It is said that it is not easy to recover after giving birth to a second child, is it true?

I don't think so, as long as you sit well in confinement, it's okay to recover well.

Giving birth to a child is a process that everyone who wants to be a mother goes through, and with the opening of the two-child policy, many mothers want to have a second child, and they always feel that a child is too lonely. With two children, let them have each other's company. Nowadays, people's living standards have improved, and their ideological concepts have also improved, and no matter whether they give birth to boys or girls, they will be treated equally.

I am now a mother of two, the eldest is four years old and the youngest is only two months old. The eldest of my family especially likes to play with her sister and would kiss her sister every time she came back from school. I am also very happy to live such a day every day.

When I gave birth to Erbao, I was delivered at the county hospital, and the midwife doctor next to me would help you. Because it was a smooth delivery, I stayed in the hospital for a day and went home. Because it was summer, I also turned on the air conditioner when I was at home, and it was best to turn it on to 28 degrees.

Although it is summer, it is necessary to wear a thin confinement suit in an air-conditioned room. In addition, you should wear comfortable socks on your feet and a moon hat on your head to prevent your body from getting cold. Because the body of the child who has just given birth is relatively weak, the body is always sweating, wipe the body with some warm water and a towel, and after a week, you can shower.

Do not sitz bath, this will cause infection of the wound, which is not conducive to the recovery of the body. The main thing is to stay in bed, do not do drastic movements, and occasionally get out of bed and walk around. If you are breastfeeding, do not maintain a position for a long time, because the body is weak and pressing one place for a long time will cause poor blood circulation and easy to fall into confinement disease.

If it is fed milk powder, it is better to solve it, just find someone else to replace it.

When I was confined, my husband took good care of me, and he was watching the children most of the time. Every time I cook a meal, he will help me bring it in, and he will help me cook whatever I want to eat, and buy a lot of nutritional products to help me replenish my body. My mother-in-law is also very good to me, my children's diapers, as well as my change of clothes, sometimes my mother-in-law helps me wash, tells me some precautions, and also provides a great effect on my physical recovery.

Personally, I feel that in fact, the mothers who are now confined are also quite happy, and they are not allowed to do anything, as long as they raise their bodies and feed their children, they don't have to worry about other things at all. If you recover your body after confinement like this, you won't have to worry about not being able to maintain a good body.

Not necessarily, it depends on the individual's physical fitness, but also depends on the age when the second child is born, and whether the second child is born smoothly. These factors determine whether it is good to recover after giving birth to a second child.

In the past, people in the old society did not know how to prevent pregnancy, so they would give birth to their children as soon as they were pregnant, and they would do a lot of farm work when they were pregnant, and they might still be busy until the child was about to be born. So there were several children in the previous life, and their bodies have always been great, after giving birth to children, except for the month of confinement, they will not go out, as long as they are out of confinement they start to be busy again, their bodies recover quickly and very well, and do not affect doing anything.

However, in the past, people were mainly born naturally, but now everyone will choose caesarean section for various reasons, so caesarean section will be more harmful to the body of pregnant women, and the recovery will be slower, and the physical fitness may decline compared to natural delivery. As long as the first child chooses to have a caesarean section, then the second child will also have a cesarean section, and the second caesarean section will be more painful and difficult to recover than the first. The physical fitness will also be worse, and basically a lot of heavy work will not be able to be done.

Age is also one of the reasons, the recovery after giving birth to a second child within the age of 30 is obviously faster; If an elderly woman gives birth to a child, her body is easy to become weak and fat, and it is useless to be fat, or she is very thin and malnourished, and she can't get fat if she wants to.

I chose to have a smooth birth for my first child, and I feel that my body is as good as before, there is no burden at all, and it doesn't matter if I wash my face and hands with cold water; Later, after giving birth to my second child by caesarean section, I felt that my body was not as good as before, and if I used cold water, I felt that my hands would hurt. I gave birth to a second child at an advanced age, and I chose a caesarean section, so the recovery was not good.

At present, I am pregnant with my second child, and I don't regret it after I don't know it, and I won't know until half a year after I was born.

There are no regrets at the moment. No reason to regret:

The economic conditions of the man's family are acceptable, the husband's family only has one son, there are 2 sisters on it, the mother-in-law has not worked all her life, there is no problem that she has not retired, and Dabao is a daughter and a mother-in-law brought to more than 2 years old, hoping that the second child will be born just one child to go to kindergarten.

