Love or reality? 50 points for advice.

Updated on society 2024-04-02
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If love can be eaten, love is needed, and if not, it must be realistic

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm simple: Mixed with a little romance in reality, you can get both love and reality, don't believe it, you try.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love her, give everything for her, money can be earned, as long as you are motivated.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Simple reality two words, I hope you wake up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wait until you have the reality to choose love! Otherwise, you'll have a hard time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a stubborn girl, being able to bow her head in front of you means that she is interesting to you, even if you can't be together, now you have to help him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it were me, I would do my best to help her, as much as I could. I believe that you will not feel guilty this way. No matter what you do, you have to decide according to your actual situation.

    Love is important, but you must not be too wronged yourself, sometimes you can't help much materially, maybe you can give some psychological comfort.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is a must... But when you have to face the reality, you have to accept it calmly... So love is to face reality... How to love without facing reality...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Help her come up with ideas If you haven't made money for so long, there must be a business problem, even if you give her more money, you will lose it, not to mention, you don't have any money now. Then put some thought into the business, with a good business plan, maybe it will be quite over, and the idea is also to help people. And, even if you get together with her, does it have anything to do with her shop?

    Just because you give her financial support doesn't mean she'll be able to earn money. The problem at the moment is that she can't make any money. What does it have to do with your love, you're confused.

    If you can't come up with a good idea for her, then you give up, you can't do it, and in the end it will hurt people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, the reality is in love, if love. Let's work together. For her, she is not afraid of hardships and suffering. If you don't love enough, like you are now, wandering. together, I'm afraid you won't make it to the end! Love is not the same as liking and pity.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe this is an opportunity, a chance to be with her, a chance to show your manly side well, don't tell me you're going to give up!? There will still be things in the world that money can't buy

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you want to have both?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, like you, I have been confused about the relationship between reality and love. But the love I choose, I believe that as long as two people work hard, they will definitely be able to live a good life. Like me, we now have not only our own house but also our car.

    There are also formal jobs. Life is very happy. If you really love her, be brave enough to chase her

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No matter what it is, it's realistic, sometimes it doesn't feel like it's necessarily right, it's better to be realistic!

    Remember. Personally, I think reality is more important, and what is staged on TV is always so beautiful, but does it exist in real life? So I personally think that when reality and feelings are in conflict, it is more important to recognize reality, after all, feelings can't be eaten, and blindly insisting on feelings may hurt both people.

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    I think it's still realistic, because I've tried it. In the past, I was paying attention to feelings, and I always thought that when I had feelings, I would gradually develop feelings. It's true as I thought, but there are many things that can be solved with feelings and feelings.

    After experiencing it, I woke up. It's better to be realistic! Maybe our situation is different, but I still want to say:

    Feeling like it doesn't solve the problem!

    Love is a very delicate thing, you don't need to use too many words to decorate, as long as it is a look and gesture from the other party. You know what it means. So feeling is indispensable in love, but reality is actually very important, if you don't consider the reality of the problem, blindly pursue, then this love will have a future?

    are very important, if you are very good at handling friendship, it means that you also value your love.

    This is a relative question with no definite answer. The two promote each other and limit each other. Love is built on the basis of the economy, and the economy is the foundation of marital love.

    If you don't have a certain economic foundation, how can you get the guarantee of starting a family? But on the other hand, man is not an isolated individual in society. Sometimes, a warm home can give people unlimited motivation (persistence).

    Of course important Luo! But idealism is also important! Because, now staring at the omission of imagination + realistic efforts = absolutely OK!

    Feeling is the appearance Reality, it is reality If there is no feeling, reality is just an empty shell If there is no reality, feeling is only a dream Therefore: everything is important! Weigh the pros and cons for yourself!

    A combination of both. It is important to like yourself, but after all, your parents are from the past, they have experience and experience, and it is very important to be calm. It will be helpful to listen to them more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, love without reality is like a fairy tale, although it is beautiful, but it is short-lived.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, the man confesses, and the woman is sensible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Reality is a test of love! Seek adoption.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Marriage is like a bicycle, and love is like gas in a car tire.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said about marriage: Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city desperately want to rush in, and people inside the city desperately want to rush out.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    People who choose love because they have a beautiful yearning for love in their hearts, and they think that with love, no matter how hard and tiring life is, they can always get through, after all, material cannot completely replace people's spiritual world. And those who choose reality are likely to have experienced a hundred flavors and thousands of hardships in life, and they deeply understand in their hearts that material things are too important in this society.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, it's best to have both.

    However, bears and claws cannot be both, and I believe that most women will choose reality, because a marriage without love and bread is impossible to be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Everyone's choice is different, if love and bread can't have both. Let's choose bread. Because love will one day be transformed into affection or into enemies.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, it should be realistic. If love is not based on material things, it is impossible to be happy for a long time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think love and reality are very conflicting, this is both reconciled, not to say that there is no one or the other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is love or reality, no matter how good the love is, it can't escape the test of reality, so it's better to say that there is still a reality between love and reality.

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