Do you really regret not falling in love in college?

Updated on educate 2024-04-21
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, I didn't fall in love during college, and although many of my friends have fallen in love one after another, it may not be the most important thing for me.

    I went to a lot of places that I longed for very much during college, and I was obsessed with pursuing my own little happiness, maybe for others, love can bring them happiness, of course, my happiness is not only love, so there is no need to regret not being in love during college.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course not. Falling in love is not an extremely important thing in life. Of course it can be an experience, a growth.

    With only four years of college, whether or not you're in a relationship doesn't make a big difference for most people. If you fall in love in college, it may not last long; If you don't fall in love, it doesn't mean you won't talk about it in the future, it just depends on whether you are interested and whether you are interested. It's just that during this time period, you lack an emotional experience, but it's not a bad thing, at least, you have less emotional bonds and save a original intention.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    For me, I won't regret not falling in love in college, but if I feel that I have met the right person or the right person in college, I will consider falling in love, but I don't think I should go out of my way to fall in love in college, after all, after entering college, we should focus on studying, and the relationship is more about fate and let it be.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel like I will. After all, there is still an essential difference between campus love and social love, campus love is simple and not mixed with other factors, there is not so much pressure in life, you like it because you are a person, and you will not consider anything else, innocent and beautiful.

    After entering the society, everyone's thinking will change, and in the face of huge life pressure, they may make some choices that go against their hearts, and they will not be as simple as when they were in school.

    Of course, there are no absolutes in everything, and if conditions permit, it is also a good choice to fall in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, this is not necessarily, if you don't meet the right one in college, there is no need to force yourself to fall in love. Falling in love is a happy thing, and if you want to have a vigorous love with the person you like, it doesn't depend on the length of time, but whether you are that person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no such statement, I don't regret it, because I haven't met someone I like, so I won't regret it, if I have a favorite and don't pursue it, I will definitely regret it, I've always been alone in college, and I feel quite comfortable, I also met my current boyfriend after graduating from the internship, and our relationship is also very good, I think no matter the ** stage of love, as long as it is happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on the individual's goals and life, if there is no goal in college, then it is really good to fall in love, you can pass the time, and it is even more worthwhile in case you meet the true love of your life.

    But a person like me is more ambitious, and as soon as I enter the university, I know that I will be admitted to graduate school in the future, so I take advantage of it.

    First, there is still time in the sophomore year, I can develop my interests, participate in more clubs, make friends, and wait until the beginning of the junior year to prepare for the graduate school entrance examination and indulge in studying. For me, the future is more important than love, so there is no need to fall in love in college, it is better to wait for me to really stabilize before falling into a mature relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily, everyone's goals for going to college are different, some people focus on the graduate school entrance examination and don't want to be distracted by other things, so they don't fall in love, while some people want to study professional courses in college, and then have a vigorous love, so there is no standard for this, it depends on personal thoughts.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, it depends on what you think? There is also to be according to your actual situation, if you really don't want to fall in love, then you can find something meaningful to do, such as studying or making some interesting people, the important thing is to enrich yourself, feel that college is not in vain, and strive to increase your life experience and enhance the thickness of your life. It is also to pave the way for future relationships.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I personally think it's a pity that I don't fall in love in college. Because of the relationship at this time, you can have more time to maintain the relationship. But once you get to work, maybe two people will be busy.

    If you want to do some things that should be done as a couple, such as eating or watching movies, you may not have much time. And being in love in college is a particularly beautiful feeling.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I didn't fall in love when I was in college, and now my husband is my first love. I can't say that I regret not falling in love in college, but I don't have the emotional experience to step into society in the future. married his first love, brought his immaturity into marriage, didn't understand how to get along with his husband, and when he really understood the feelings, there was no turning back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel that I will, they all say that college is a small society, and I have never been in love in society, so when you really step into society, you are very unfamiliar with the word love, after all, love is a beautiful and happy thing, and it will grow from love. It is recommended that it is better to have a serious relationship when you are in college.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think this should look up to the individual, I went to fall in love in college and never talked about it, because I feel that if you want to fall in love, the work will not necessarily be assigned together in the future, in that case, I will be even more sad if I am separated, it is better not to talk about it, and wait until my job is stable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What's there to regret about this, university is a good place to study, and you should be thankful that you spend all your energy on studying.

    If you succeed in your studies, you will find a good job, you will have a lot of time to fall in love, you will have a higher chance of meeting the object you like, and you will be more free to fall in love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are already many female college students who don't believe in campus love anymore, so they always chase dramas in the dormitory, and they won't find a boyfriend, because love in college says that they will break up, and graduation is when they break up

    In fact, many college students are always sober and have not been carried away by love.

    Is it necessary to fall in love during college, but also respect everyone's ideas and needs, and don't treat this matter as a task to complete, because in addition to love, there are many meaningful things that can be accomplished during college.

    Not only academic further study but also various social practices and club activities, etc., are the best period to improve one's self-ability, and during this time, you should work hard or strive to obtain some certificates to pave the way for future employment.

    Instead of thinking about what kind of person you want to fall in love with, it is better to plan what kind of path you want to take in the future and prepare in advance.

    If you are in love during college, you should take your relationship seriously.

    Everyone has their own ideas, and there are many benefits to falling in love during college on the basis of not delaying your studies.

    For example, you can improve your emotional intelligence, and you can also think about your own emotional outlook, two people accompany each other, and work together to make the future better, and good love is indeed beneficial.

    But I'm afraid of encountering some bad relationships, like some people who fall in love for the sake of falling in love, at the moment of graduation, they are often facing the time to break up, and the consequences of not cherishing the relationship are bound to bring harm.