I bought a house in 19 years, solved the problem of my children going to public school, and moved my household registration when the house was handed over.

Bought a car in 17 years, and it was easy to go out.

Before getting married, my husband planned to have 2 children, the first child at the age of 24 and the second child at the age of 27.

A daughter, in-laws, and family members love their children very much, and there is no problem of preference for sons, and they will not worry about their daughters being neglected.

The baby is born, sleep the whole night after confinement, and it is very easy to take the baby during maternity leave. The daughter is lively and cute, and she is likable, even if the second child is still a daughter, her husband also likes it.

The second child is more worried.

1.The standard of living has dropped, and I can't go out to eat, drink and have fun.

2.The education of 2 children is stressful.

After giving birth to a second child, I won't regret it after replying.

My dear, why do you think like this, as the saying goes, people are blessed, but it is true that having children has a great impact on women.

In fact, there are many benefits to having a second child1, double the happiness, and when you get home from work, the two babies don't care what they are doing, they all run to the door and call their mother. 2, the two babies are really worry-free when they play by themselves. But at this stage, it's easier to fight and bother a little.

A friend of mine has two babies who are three years old, and the second child is in elementary school, so it is obviously more harmonious. This also needs to be guided by parents. 3, with the blessing of the experience of the boss, the second child basically closes his eyes.

My second child is also easier to bring. 4. All the things of the child can be used to the fullest, after all, it can be passed from the eldest to the second, and it is not easy for things to be all bearded and tailed. Especially toys.

Hehe 5, when you enlighten the boss, the second child will also be enlightened next to him. I'll teach the eldest something, and after a while the second one starts babbling. 6. The house is lively, this is obvious.

It is inherently wrong to impose a rigid rule on how many children each person should have, and it violates the laws of nature. The animal kingdom has never been the same number of offspring for every individual, but for the healthy and capable to have more children, and the unhealthy and incapable have fewer children. Let those who like children and have the ability to raise children have more children, and let those who don't like children and have poor ability have fewer or no children, so that our society will be more and more full of loving and capable people.

Upstairs everyone said that the child was cute, and it was time to stop.

The second child is super regretful, in all senses, money, time, and energy are overwhelmingly insufficient compared with the original, and the quality of life has plummeted.

Raising children, in addition, there is no other meaning in life, personal pursuits, dreams, this kind of thing, all abandoned.

The anonymous person upstairs, according to you, let alone having children, marriage is your grave, you have no hope at all, like a salted fish.

I'm a man, I haven't had a chance to regret it, I want the second child, the daughter-in-law listens to the father-in-law, the father-in-law doesn't agree, and the daughter-in-law doesn't agree. The guidance has been useless for a long time, what can I do? It also gives me a taste of regret...

Our dick is very cute. After giving birth to a second child, I feel that some of the things that the boss missed have been found back, and the person is young again.

I'm male. I have the desire to have a second child, but I have no desire to have a third child.

I don't regret having a second child, and now I don't regret the country's call for a second child.

Great, I'm old and rare to have a second child, everyone is about to give birth.

After giving birth to the second child, the impact on the eldest is too great, and he will never have a second child at a time.

No, the second child is well-behaved and cute, how can you regret it.

I can't afford to build the first and second floors... Directly to the benefits of the third floor, the pavilion in the sky...

Nowadays, many people want to find their other half as an only child, because there are no complicated family relationships. If the other party has brothers and sisters, and the brothers and sisters are not promising, it is really like Fan Shengmei in Ode to Joy, there is no good life.

I want to find a one-child family, but when it is my turn, I have a second child, saying that it is to find a companion for the child, and there will be relatives in the world in the future, but I don't know, maybe it is a burden for the child.

Some people say that there are many children in the family, and when they are old, they will be taken care of, but if you don't think about it, if you have a child, it will be enough for you to enjoy it. If several children are not doing well, they can't take care of themselves, how can they have the time, energy, and financial resources to take care of themselves. Even if they all have a good income, there will be contradictions because of who contributes more money and who contributes more.

Now it is a common phenomenon to gnaw on the old, and parents will support the down payment for buying a house, that is, to pay for it. If there are many children, then this kind of expenditure is not too much.

Therefore, I think that having a second child is not only about how you feel, but also about thinking about it in the long run.

It is not a good thing to have a rich life, and the competition for property has turned against each other.

I'm just talking about the downsides, and there are no good things to do.

Since I have a second child, why should I regret it, I can only put my sense of responsibility bigger. It's stressful, but there's another kind of joy too.