Do you know what it s like to be surrounded by people younger than you chasing you?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are surrounded by people who are younger than you pursuing you, you may feel that your charm is greater. Because a lot of people are pursuing you because you yourself may have a lot of charm, so others will pursue you, but sometimes we always feel that if we are pursued by smaller people around us, it may sometimes be more incredible. So if it's all relatively small people who are pursuing you, you can actually think about it sometimes.

    Because after all, love is in some ways ageless. Because sometimes the age limit is not the only condition for love restrictions, because two people who love each other, if they really want to be together, they may break through many obstacles, and they will choose to be together. Therefore, love is considered to be particularly sacred in the eyes of many people, so if a person pursues you, he may be happier in his current life.

    I have been in an environment with a lot of girls for a long time, but sometimes there is really no one to pursue. Therefore, there are many girls around me, and they are very confused about their love life. This kind of confusion is really not knowing what kind of person you need to find to love, or many people will pin their last hope on the kiss.

    Because they feel that as long as they go on a blind date, they can find a suitable person for themselves.

    Maybe the boys are younger than you when they pursue you, but they boldly choose to pursue you, so in some ways they can prove that you are particularly good. Because many guys choose to pursue you, you may be because you have some advantages that are different from other girls. At this time, you need to keep yourself in your original state, and don't think that because they are younger than you, they may be abnormal.

    Because sometimes in the face of love, there is no age.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hahahaha If it were me, then I would be happy. Because I think that if people around me who are younger than me like me, do they think that I belong to the type of confidant sister? I remember when I was a kid and I was in the sixth grade, there was a little brother, it seemed like he was in the fifth or fourth grade, he came downstairs to my house to look for me, and then after I went down, he actually told me, said he liked me, and he showed a very mature posture, pretending to be an adult there, saying he liked it there, and my first feeling was that I thought it was funny.

    Because at that time, everyone was so young, how could anyone like themselves, and they were still younger boys than themselves, and they didn't think about whether they were attractive, but after I went home, I told my family about these things, and they all felt that I was too unkind, and they actually laughed in front of others, maybe people just regarded you as a sister and then a kind of younger brother to sister's like, and said this kind of like, when I also thought about it carefully, I think it is indeed like this, Because I usually take good care of him at school.

    Whether it's elementary school, junior high school or high school, if you encounter this phenomenon, I will have the same feeling, because in my eyes people who are younger than me, they just don't experience so much, and then if they like me, it must be because I usually take care of them like a sister to a younger brother, so they have that kind of dependence like a family, think I'm a good girl, and don't really think I'm very attractive to like me. So I don't really take this kind of thing to heart, and of course I'll thank him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then associate with him and love him as much as you can.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A little smaller, of course, is nothing, the main thing is to like each other. Bless you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is normal and shows that you are loving.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If age is not linked to love, be brave and love, don't worry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Learn more, observe more, enrich yourself, and don't care about others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Settle down and calm down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Here I want to persuade you, if you don't like people, just say it and boldly refuse. Don't be ambiguous, and you like this feeling of being pursued, and you don't like him as a person, so you can only say that you are too selfish, and it will distort your view of love for a long time, and it will not be good for your own development.

    They all say: Women are made of water. It shows that girls are gentle by nature, and they are eager to be pampered, pursued, and praised.

    Everything that has to do with goodness, girls want it. It is normal to have this kind of mentality, provided that the pursuer and the pursued can appreciate each other, if it is only a unilateral contribution of one party, and the other party is not moved, then such a pursuit is meaningless and will not last long.

    If you say you don't like this boy, it means that he doesn't meet your requirements in some aspects, and you can't resonate with him cognitivelyIf you don't like it but don't want to give up, it can only mean that you are looking for a sense of love from this boyMaybe it's the boy's pursuit style that makes you feel confident in front of your friends or colleagues, or the boy himself is a considerate and well-qualified person who makes you reluctant to give up. Whatever the reason, you don't want to accept him, and even if he picks the stars from the sky for you, you'll pick and choose. Even if you reluctantly walk together in the future, you will show your dissatisfaction with him in your later life, and over time, he will also be assimilated by you and eventually part ways.

    So my suggestion is to readily refuse, you can re-examine your view of love, and find the other half that is really suitable for you and belongs to you. I also look forward to you coming out of your bad state and finding happiness that suits you, plusOil!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's really a pathology, but it's also the norm for most girls, and being liked by others is really a very addictive thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't want to accept this person, it means that you don't particularly like him yet, but just treat him as a friend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, this is a kind of pathology, just enjoy the process of being pursued.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many people have this mentality, they like the feeling of being loved by others, but they don't really love that person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's normal to be chased and liked, and if you don't want to accept it, you will explicitly refuse, otherwise it will add to the chaos.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think you like it, but because you like the feeling of being pursued.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course not. Everyone has the right to love and be loved. It's normal to be courted, and you love it.

    It's just that you can't accept marrying a boy younger than you. Traditionally, it is normal to think that men are older and women are smaller. In fact, it is not impossible for men to be small and women to be big.

