Do women have to be stay at home wives for the sake of the family after marriage?

My advice is not to be a full-time family wife, a full-time wife is a thankless job, you are very tired but not recognized, others will think that you have not done anything, just take care of the children, cleaning, cooking, they will not see your efforts, feel that your life is enjoying, but you are very hard, you not only have to take care of the children, educate the children, but also take care of your husband's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and his parents have been your own parents, You will be in the trivial things of the family.

Gradually, your child will think that you are very annoying, will stick to his father, think that his father is the hero, support the family alone, work very hard, and you always nag him to annoy him, if you do not do a good job, his parents will have opinions, think that your daughter-in-law is not doing well, your husband will find fault with you, will dislike your meals are always like that, will dislike why you are not confident and beautiful when you are in love, you have completely become a yellow-faced woman, and you don't even have a chance to refute and explain.

The next thing is that there is no common language between you, you don't understand what your husband says, you are out of touch with society, he will dislike you for not understanding anything, you can't even chat with him, and you can't share anything for him, you have contradictions in such a life, maybe the junior is about to move, your family is in danger, do you have to swallow your anger?

A financially independent woman will be respected by others, no matter how much money you make, you are confident, you will not be out of touch with society, coordinate family and work, your family and work will become very good, and there will be few opportunities for me to exist above.

I don't think it's necessary, the scope of a full-time wife is too wide, and she contracts almost all the work of the family, cleaning, cooking, washing dishes, and taking care of the children if there are children, that is, only the man is making money in the whole family, and the woman's activity center is just a home, which is unacceptable to the individual.

Although I also like the feeling of being kept at home, and occasionally it is okay, but it is really boring to do that little bit of work every day or on a regular basis. I think that when it comes to work, men and women are the same, they all have the responsibility to take care of their families and love their families, and who goes out to work and who works at home depends on the work. <>

It should be my personal ideological problem, I don't like to spend other people's money, take advantage of others, even if I get married, I believe I still think like this.

I've watched some variety shows about marriage issues before, and many of them are wars because only men work outside and women work at home. A man thinks that it is a matter for a woman to spend his money if she doesn't work every day, and then he will have a hidden sense of superiority over women, and women are wronged, not to say who is right and who is wrong, in short, war will naturally occur.

I was also a strong person, and after seeing a lot of these kinds of things, I felt that I should not rely on others to support me in the future, even if I was busy with work at home, I had to persevere. The work is your own, and the money you earn can be spent by everyone, at least there will be no status problems.

In short, the environment is different, with the help of the mother-in-law or something, the spare time at work, the man is different, there is a spoiled wife, the woman's personality is not the same, there is a small family jasper, etc., the decision is still in your own, just be happy.

It depends on personal wishes. Girls don't necessarily have to be stay-at-home wives when they get married. It's up to her own mind. Everybody thinks differently.

Of course, I think. Girls are both before and after marriage. They should all have their own careers.

At the very least, you can support yourself. You can't just take care of your children at home, reach out to your husband every day to ask for living expenses, and so on. Although, you are helping him with the child.

But don't you think that your status in this family has obviously declined?

There are many girls who choose to stay at home with their children and be full-time mothers after they get married. But I think then your social circle will only be limited to this mom group. The only way to live every day is to take care of the children, cook, and do housework.

If you complain a little to your husband. He would say, "I'm going to work every day to earn money to support you." I'm more tired than you.

You don't do anything at home every day. Also shouted tired. At this time, you will have no status in this family.

Maybe the only value is to take care of children.

One of my relatives has been a stay-at-home mom since she got married. There is no social circle in life anymore. Compared to my sister-in-law, it's really different. Married at the same time and had children. But the difference is that one goes to work and the other is a stay-at-home mom.

Whatever the reason. Girls should have a career of their own. It's not big, but for you later. Yes, there are only benefits, and there are no harms. At the very least, you don't have to reach out to your husband to ask for money. At the very least, you are equal in this family.

Girls must not count on and rely on anyone in this life. Because no one can really be relied upon. You can only rely on yourself. You are best only when you entrust yourself to yourself.

I think it's better for women not to be full-time wives after marriage, because that really restricts their own development, and in serious cases, they will be out of touch with this society.

When you are willing to be a full-time wife, it is generally in exchange for your husband coming home later and later, or even falling in love with someone else. <>

Because as a stay-at-home wife, you just go in and out of the kitchen every day, and you can't be independent anymore. It's very sad for a woman to reach out and ask for money, you can't do what you want to do, you don't have a voice, because you don't have your own income, you can't be independent, you can't just walk away like before, because you have your family, your children, you have to cook for your husband, do your children, do laundry, clean the house. It's all about doing what an old mother does, are you willing to live like this for the rest of your life?

I believe that there is no woman who does not want to go to work, so she will marry and raise children at home every day. If you don't go to work for a short time, you may feel good, but if you don't go to work for a long time, you will stay at home for years. It's like "The First Half of My Life" played some time ago.

Men's vows are generally just casual words, and only by making themselves better and better can they contain a man's heart.

If one day, as a stay-at-home wife, you face divorce, you have no job, you have no income, and you have long forgotten how to greet society, then how will you survive and how will you stand in this society of the jungle?

Therefore, if people have no foresight, they will have near-term worries. When you live comfortably and have a husband who can make money who wants to support you and want you to be a full-time wife at home, you should think that there will be such a terrible day in the end.

