When you re in a relationship, can t you help but peek at each other s phones?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Truth be told, I would have such thoughts, but I haven't looked at other people's phones, after all, I have to respect other people's privacy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, when you are in love, you will become extra stingy, hoping that the other party belongs to you alone, so you can't help but peek at his mobile phone to see who he usually contacts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I am in a relationship, I think I should also give the other person enough personal space, so I will never look at the other person's phone, I think doing so is distrustful of our relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't peek at each other's phones, the most important thing in love is to trust each other, and being lazy with each other's phones is a sign of not trusting each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At first, I might be tempted to watch it, but then I won't want to watch it, because the other person gives me a sense of security, so I don't think it's necessary to always look at the other person's phone.

    When I was just with my husband, it wasn't that I peeked at each other's mobile phones, but sometimes the mobile phone was out of battery, or deliberately found some reason, and then used his mobile phone, at this time I would look at the two chat software on his mobile phone to see if there were any suspicious people, but then I found that my husband didn't care about this at all, and didn't say that as soon as I used his mobile phone, he was nervous to death, but directly told me where the mobile phone was to get it myself.

    And I know the password of his mobile phone, and even later, for convenience, he also gave me a fingerprint, and I haven't looked at his mobile phone much since then, I don't think it's necessary, what is the need to look at it, the mobile phone is cleaner than my face, so he gave me enough security, and I didn't talk about what I had to look at other people's mobile phones.

    If my boyfriend doesn't tell me the password of his mobile phone, every time I want to use his mobile phone, he has to enter the password himself and then give it to me, then I'm sorry, if this happens, I think I may not be able to feel safe, I will definitely think more, I will think about whether there is something unsightly in his mobile phone, I will definitely want to peek to see what is inside.

    Now many times, many people's sense of security comes from the other party's mobile phone, if the other party's mobile phone is completely open to you, you want to see it, you want to play, and he will not be nervous at all, then you will naturally not be insecure, but on the contrary, if the other party is not willing to let you see the phone, and do not let you know the password, then if you have a sense of security, it is strange, if you want to give your other half a sense of security, you don't have to say anything, and you don't have to guarantee anything, but directly show him your mobile phone, I'm sure he won't be insecure anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I'm in a relationship, I can't help but peek at each other's phones. I want to know what he swipes on his phone every day and what his preferences are. I want to know if he is still chatting with other women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nowadays, mobile phones become social chats for people. Because there is a lot of personal information and privacy in mobile phones, in a relationship, it is easy for one party to be curious about the content of the other party's mobile phone and hope to look at the other party's mobile phone.

    Some people think that couples can look at each other's mobile phones, and since they trust each other and like each other, they are not afraid of each other; There are also people who think that looking at their phones is a manifestation of suspicion of themselves and invasion of privacy, and there is a feeling of not being respected by the other party, and even leads to emotional conflicts and breakdowns.

    For modern people, the mobile phone is not only a communication tool, but also an important carrier for a person's social development, leisure and entertainment, carrying many people's daily joys and sorrows, hiding a lot of unknown secrets, like a mysterious "Pandora's box", no one knows what kind of consequences will be caused by unauthorized opening.

    As mobile phones become a part of people's social and life, it brings convenience and trouble, especially between couples, which could have been a sweet tool for the two, but for many people, mobile phones have also become each other's "bombs".

    The essence of marriage is actually a partnership between two people, and it is normal for you to trust each other not to check often, but it is not quite right for you to never check or not check at all. When the current couple asks to check their phone, they refuse the other person's request to look at the phone because they think the other person does not trust them.

    At the same time, you also lose the opportunity for the other party to trust you. There is nothing wrong with looking at the mobile phone itself, the girl looks at the boy's mobile phone because she has the will to go on with the other party for a long time, and the boy can accept that the girl looks at the phone moderately is also a kind of love, giving the other party a sense of security.

    In this case, both parties are the same, they both want to eliminate their concerns by looking at each other's mobile phones, and confirm that the other party is a person who is worthy of their own life to be with them, which is beneficial to the relationship of both parties. After all, effectively eliminating an unreliable partner is responsible for one's own life.

