My girlfriend has a very cold attitude towards me, and I always feel that she doesn t like me, what

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, when I encounter this situation, I think it may be that you think too much, and secondly, I feel that my attitude is very cold, it may be relative to a certain moment, it may be when she is in a bad mood, or it may be when you are in a bad mood, and finally I want to say that everyone has a bad attitude sometimes, it may be because other things are involved, and they are good together. Or you can have a good talk, say what you want to say, and you won't be suspicious.

    I do this to my boyfriend a lot of times, and although I don't think I should be, I really can't control myself sometimes. Sometimes when I'm in a bad mood, I treat him very coldly. He wouldn't say anything, I don't know if he was going to think about it, but I would tell him I was in a bad mood, and that's why he did.

    I don't think it's easy to go through every relationship. He believed in me and trusted me. We love each other together, and attitudes may explain a lot of things in many cases, but there are often many problems that we can transfer emotions and attitudes.

    Sometimes it's just too much to think about.

    I remember one time when I was with my boyfriend, and I wanted to eat ice cream, so he went and bought it for me, but for a long, long time he didn't seem to listen to me, and I got angry and left. I don't think we have any feelings between us, and then I think about everything in the bad way. Actually, there was nothing, but he happened to be talking to someone else at that time, so he probably didn't hear what I said.

    Everyone has this kind of unhappiness and change of attitude, we all have, sometimes we just need to understand each other, understand each other's situation. In addition, I think if you have any confusion, you can talk to your girlfriend about it, ask clearly, don't think blindly alone, sometimes there is nothing at all, and you have to think about yourself and the other party in a broken way, so treat the people around you well and learn to communicate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then try to communicate with her more, listen to her thoughts more, if you love him very much, try to make him like you more, after working hard for a while, if she still doesn't like you, I suggest you can consider your relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also think she doesn't like you, you break up, a woman will never be so cold to the person she loves, and she can't wait to stick together all the time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The relationship between two people over time, from the period of passionate love.

    It is normal to go over to a low period. How two people go together from ordinary days, in fact, two people need to work together.

    If a girl is cold to you for no reason, there is more than one reason. Let's find out first and see if there are any things that don't go well in her life or work. If a person encounters something unpleasant in life, he will become cold to the people around him and will not be able to become enthusiastic.

    If that's the case, communicate in a timely manner. It is best to help her untie the unhappy knot in her heart if they face it together. When the mood improves, the attitude towards you will naturally improve.

    You also have to think about it for yourself, are you usually not considerate and caring enough for her? Girls need to be coaxed, need some sweet words, and even need more company. I'm afraid you give too much when you're in love, but once the love period is over, your freshness is over.

    Whether you don't care about girls day by day. Is it sometimes too lazy to pay attention to some of her requests, is it that you don't care so much about what she says, and you don't care so much about her affairs? First, examine whether this is really the case for you.

    If this is the case, the girl will not feel warmth and love in her heart, and even feel that your attitude has changed and she has become disappointed in you. So the feelings for you are also getting colder and colder.

    Sometimes girls are cold to you because they deliberately alienate you and deliberately test you. The reason for this is very simple, in fact, I want to see your attitude and sincerity. I want to use this to grab your attention.

    There is a saying called wanting to get away with it. In this case, then you have to care and love her more. It's okay to express your sincerity.

    The girl's mind is elusive, but no matter what, there will be no change in attitude for no reason, and most of the feelings between the two people have changed. It's all boys' reasons, so introspect first. Then try to communicate.

    Find out what the other person really thinks. Also, be sure to distinguish between coldness and cooling-off period, sometimes it's not that girls are cold to you, but maybe because your relationship has passed the hot love period, so you feel cold. It's possible that nothing happens.

    Therefore, it is useless to think nonsense, let's communicate more and understand it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When your girlfriend starts to be cold to you, it's time to show that she doesn't love you. There must be a reason why your girlfriend is so cold to you, and you have to find yourself your shortcomings and bad behavior.

    Only when you really change yourself can you win back your girlfriend's heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you still haven't done that well, that is, you haven't done it well, you still have to find your own reasons, you should learn to do something, buy your girlfriend something she loves to eat, and then buy a few good clothes and cosmetics with him, so that your girlfriend will not be cold to you, and the two of you can have better development.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your girlfriend behaves like this, it may be that she doesn't love you anymore, or there is a better person around her, and she thinks that the man is more suitable for her, so she will become more and more cold to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, if your girlfriend is becoming more and more cold to you, it means that the other party doesn't care about you anymore, and the other party slowly doesn't love you anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be, if she changes her mind about you, she will be very cold to you, and girls are generally more clingy.

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