supervise it.

In my opinion, you should face up to your own shortcomings, recognize what kind of shortcomings they are, don't affect interpersonal interactions, don't affect other people's moods, then be yourself, don't need to change anything for others, maybe it's not a shortcoming, it's just a shortcoming.

There are also some things that you want to change, start from the moment, stick to it, your perseverance is not enough to hate, and you are determined to change the bad traits, and you have to supervise yourself, which is my king, don't get entangled, recognize what the nature of the shortcomings must be changed, and never be sloppy--