I m about to turn 27 years old, and I m still very confused, isn t it a failure?

Don't think so, maybe it's just a late bloomer, just like the protagonist in ** always has an epiphany at the end, you must know that you are not the only one who is confused, some people are not confused, but accept their fate, and follow a road planned by others in a proper manner, or some people do always know what they want. A person's life is not long, it is not short, your 27 years of life, maybe and the year is not really in your own hands, so you really want to be yourself, have your own life, and only a few years, so don't be anxious, don't always compare yourself with others, life itself is also looking for the meaning of your own life, and who really understands? No.

So confusion is the norm, empty your mind, think about why you are confused, what you want, after all, life is so short, to live for yourself, no matter how old you are, you have what you want to do, you have a goal to strive for, it's never too late, confusion means that you are still alive, you still know how to think, but you don't know how to continue, unlike mass production machines, follow the rules day after day.

So when you are confused, you are confused, give yourself some time and space, explore your confusion, we are unknown for the future, and we are also unknown to human beings, but only you know about your life, don't be affected by the outside world, don't always want to follow the trend, say the most familiar words, go your own way and let others say it.

Don't be anxious when you're confused, all you need is time, not that you're different, and everyone's life is different, your frame of reference.

It's always just yourself, comparing yourself to anyone else, to the social average.

Comparisons, all are unfair. The meaning of life is the process of exploration to unravel confusion again and again, so it is good to accept it with a normal heart

With the development of society, people's mature age is constantly postponed, 27 years old is basically not the real mature age for people now, at this time feeling very confused is also within the normal range, so there is no need to feel sad and uneasy about their confusion now, as long as you slowly adjust your mentality and then set your own life goals will not be so confused.

I'm about to enter the ranks of twenty-seven years old, not to mention what will happen in the future, at least I'm still living a muddy life, my daily task and work is to take care of my children, and then cook and do laundry, etc., so I can say that I am a temporary full-time wife. Even in the face of such a life, I do not feel that I have failed in life, although I gave up a more promising job in order to take care of my baby, but I do not regret it, because the child is young and needs to be taken care of by my mother for only two or three years, and I have so many decades of life to work, so I think that I felt that it was worth giving up at that time.

In the face of my current life, I am very tired every day, it can be said that there is no goal, I just want to find a way to take care of my baby, eat well, dress well, at the beginning of not working, I am really not used to it, and I feel very confused, but now I will feel very happy and satisfied to see the growth and change of the baby. In fact, I don't think life has to feel that what career you have done is successful, as long as you are optimistic, you can find happiness around you at any time, confusion is only temporary, as long as you calmly face the current period of confusion, in combination with everything you want to determine the path you want to take and can take in the future, and then determine what you want to get on this road, and then continue to work hard, maybe in the process of hard work, you will gradually forget your confusion.

, I'm just 27.

Now I have a job, and I have opened a company by myself, but the company's efficiency is not good, and the employees are almost unable to pay their salaries, and Ben has not come back.

After working day and night, his health deteriorated, and after staying up all night, his face was pale and yellow.

Parents seem to have gotten smaller, and they are always worried about them. I always want to take care of their affairs, but my ability is still limited.

In today's society, everything always feels unstable. Although the situation in the country is stable and the people live and work in peace and contentment, in fact, there is always a feeling of turmoil.

I've talked about it a few times, women are getting more and more casual, I just want one who is dedicated to me, is this too demanding?

My friend started a business with me, and his pressure was also on me, and the pressure on his parents was also on me.

I lived a decent life outside, but my parents were always thrifty at home. It's that I can't afford to give them a better life.

My grandparents are old, and they always want me to get married, and they want to hold a great-grandson in their lifetime. Is it because I'm not filial? I talked about it seriously, but I still couldn't understand the woman's routine.

First-tier cities, full of people who are richer than me, more handsome than me, happier than me, I have long been submerged in the sea of people, where has the invincible energy of youth gone.

The heart is gentle, relaxed, resilient, and understands everything, but I just don't know how to go in the future. I am afraid that a fork in the road will never be recovered.

I stayed up late and worked overtime all night last night, and the company was kind to me, but I was strict with my work, why, why.

There is no mentor in life, because there are no true friends, so will there be a mentor? After all, you have to choose and walk your own road.