    When falling in love, you should also be rational and objective, think about whether two people can go on for a long time, whether the future plan is consistent, no matter how you choose, the mentality is still very important.

    Regardless of whether you are in love in college or not, college life is very beautiful, freshmen who have just entered the university should enjoy the four years of college, grasp their youth, and wish everyone a happy start to school and a bright future!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are many things that can be done in college to fall in love, but one of them is that even if you don't fall in love in four years of college, you don't know how to regret it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is nothing to regret, now that there are Songlings who don't fall in love in college, they mainly focus on learning and splitting their careers, study hard, get a graduation certificate, and it's not too late to fall in love after finding a good source of work.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Most people will regret it, because the love in school is very pure and unadulterated, not mixed with anything, very sweet and romantic, and it is a good memory.

    We all know that the older people get, the more responsible they will be, and many times they can't have a good relationship, and at the same time, they can't feel the kind of love that really doesn't have any burden. It is precisely because we have a lot of responsibilities that when we are in love, it means that we need to be responsible for each other and need to think about how our lives will be in the future. So compared to the kind of stress-free love in school, we undoubtedly enjoy it more.

    In this regard, it is indeed a pity that I have not been in love in school.

    As a student, except for the fact that we are busy with schoolwork and have some exam pressure, there is no pressure on us for other things. For example, we don't need to take on the responsibility of making money, we don't need to take on the responsibility of raising a family, etc. In this regard, falling in love at school is also an infinite consideration of economic conditions, and there is no need to consider the other party's family situation, as long as you like it.

    In this regard, such a love is undoubtedly full of sweetness and no burden.

    If you only study in school and don't fall in love, you can't feel the pure sweetness. Because most of the time, many people think that they only need to study during school, and they don't pay attention to anything else, but they don't expect that falling in love at school can be a beautiful thing without regrets. Of course, this refers to the college period, and the school life below the university must be focused on studying, and it is not recommended to fall in love.

    In this regard, if you have taken the university exam and meet someone you like, you must go for a carefree relationship.

    When we go out to society, it is estimated that the day slip call that we look back on is also the most important thing for students, especially in college. During this period, many good memories are generated here, and there is no pressure and burden, and the moment we step into the society, all the responsibilities have to run to it. Even if you are in love, you need to consider whether you can be responsible and whether you can give her happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Judging from the time of talking, it is not appropriate to fall in love.

    What is the main purpose of going to university? Of course, it is a quest for knowledge. If you're going to be in a relationship, it's hard to juggle both studies and relationships.

    Dating can take up a lot of the day and interfere with your future plans and goals. For example, you plan to go to graduate school and make a plan for yourself. But your partner doesn't want you to go to graduate school, and he thinks that it is less likely that you will be together in this way.

    Falling in love can also cost you time with other people. There are a lot of activities in college, and you may not be able to participate in it because you are in love.

    You always have to give up something, whether it's a happy time with your roommates, a kuana than, or an activity time with your club mates.

    Falling in love can also make it difficult for you to find a job. You can't concentrate on looking for a job because you have to take into account that the other person is going to work. If you have a good job, then you can't go, and you don't want to go to a bad job.

    Some good jobs are gone at this time.

    It also costs a lot of money to fall in love, and this money is generally paid for by the parents. Imagine that you are in love, but your parents are frugal at home, which makes people feel very comfortable.

    Judging from the attitude of talking, it is not appropriate to fall in love.

    Personally, I think that a relationship that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan. In college, you find a random couple to fall in love, and you ask them if they have considered going together in the future, and many people shake their heads.

    People who are in love think about the feeling in front of them and do not put much effort into being together, their relationship is cheaper and vulnerable.

    For the sake of their own pleasure, two people sometimes do not hesitate to live together for the purpose of love. After the two of them had an affair, the first thing that came to mind was how to escape responsibility.

    Later, some people started playing love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Cheating on not falling in love in college and not regretting it because I was a student before? It's better to put your studies first.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What we can't deny is that there are some academic couples from the same school, and perhaps the least regretful thing in their lives is that they have a campus love.

    Because, for each other, meeting each other is like opening a learning buff, because with each other, they have a better self.

    Such a couple does exist, but it's not about how beautiful the love was during college, but how beautiful it was to meet the right person.

    If you are really sure that the other person is the person you are looking for, and it happens that he thinks so too, then you can go in love.

    But we can't just be in love in our lives.

    There is a fragment in "Wulin Gaiden": Tong Xiangyu felt very sorry for losing the jade sense given to him by Bai Zhantang.

    She used a lot of methods, but there was still no way to get the jade card back, and she kept chattering about it and regretted it.

    Bai Zhantang said to her: "If you want, I can find countless firsts for you, say three days and three nights, and there will be no duplicates." ”

    In Tong Xiangyu's view, the important thing is not only the jade plate, but also because it was the first time that Bai Zhantang gave himself what he cherished.

    It's the same thing to substitute this matter into the love in college, it doesn't mean that there must be an ending to the story at the beginning.

    In fact, when we look back at our college days, and even our high school careers beyond, how many couples have made it to the end?

    When they have the least money and power, they spend their most precious time on something that will not bear fruit at all.

    In the end, should they regret missing the person who used to hold hands, or because of the past and those opportunities they missed?

    College shouldn't be all about love, either.

    Some people have never been in a relationship in college, but after graduation, they also met the right person at the right time.

    Now, they are married and have children, maybe their lives are not very perfect, but it is also a good thing for them.

    The greatest meaning of our school years is not to find a partner, but to find a possibility of self-fulfillment.

    In the end, what kind of person we can become, and it is often this period of time that determines the long life after that.

    Love is just a dispensable experience for college days, and the future and opportunities may not come again if they are missed.

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