Always spur yourself on, tell yourself what kind of person you should be, not only your family in life, but also ourselves.

I think that if the man has enough financial strength to support the family, the woman can be a full-time wife for the family after marriage, after all, the current view is that the boy earns money to support the family, and the girl has a husband and children.

After watching "Where Are You Going, Dad" some time ago, I feel that Xiao Xiaochun's education is very good, and it is inseparable from the education of their parents. Ying Caier said that some advantages and disadvantages before the age of three affect the future, so he must attach great importance to education, and it will also push the work, and then educate Xiaoxiaochun.

That's why I felt very touched after listening to it that day. If you want your child to do well in the future, you must instill some correct ideas in him when he is young, Xiao Xiaochun is also performing very well now, and it seems that the tutor is also very good. So, if it's for my family, I can be a full-time wife.

In fact, educating children well is very.

It's a kind of thing for men. Not necessarily, it's hard for me to work hard in my career, but I feel that educating children is really a very difficult thing. When you are young, your child is always very sensitive, and some of the things you say will always accidentally affect him.

Sometimes a word can ruin a child. Therefore, educating children is also a very important science.

But if the man's economic strength is not very strong. Maybe when the child goes to elementary school, he can cut outside and work hard. After all, if you always stay at home and don't do something, you're just sitting on empty seats.

Especially for men, when one person's salary can't support the whole family. Therefore, this kind of thing also depends on the situation, and it is not said that all women must be full-time wives after marriage, but the education of children must be particularly good. Guarantee not to leave behind the education of the little ones.

Second, think about whether you want to go out and look for a job.

Family and work are not incompatible.

I think there is a misconception that if a woman works and can't take care of the family at all, so if she wants to take care of the family, she must become a stay-at-home wife.

Work will allow girls to find their own value in life and feel that they are not an idle existence. Or it doesn't make others feel like they're a parasite.

Girls still have to have their own careers after marriage. Maybe the career is a bit big, it should be said that he has his own job and his own circle. Such girls are always confident.

Nowadays, the pace of life is relatively fast, and if you only rely on a man's salary, it can only be said that it is just enough for food and clothing. But don't all of them want to be better? If the girl also has a stable job of her own, then it can relieve a lot of pressure on the boy.

The family is getting better and better with the joint efforts of two people.

Family and work are not contradictory topics. I want to take care of the family, but it doesn't matter if I work or not. I can juggle my family outside of work.

Some people may say that it is not good to take care of the family in this way, but one thing must be understood. The home is the home of two people, not the woman alone.

There are many couples around me who are office workers and take care of their own families together, so that couples can better understand each other's difficulties. And most of the feelings are good.

In fact, the family is the one hundred and ten square rooms, and the most important thing is the problem of the children. Both husband and wife make plans on their own time, which will not affect the child's development.

So I don't think it's necessary for women to be full-time wives for the sake of the family after marriage.

Don't be a full-time wife, the average family doesn't have this condition, you don't need to make much money, but you have to have your own career, people can't be out of touch with society, and for physical and mental health, right?! Running to work often will also exercise your body, and your work and rest will be regular, which is conducive to maintaining your figure.

Once a woman becomes a stay-at-home wife, her contact with the outside world becomes more and more limited. At this time, you will have no idea how the world is changing, and your perception of all new things will become more and more dull. Over time, you will become less and less confident, feeling that you can't keep up with this era and the men around you.

Of course, women should not be full-time wives after they get married, because full-time wives are the most dangerous profession in the world.

No, being a stay-at-home wife is very risky, and there is no guarantee in the future, which will also make you have a lot of hidden dangers and increase a sense of insecurity.

It's a paradoxical question, and I'm working full-time at the moment because I have no one to help with the baby and have to do it at home. On the one hand, I think it is a very happy thing to be able to grow up with my baby, and I also have more initiative in the baby's education. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems have been avoided.

But on the other hand, after a long time, I will be more tired, it is more difficult to take care of the baby alone, and the loneliness will double, and I feel that I have been out of society for too long and I am more anxious, and I don't know what kind of job I can find in the future. If the husband is not very considerate and understanding, he will be more depressed, and it is really uncomfortable to take care of the children alone without understanding.

Because of the above reasons, it is not recommended for the majority of female friends to become full-time wives. Some people may want to relax after marriage, so that it looks relaxed for the time being, there is no pressure, and some families do not have to worry about their financial and financial resources, and do not make this decision easily, but after a long time, they will slowly lose touch with society, and slowly become unconfident, and even many families will have a lot of conflicts because of this. You can choose to spend some time at home with your children, during which you should also learn to balance your state and learn about your work in a timely manner, so that you don't feel uncomfortable when you continue to work in the future.

Women must have the focus and value of their own lives, otherwise you will need to face a lot of things in the future, and you must learn to adjust your emotions.

No matter what the situation, you must and must work, one is to better adapt to your life in the future, and not to give up on yourself, no one is completely reliable. The second is that after giving up work, it is equivalent to giving up your life circle, and your former friends and colleagues will become more and more lacking in contact with you due to time and work and family reasons, and you will slowly find that your life circle is getting smaller and smaller. The third is that they are out of touch with society, and when their children are older, they will find it more difficult to return to the workplace.

Fourth, in order to have the courage to live a good life in the future, divorce has become commonplace in today's society.

We don't work for divorce, but we have to stay sober at all times, so that even if we get divorced, we won't be embarrassed.