    Finally, it is necessary to improve oneself and enhance one's confidence. In a relationship, in addition to giving the other party basic trust, the more important thing is to strive to improve yourself, make yourself better, reduce the gains and losses in the relationship, and enhance self-confidence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't check each other's phones, mainly because I'm the kind of person who is particularly insecure, so I definitely want to take a look at each other's phones.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I'm in love, I don't check each other's phones because it's a sign of trust in the other person and I need to give each other free space.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, I will leave some space for the other person, which is disrespectful to the other person and will cause a lot of problems.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, it won't. When two people get along, they should respect the privacy of Yinchun Fang, and peeking at their mobile phones is distrustful of each other. If he finds out that Zikuan will quarrel with you, it will affect the relationship between the two people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When I fall in love, I don't peek at the secrets in each other's mobile phones, because I think that love needs to be buried in each other's chains, and I can't have too much suspicion and distrust of each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't, because I think it's a distrust of the relationship, and it's also a disrespect for the other person.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When I fall in love, I won't let my partner look at my phone, even after I get married, I won't let my partner look at my phone, not because there is anything unsightly in my phone, but because I think my phone is a very private thing for me, and I don't want the other party to even give me this privacy. Vertical booklet.

    So when I fall in love, I won't let the partner look at the phone, if the other party gives me enough trust, likes me enough, and respects me enough, then I think love is first of all two people are equal, and I won't check each other's mobile phones, I know that this is the least respect for the other party.

    Love is a very beautiful thing, but also need to have a certain sense of mystery, even after marriage between husband and wife also need to have a certain sense of privacy and mystery, if two people look at each other as if they are looking at transparent people, then life will lose a lot of fun.

    Choose this person to fall in love with him because we like this person, but we must also respect this person, and we can't snoop on each other's privacy unscrupulously because we like him.

    So when I am in love, I won't let the other party look at my phone, and I won't look at the partner's phone, because I respect the other person's privacy, as long as I know that this person likes me enough, he chooses me because he likes me, and I like him enough, that's enough.

    Of course, some people may say that he will be willing to let the subject look at his mobile phone, because there is nothing that cannot be seen, of course, we don't let the other party look at the phone, not because there is any unsightly news in our mobile phone, or we can't let the other party see it, but this is a kind of privacy.

    We need to form a habit of mutual respect, not a habit of being free to snoop on each other's privacy, which are two different things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello friend. When I am in a relationship, I will agree with my partner to look at my phone, because I don't have many contacts in my phone at all, and there is no ambiguous relationship, showing him can not only reassure him, but also enhance the trust between each other. But before I look at it, I will make a request, that is, let me also look at his phone, mainly to show fairness.

    Huaichong's mobile phone is not the basis of trust, and in the process of falling in love, you can't focus on each other's mobile phones. 1. Why don't some people let their partners look at their congratulatory phones? Some people feel that their mobile phones are their last privacy, even if they are lovers, they are not qualified to see them, and it also represents trust between each other.

    If the other person tries to look at his phone, it means that he suspects that you have someone outside. Another situation is that there are ulterior secrets in the mobile phone, some men like to use the mobile phone some shady **, if their girlfriend knows, they will definitely feel ashamed.

    2. What are the effects of forcing your partner's mobile phone to see? It will affect the relationship between couples, and some people are particularly short-tempered, and when they find that the object looks at their mobile phone, they immediately turn their faces and don't recognize the person and want to break up. If the secret is discovered, there is likely to be a risk of extinction.

    So I think you must get the consent of the other party before looking at the phone, there will always be a reason for the other party to refuse, there is no need to be too entangled, after all, otherwise it is easy for you to suffer.

    3. If you don't want to show the other party your phone, what reason do you use to refuse? I just said I'll show you after a while, it's a little inappropriate now, and when the two of us get to know each other, I'll agree to whatever you want to see. Although it is difficult to say that you say that you reject others, you must face it calmly and do not make people suspicious.

    If there is really something unsightly in the phone, it is recommended to delete it earlier.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is a personal privacy issue, and if you want to see it, there will be cracks in the trust of the two people.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can look at me when you're in love, but you can see me and I want to see yours. But I'd mind being honest, look no problem.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you fall in love, you will not be able to show each other in the case of hunger, and if you want to see it, you will show it to each other when you ensure that there is no privacy, and the mobile phone is a personal communication tool, and there is a lot of personal information in it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This trillion collapses and looks at the shirt and the clan doesn't care.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at the other party's character, and his feelings, and bury because no matter what the relationship is, it's not a taste to show your mobile phone to the other party, unless it's a special relationship to talk about doing something else, and you don't mind sharing it with you, and you don't mind sharing it with me, which doesn't have any worries.

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