Why are many girls now forced to marry by their families?

Perhaps it can be said that this is a topic that the whole society is anxious about, why haven't you married and started a family yet? What happened to you? Are you abnormal? Getting married and having children forms a complete family, so it seems that you live like a normal person.

Why do parents like forced marriage? In fact, not only parents like this, but also the so-called seven aunts and eight aunts, and maybe we ourselves are the same. In this way, the inner incompleteness, the inner broken heart, can be escaped.

Perhaps this is a deeper reason than filial piety. Therefore, in the countryside and even in the city, once something happens, they want to be happy, and give children who are psychologically incomplete, socially incomplete, or even physically incomplete, and use the way of chongxi to deceive people, children, and themselves, which is to use the superficial facts of a complete family to escape the deep facts of brokenness.

In the eyes of parents, no matter what the children are, having a family means that they are normal people, be good, get married!

But the truth is that broken hearts lead to broken families, and broken families raise children with broken hearts, and they are just reincarnated from generation to generation!

Many parents may overdo this by using superficial integrity to escape inner brokenness, but inner brokenness is uncomfortable, and in this regard, human beings should be common.

In Poland, there is a movie about a married man who is asked out by his ex-girlfriend on Christmas Eve to help him find his missing partner! The man guessed the truth, the ex-girlfriend is lonely and needs to be accompanied! But he didn't say it, and silently accompanied her to look for a night, and finally his ex-girlfriend said that she had spent a few Christmas Eves alone, and if she lived like this again today, she would commit suicide.

The end of the film is also very warm, the man comes home, his wife is still waiting for him on the sofa, but she is asleep, he goes over and hugs his wife, and the wife wakes up, without a word of blame, but hugs the man tightly, as if he is the one who needs to be comforted!

Brokenness is everywhere, pain is everywhere, the reunion of the Spring Festival, the establishment of a family, are all lonely souls looking for links, but I hope we can really find complete happiness through marriage, rather than pursuing formal integrity.

Using the theory of negotiation deadline to explain, make full use of the relationship between the unequal value of time for both parties, divide it into strategic delay and deadline, use strategic delay if it is beneficial to oneself, and set a deadline if it is beneficial to the other party.

Men and women fall in love in their twenties and talk for more than a year, and girls will start to say tentatively many times when will we get married?

The girl's heart is full of anxiety, because she is in the best age that everyone says, the most beautiful years, and she feels that she needs to marry herself while she is in the most beautiful years. This anxiety of hers is a trace of uncertainty about the boy, and the depreciation of the future self who is now trying to become a better self. Give you an ultimatum, get married, or break up.

Even if I need to re-take the time to get to know someone, fall in love, and talk about marriage after the breakup, I just don't like this irrational feeling of uncertainty and insecurity. At this point, time is a consumable.

The psychology of the boy is also anxious, not long after graduation, he finally stopped spending the family's money, and wanted to show his ambitions, but after all, the time is short, the salary is not too high, and the ability needs to be strengthened. This period of time is the development period of the boy's character career, and the longer the time, the higher the result will be, and time is a value-added product.

In contrast, for male and female lovers of the same age, the longer the time is more disadvantageous for the girl and more beneficial for the boy, so the girl uses the deadline to stop the loss, while the boy uses the strategic delay to maximize the time value. The final outcome of both sides also varies from person to person.

This is why the age of the husband and wife, the man is older than the woman, the boy has gone through the process of capital accumulation, and the girl is also the best age of integrity. The value of time to both parties is almost the same, and everyone will not delay and force, and find a good day to get married.

After a long period of time in love, women hope to enter marriage, after all, everyone says that they don't want to get married as the goal of falling in love, so women don't want to play hooligans, and they don't want men to play hooligans.

Therefore, after men and women have been in love for a period of time, the man has not expressed anything, and the woman is not sure, they will think that the man is not interested in himself, and whether the man does not want to get married or there are other alternative personnel, think about it, and the more the man does not make any response, the more they are bottomless, afraid that their feelings will be in vain, and the trust is not human, and after a long time, it will become more and more uncontrollable, which will form a heavy pressure on themselves or men. Let everyone breathe, and this pressure has reached a critical point, and it will eventually explode.

Women may be embarrassed to speak to men at the beginning, thinking that asking directly will appear to be not reserved enough, and after a long time, women will become more and more unable to sit still, less and less confident in their relationship with men, and think that they can move towards marriage in this relationship The possibility is getting smaller and smaller, so a psychology that their feelings and good youth are in vain, which is unacceptable to anyone.

In order to save herself from such a big loss, the woman began her own plan, she first showed the man her willingness to enter marriage, hoping that the man could understand what she meant, and after the man showed that he did not understand or deliberately pretended to be stupid, the woman really began to go crazy, she will take various methods to show the man that she wants to get married, so that the man and herself into the palace of marriage, if the man was originally ready to marry the woman, there may be a good ending, but if the man has no intention of marriage, Maybe forced marriage is just for women to have an explanation for themselves, after all, they have done their best for this relationship.

It should be that some boys are more scum, or there is no condition to give girls the life they want, and they dare not marry, the first case, girls should not want to waste their youth in vain, marriage may make boys take care of themselves, the second situation is that girls want to bear with boys, to be honest, and boys don't know when they can marry girls, one more person has more strength.

Because women are now more and more open-minded, and they also feel that they are very happy to live alone, and there is no need to get married, but for their parents, women have to get married when they are old.

Because more and more older young women are now reluctant to get married. Because a person's life is simpler, you don't have to consider the feelings of the other person, you can do whatever you want? Eat whatever you want.