    As the saying goes: female juniors hug gold bricks. As long as you truly love each other, it's okay to be small.

    As long as both parties can accept it, there is nothing wrong with the woman being older. You have to abandon secular concepts, what age is it now, women and men are also normal, as long as there is not too much difference, the average family will not object.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes. You enjoy the joy of being chased. It's just hanging people's appetites.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't accept it, don't feel it now, the two of you will be miserable in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Age is not an issue. If you don't like the other person, tell the other person bluntly not to hang the other person's appetite. If you don't want to accept the other party, tell the other party your honest thoughts, I think the other party can accept it, you ask if it is pathological, I personally think that it is not pathological, but a view of this kind of thing, after reflection, it is not suitable for yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As a boy with good conditions (hahahahaha), I still have a lot of girls chasing after me, although not as crazy and active as those in the TV series.

    Actually, I think what it's like to be chased by a girl depends on what type of girl she is.

    I think it can be divided into two main categories.

    One, you have no feelings for that girl at all.

    All I can say about this situation is that I don't like it very much. Since elementary school, I've tried to have girls often send things to me, when I was young, I didn't feel anything, so I accepted it very calmly, at that time I was really naïve and brainless, I felt that others seemed to like me a little, and then I had a little self-satisfaction and vanity in my heart. Slowly growing up a little, I felt a little uncomfortable in my heart, and then slowly learned to reject others, after all, I can't respond to other people's wishes.

    In fact, it is very annoying to be chased by others, mainly because I am not the kind of casual person, I don't like it, I don't like it, I won't reluctantly accept others because others like me, so I will be very embarrassed every time I refuse, especially my classmates or friends, although I say what I will be a good friend or something when I refuse, but it will be very embarrassing to get along in the future. Moreover, sometimes some girls are still very stubborn, and they still don't give up after refusing, and then they will really feel bored, and they often interfere with their normal life.

    Two, you have a little feeling for that girl.

    This was the case with me and my previous degree, we were junior high school classmates, and once we changed seats, and next to me happened to be the position of a classmate who was on leave, and the seat was empty. Then one day, I came up to me out of the blue and asked me if I could sit next to me, and I said, "That's not good," and she said, "Do you mind if I sit next to you?" I froze for a moment, then she said, "I don't mind," and she sat down, and we've been at the same table ever since.

    In fact, I just broke up with my first love not long ago, and I didn't want to fall in love again, although I was very beautiful before, and I was also a model team, and I was versatile, but I didn't take the initiative to tease her. Usually I don't take the initiative to talk to her, she takes the initiative to chat with me, and then takes the initiative to get to know me, and asks me to go to the movies on weekends. She helped me tidy up my desk in the classroom and buy me breakfast in the morning, and I refused her at first, but she still insisted on doing so, chasing me under the pretext of love at the same table.

    In fact, I was quite happy during that time, different from the feeling of being chased by a girl who didn't feel it before, I just felt very relaxed. People say that men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the veil, but I think it should be the girl who calls me who chases herself is the interlayer yarn. Later, we got together and got along very happily, mainly because I was not alone in the initiative, I felt that I was more active when I first fell in love, and she was completely passive and tired to get along.

    Therefore, I still prefer this kind of active girl.

    Okay, that's it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Anyone who pursues an object with his heart is a common denominator, not a characteristic.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'll think about it, I'll test him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why not, as long as it's good for yourself?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Different people have different personalities.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You are the elder brother, she is the younger sister, spoil her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Age is not an issue, there are also teenage years younger.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A good woman is afraid of Laibai

    Han, if you don't have technology, it's best not to copy other people's methods, dao doesn't work well, and the most direct way to use the real self-answer.

    I have pestered each other. Be attentive, take time, don't be afraid of getting hurt, have perseverance, there is no goddess who can't be chased, only boys who don't have self-confidence, I didn't believe it before, I know. I'm a 168 old rough buddy, I don't have much money, I don't have good looks, I chased the 174 goddess, I chased it for 7 years, and now, I'm very affectionate.

    It's just by wrapping.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Outstanding? Bai What counts as good? du rich? Good grades? Zhi Don't compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others! No.

    The content is absolutely excellent. Do you see that many gangsters have soaked in beautiful women who study well and gentlely! What advantages do you think the gangsters have?

    Don't throw in the towel before you can chase it. The situation is born from the heart, and the heart defense is invincible. If someone dares to think, someone will do it.

    Believe in yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    See if she can take a fancy to you, it doesn't matter which of you is good or not.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on what type she is.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Men should always be stronger. Otherwise, you will find yourself very sloppy when you are together. If you love him, you have to make yourself better than him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't care about that, just have a sincere heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There are no people who are better than you in all aspects, and sometimes complementarity is very marketable.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then you have to be better.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    has a motivated heart and a heart that loves him, and girls don't care about anything else as long as they like you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There is no one who is excellent in men and women, only inferiority complex in the heart.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Then he basically doesn't look down on you, don't think about it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The key is what attitude he has towards you

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's the same whether it's good or not.

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