Why do you want to disconnect after a breakup?

It's not a deliberate breakup, it's just that a lot of topics are gone, maybe it's not suitable for discussion, maybe it's like not breaking up, and there is no meaning in breaking up, I always thought that you can be friends after breaking up, but then I found that neither mentality nor feelings can go back to the stage of friends, and any friend is self-deception, unless you really forget everything that happened before.

He started to chat with me often, I thought it was boring, I didn't like to chat very much, he said that it was okay to chat as friends after breaking up, I was lukewarm to anyone, so I also didn't say a word about his chat, and then he got angry and asked me that I was just like this to my friends? I said oh....And then there was no follow-up....

I'm really like this to my friends, and they're used to it, I can reply to a person's messages every once in a while, the reason is just that I forgot or just didn't want to pay attention to it, or I could talk for a long time just because I was in a good mood at the time, so he ignored me for my virtue, and he didn't deliberately ignore him, but he felt that I deliberately ignored him...Anyway, there's no point in arguing, whatever he thinks...

After the breakup, we are always reluctant to let go of that feeling, but the reality tells us that it is over, so in order not to let ourselves fall into endless thoughts, we can only disconnect, which is also a kind of respect for each other! In other words, as a qualified ex, it should be like death and stop appearing in each other's worlds!

Why not? Because you can't wait for his call, your heart will only be more painful. So simply change the ** number, so that you don't have to wait hard for his call, and you don't have to be nervous about guarding the phone every minute and every second, because you can never wait...

So just give up and change the number, so you don't have to look forward to it in the future, you don't have to assume it.

I'm afraid I can't help but pay attention to his circle of friends every day, I'm afraid that I'll drink too much and bother again

If you keep in touch, you will only make yourself worthless, continue to entangle with him, and seeing your loved one with another woman will only make you more uncomfortable and heartbreaking.

After breaking up, they kept connecting, and to be honest, they were plotting against each other. Disconnection is the best and only way out.

Is it constantly left to resurge, breaking up is not getting along with each other, the past is over, and it should be let go.

When the interruption continues, it will be chaotic, and only by breaking the connection can the suffering be reduced, the suffering can be completely liberated, and the real letting go can be made.

Disconnection is just cutting off all channels that can be communicated and contacted, but the heart cannot erase its voice and smile.

When you start to make decisions, your decisions and choices have already disconnected us, your decisions and your choices have shown that we have no way back, do you still want to watch you become someone else's second-hand wife and beg you to turn back as a dog? Since you betrayed me, even if I drop my dignity and kneel down and beg you to turn back, I will only get your mercy and the beauty of a relationship in the past, you are just tired of being good to you, and a person's kindness to you is like giving you the same dishes to eat every day, and you will still be tired of this kind of life for a long time, you don't like the constraints of marriage, so if you turn back, you will betray it a second time, so a woman like you is only suitable for falling in love and getting married, you are not worthy!

I'm afraid of being entangled, I'm afraid of endless trouble.

One is that the person who mentions the breakup is reluctant, and the other is afraid that you will entangle her, so I met the latter one