Hurry, hurry! What should I do if my child can t make friends?

Mom, don't worry, my family was like this at the beginning, and it didn't fit in when I first entered kindergarten. Fortunately, at that time, there was a world-famous cartoon "Little Princess Sophia" introduced to China, which helped us a lot! The content of the stories is very positive, such as how the little princess Sophia makes friends, how to love and help small animals, how to solve difficulties when encountered, and so on.

My family has watched this cartoon since I started to learn to imitate Sophia, and now I am the king of children in kindergarten, and the teacher also said that it is like a different person, and my social skills have improved a lot, and I recommend Bao Ma to her children.

Children have poor social skills, first of all, it is necessary to improve children's awareness of cooperation with peers and stimulate children's desire to cooperate with peers. Parents can use their spare time to take their children out to contact different people on different occasions, and at the same time ask more questions to their children to stimulate their children's initiative and take their time, family education is also very important.

I think it is very important to teach by example, parents can encourage children to take the initiative to socialize with children, and can also create conditions for children to match. Children are individuals and have different personalities, so it is better to decide how to guide them according to the specific situation of the child himself.

Upstairs, we also watched "The Little Princess Sophia". In addition to watching cartoons, Baba Mama can usually talk about something"Make friends"Children's stories should be told to children, and children should be taught how to make friends: kindness, enthusiasm, and know how to share the pain and joy of others; Pay attention to what others are saying; Be compassionate and willing to help others, so that you can be a friend like Sophia, who is happy to make friends.

Take your child to communicate with others.

Take him to crowded places.

1. Encourage your child to socialize more with children of the same age.

In an unfamiliar environment, children can quickly play with children of the same age. When adults gather, don't forget to give the children around you a space to socialize freely. Children tend to find common ground very quickly and can quickly get along.

At this time, parents should not discuss their children with friends, and children need to have their own space.

When the children are playing, they can appropriately help the lonely children to integrate into the group, but it is best to invite the more lively one of the children rather than the parents to push them in.

If there is a conflict between children, there is no need for parents to get involved in the situation where they can resolve it, and if they do need the help of parents, it is better for parents to guide them indirectly rather than directly participate. Gradually, children can feel the joy of socializing and are willing to take the initiative to communicate with others.

2. Teach children to share when they are young.

Let the child know good interpersonal relationships, sharing is very important, when the child buys toys or other things, remember to tell him, to play with his good friends or younger siblings, if the child is unwilling, to learn to guide, tell him, you are a big child, to learn to share, so that if the other party has good things, will also let you play, teach the child to share.

3. In the case of poor interpersonal relationships, parents should encourage and grow together.

In any detail that cultivates children's social skills, encouragement is the best medicine. Of course, there is no shortage of parents' examples, parents' examples are also a foundation of children's social skills, your words, a behavior, children will see in their eyes, remember.

4. Build children's self-confidence.

If the child's interpersonal relationship is not good, he generally has no confidence in himself, always feels that he is not doing well, and is always afraid that the child will not like him.

Therefore, parents need to train their children from an early age, don't tell outsiders that their children are bad, and don't let their children feel inferior to others, they can also try to change from external conditions, such as making him "glamorous", talking about it in moderation, otherwise the child will become vain.

First of all, children avoid social interactions, possibly because building relationships with others makes him feel highly anxious. But if he can fit in and get some experience of accomplishment in it, he will be very willing to make friends.

Second, when our child is having difficulty making friends, we can encourage him to step out of his comfort zone in an appropriate and judgmental way, and give him positive feedback and response when he needs it.

Third, when children are building relationships with others, we as parents should not be overly protective of our children, or be noisy and separate them from others.

At the same time, when a child has conflicts with others, we should not blame him, but provide him with some support and encouragement, so that he can better go out and learn to build good interpersonal relationships.

If you find that your child often plays with some bad teenagers, it will be affected, parents should keep abreast of persuading their children to stay away from bad children, and let their children face some problems in life. Children have the right to make friends, if the other party can give the child enough happiness, then the child will be very willing to interact with friends, which requires parents to understand the child's inner needs in a timely manner, so that the child can form a sound personality, so that the child can be more inclined to interact with people with good character.

You can guide your child in the direction of making friends, but don't mislead your child. Don't deny your children just because of some one-sided factors, make them unwilling to contact the outside world, unwilling to make friends, this kind of education is definitely wrong. We need to let our children know that making friends is a happy thing, and sometimes we need to let them make friends on their own, so that they can fully understand that every friend is different.

Restricting children's humble thoughts is the most stupid way.

As a person who has come before, it is not a simple thing to educate children, especially to educate children in the rebellious stage of adolescence, it is not easy.