Is it really 27? Obviously, the 17-year-old classroom is still like yesterday, vividly, and it seems to have seen it...

I have too high expectations for myself, but I don't meet that standard after entering society, so I feel that I am particularly useless. You should learn to accept yourself as an ordinary person, down-to-earth, not to have too high expectations for yourself, and you should only be able to do it every day.

This is that there are fewer activities and life is relatively simple, so I just feel that I am useless, and I can find more things to do.

Because you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself, you have the idea that you can go out and play for a few days, and then come back and be cautious and get right and then continue to do your own thing.

Youth is very short, some people at the beginning of their 20s have their own life strategy layout, in order to achieve the goal of enduring humiliation, for them youth is not for squandering but for fighting. Youth ended, battles were won, the fruits of victory began to sweeten, yes, they succeeded.

And some people enjoy their youth comfortably as sweet and delicious cream, vigorous love, all-night games, endless food, and endless beautiful clothes. When you have almost enjoyed it, your youth will be over, in exchange for nothing, and the contemptuous eyes of others. Like me.

So? I asked myself, at the age of 27, is the future still possible?

Of course, there will be times when you give up on yourself and feel that your future is hopeless. But in the end, I still think I should believe that I have a bright future.

There are still many successful people like the old ones, like Jiang Ziya, Zhang Jiayi in modern times, etc.

So 27 years old the future is promising.

Success is never something to be waited for, something to be done, something to do, a goal to do.

In ancient times, wars were frequent, and only those countries that knew how to mobilize the common people to produce food, hoard food, recruit troops, and recruit talented people at all times could survive and succeed.

So, at the age of 27, there will be a lot of "wars" in the future, and we have to study hard, work hard, earn money, and make more good friends. In this way, their "country" will survive and succeed.

I'm only 27 years old, and there's still a lot of time, so don't give up on yourself.

Guys, what age are you? No matter what age you are, you have to believe in yourself. At last.

When you are confused, there are quite a lot of distracting thoughts in your mind, and thoughts of gain and loss come and go. At this time, if you just desperately try to find a solution or answer with logical analysis, it will often backfire and make yourself deeper confused. In this case, it is better to do some activities that help to calm the mind, such as meditation.

Just focus on the breath and breath, even if the thoughts float through your head, you don't have to dwell on it, as if you are watching the clouds rise and fall, and let it come and go freely. The advantage of this is that it calms down one's restless heart, and only when the mind is calm, can one more clearly perceive the true needs of one's heart. ‍‍

I think people have to be pragmatic. I should work hard, find out the doorway of work, learn management knowledge, and climb the ladder of work. If you're still too confused, then you must do it:

Even if you can't make progress, don't let yourself regress, go out and walk more, if you see something on the street that makes you laugh, then congratulations, you've found your interest! ‍‍

When you are confused, you are often accompanied by anxiety and discouragement, and many people will compensate for overeating to relieve anxiety, or they just want to sleep and are unwilling to face the unknown future. But this will only lead to a vicious circle. On the contrary, if you keep exercising every day, even if it is just a brisk 15 minutes, do a few sets of sit-ups or push-ups, or even dance randomly at random, you can not only relieve stress, regulate the secretion of neurotransmitters in your body, but once you stick to it, you will regain confidence in yourself.

It's hard to make plans for the distance, so start with every day. Make sure to do at least 5 things a day, exercise, study, read the news, get rid of a bad problem, reflect on a regret, etc. Learn to observe the things around you.

Strive to discover the beauty side, the beauty in life can cultivate sentiment, but also find opportunities for the future. ‍‍

Keep enriching yourself, read books in your free time, although reading for a short time will not change anything, but as long as you read a little bit every day, after a long time, you will find that your temperament and conversation will become better. Force yourself to improve a little bit every day, and sometimes if you don't push yourself, you never know how good you are. Although for you, maybe a little bit of progress doesn't feel like much of a deal.

In fact, you have surpassed many people, because many people are regressing every day, and over time, your differences will appear. ‍‍

Set a clear goal, no matter how you face life and work, I always want you to have one. A lively heart, a motivated heart, and a sunny heart to face him, face every day happily, and leave the troubles behind as much as possible. Do more fun things a day, and my life will be full of excitement.

No more confusion.