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Not afraid of hardship, know how to give, be able to sacrifice yourself for the sake of others, and be willing to help others, in this way, you don't have to learn to make friends, others will take the initiative to make friends with you.
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Making friends is a science, and you must learn the skills of making friends. Nowadays, people's lives are fast-paced, and there are many people in contact, and with the increase in people's knowledge and the increase in the information they receive, the types of people are also diverse. First of all, you must know that people with similar interests and hobbies, similar dreams and pursuits, and similar habits and personalities are easier to get together.
In addition, you must be sincere in making friends, and you must be sincere to each other, in exchange for the other party's sincerity to you. However, now is an era of materialism, and there are too few true feelings, but they are also precious. There are very few real friends.
There can be not many friends, but there must be quality, not more and worse, but less and fine.
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Try to be cheerful and generous, and show the sunny side to the people around you. Learn to be empathetic, be kind to others, think about what you like and what others like.
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Strive to make yourself better, and a person's good qualities will attract people to him.
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Be cheeky and don't be shy.
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First open the knot, and then pay attention to the way you communicate, and you will definitely be able to make friends.
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In life, we have to make a lot of friends, and they will lend you a helping hand when you need it, but sometimes we also make some bad friends.
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Pay attention to the following four points when making friends.
Learn to communicate, have a sense of collectivity, don't always be cold, look like rejecting people thousands of miles away, so who will make friends with you, you have to learn to integrate into the collective, communicate with them, understand their ideas, and make friends in a collective is the easiest to make friends.
2 Take the initiative to talk to others, but be polite and measured. We must be good at observing words and colors, be good at capturing the character traits of characters, and be good at understanding other people's words and their meanings. Be a person with high emotional intelligence.
When making friends, you must also learn to listen, and listening will understand your friend better, know his interests and hobbies, and know his personality. Only by understanding friends can we understand friends better.
4 Find an in-depth conversation about something or a topic that you both like or are interested in, otherwise others will not be interested in continuing to contact you! There is always a connection between people in one way or another, which is why they come together from two parallel lines that do not intersect, so finding this connection between you and him is the key to whether you can be friends or not.
The current social environment allows each of us to have a protective circle, becoming reluctant to approach others, but not everyone is unapproachable, the first is to say hello, when we meet like-minded, like-minded friends, we must know how to greet others, sometimes we meet that friend is not necessarily a person with many words, we must take the initiative to stand up, brave greeting is the beginning of laying a sincere friendship.
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Make friends to have a common language, the personality is similar, the interests and hobbies are similar, not in a hurry, this is not a hurry, people always have a few good friends in their lives.
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In fact, loneliness is the norm, if you don't enjoy the moment first. We often say that different people don't conspire with each other, everyone's personality and interests are different, if there is someone you feel uncomfortable with, then don't socialize.
Friends have to give, and they should be reciprocated, but they can't ask for it, they will never be able to run away, and they can't have a purpose to reciprocate. That's the loss of the meaning of making friends. Some people for their own interests, in the name of making friends, and then ask for it from friends, there are many people, he doesn't care about your life or death, he cares about how much money he can get, I don't agree. >>>More
Maybe your living environment and work environment cause your personality to be introverted, if you want to make more friends is not difficult, first of all, you have to have a good heart, no matter what kind of personality people will have friends, to be good at chatting with classmates or colleagues, to find a common topic, can not only care about their own feelings or not emotional interest, to often contact friends, making friends is not a matter of a day or two, so the road to know the horsepower is long to see people's hearts, if others do not put you in their hearts then you do not need to be a friend of him, remember not wishful thinking, Only you know who can be friends with you, it depends on how you protect your friendship, remember to be sincere!
Maybe your family background is too good, and your parents are too good to you, so you are more self-centered. >>>More
Have your own ideals. own set. There is also self-esteem. In addition, be generous to people and don't let money dominate, so naturally someone will play with you - in the long development, you may be friends.
First of all, you must open yourself, making friends is first to let others know and understand yourself, if you have been closing yourself, others do not have the patience to approach you, so you need to take the initiative to show yourself. It is very important to be proportionate in ordinary interactions, to master a certain distance, this size should be grasped by yourself, do not be too enthusiastic, too enthusiastic will make others feel burdened, and do not be too indifferent, it will make people feel unapproachable. At the same time, there should be contacts in the contact process, and don't keep giving or asking for yourself, which is not conducive to interpersonal communication. >>>More