Why are there so many divorces after the 90s, and what happened to the marriage?

The increase in the divorce rate is due to carelessness in marriage.

I don't know when everyone's concept of marriage has changed, and marriage is not like it used to be a very important event. Marriage has become child's play.

The prerequisite for marriage is to love each other, but not to love one another is the only condition. When you enter into marriage, you just rely on your passion, so when you encounter conflicts in your married life, you will often feel regretful.

Marriage can only be entered after comprehensive consideration of all aspects, and it is not as simple as we think.

In ancient times, marriage was a marriage between the parents of both parties after careful selection and careful consideration before they formed a good relationship for each other's children, and there was a lot of consideration in between.

We can only see the imperfections of ancient marriages, such as blind marriages and dumb marriages. But I didn't see anything worth learning.

Nowadays, people choose to get married more because of impulse, and when people are impulsive, they make some decisions. But is this decision really good? Is the other person really the person you want to spend your life with?

Will you be able to endure all his shortcomings and know the details of his family?

When I was not ready for anything, I hastily entered into marriage. If you entered sloppily at the beginning, then you will definitely pay for your sloppiness in the future.

Divorce is normal now, but we must also have a proper attitude, divorce is not a casual thing. Since we choose to get married, we must think about what will happen after marriage, and since we choose to get married, we can live a good life with each other.

Don't use divorce as a means of threatening people, and don't treat divorce as a casual thing. Unless there is really no way to get by, then you can exercise your right to divorce.

Therefore, I think the increase in the divorce rate is due to the fact that people are not cautious in their choices now, and even because people's perceptions are problematic.

Some experts have commented that the post-90s generation is the Beat Generation, and they believe that the post-90s generation does not know how to be tolerant and tolerant, so the frequency of divorce after the 90s will increase significantly. This is not only related to the quality and thinking of the post-90s generation, but also inseparable from the modern situation of society.

In modern society, people's thinking is no longer as conservative as it used to be. In the past, marriage represented a lifetime, and their attitude towards marriage was "marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog". In modern times, with the opening of people's minds and minds, people attach much less importance to marriage than before.

In modern times, there are many new online terms, such as flash marriage, naked marriage, and so on. And flash marriage, which means that two people do not understand each other, during the love period quickly married, which of course leads to two people after marriage contradictions, due to the difference in life values and social outlook, after two people get married, due to the pressure of life and work, they face a lot of contradictions, over time, this contradiction and shortcomings will be infinitely magnified, and the marriage of two people will also collapse. The naked marriage refers to the marriage of two people without any material basis for life, because two people have no material foundation, after marriage, the pressure in life will make two people feel very troubled, the cost of renting, property fees, water and electricity bills and various payments in life, will make them feel very confused in life, lose confidence in marriage, and then lead to divorce.

The increase in the divorce rate of the post-90s generation is not how marriage is, but the thinking of modern people has changed a lot. After all, marriage is a major event in life, we have to be responsible for ourselves, but also responsible for each other, only two people understand each other, tolerate each other, in order to make the marriage long-lasting, only experience to know how to cherish, and this kind of change of thinking, it takes years of accumulation. So if you meet the other half that can make you give everything, please cherish it, marriage is not easy to come by!

After all, many ideas and concepts will be very different from each other, especially in marriage.

In ancient times, in fact, before the sixties and seventies, the parents' generation, their emotional concepts still followed the rules of their ancestors. The most famous thing is what to marry and obey the husband, women should abide by women's morals, three outlines and five Lun, no talent is virtue.

After getting married, you must obey your husband in everything, and you will live with your husband as the main one every day.

What's more, in the past, it was all the words of the matchmaker at the behest of the parents, and the marriage partner was not decided by themselves, and even found out what their husband looked like on the night of the wedding, which was very common at that time.

In the society at that time, women didn't dare to think about death, and at that time, it seemed that they were not abiding by women's morals, not chaste, and were going to be immersed in the pig cage.

But times are changing, and what about people now, their minds are not as old and rotten as before.

If two people really love each other, the time has come, the relationship has also arrived, and naturally, it is time to get married. However, love doesn't last, I think.

In the marriage relationship, the relationship between two people will gradually change from love to family affection, in fact, this is a sublimation of love, so that two people can live together for a long time.

However, some people have no fate, even if two people are in love with each other and married, but the relationship is broken, and it has not been transformed from love to family affection, and living together has become a kind of torture for each other.

Then, you can choose divorce, everyone has the right to pursue love, and you can't use marriage to bind each other and let each other live in pain.

The main thing is that since the post-80s and 90s, the mind has become open-minded and no longer closed and rotten. Since childhood, he has received a new type of education and has become a new human being with some flesh and minds.

As a post-90s, I feel the fear of getting married, because there are many friends or relatives around me who have divorced within a few years of marriage, and now the divorce rate in China is so high, I feel that the post-90s have made a great contribution.

First of all, I think a large part of the reason why the post-90s divorce is because the 90s are still too young, they don't know what marriage and responsibility are, and they feel that they are young and have the capital to divorce, even if they are divorced, they can find someone to marry again, some time ago my cousin just divorced, married for more than two years, I asked him when I was eating, he said that he didn't want to divorce, he didn't care about the wrong temper, and he didn't want to leave after that, I didn't find it, many post-90s are like this, After talking about love for a while, I went directly to get married, only to find out that it wasn't like that at all, there were a bunch of trivial things at home, and the two of them didn't know anything except quarreling, and they looked down on each other, and finally divorced and there were not a few like this.

There is another reason for the family, the post-90s generation is accustomed to the generation, catching up with the family planning of the year, every family is a child is a baby, so after getting married, they are protecting their children, a little quarrel is the same as how in the field, parents do not persuade the fight and add fuel to the fire, the final result can be imagined, which is also a big reason.

No matter what the reason is, I still hope that the majority of post-90s generations, don't take marriage as a child's play, think about getting married and don't divorce at that time, that is not good for anyone, the most important thing is that you will become a second marriage at that time, and it is not easy to find it again.

There are a lot of divorced people around me, and most of them are divorced because they are dissatisfied with the current situation of life.

There are not many divorced people around me, because there are very few married people around me, and most of them choose to be single, so there are no divorced people.

The people around me are not divorced, everyone is very happy, and everyone is running their own small family with special care.

There is no divorce. My friends have lived a very happy life, and there will never be some divorce in my life.

It is because now that society has formed such a trend, people are not rational at all when facing feelings, sometimes the two parties will form conflicts, and then they will divorce, and there are many people who are not particularly good to their original families, so they have been seriously affected.

The reason is that the post-90s generation will choose flash marriage, and the lifestyle of the two people is not paid attention to in the marriage, and the personality is not run-in at all, so the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

The reason is that the flash marriage rate of the post-90s generation is relatively high, and many people do not attach importance to marriage and think that marriage is child's play, which is why the divorce rate is very high.