So that you can grow? 20

You have to try to be independent, it's impossible for you to think about not relying on others all of a sudden, you have to take your time, start with small things, try to do something you can do independently, or a slightly more difficult thing, don't rely on others for everything like before. Then there is your ability to distinguish right from wrong, get along with others more, see more, do more, talk less, and that's it. Take your time, don't rush too much, it's better to find a job or something to hone in.

First of all, I don't think you can tolerate laziness, because it will make you more depressed, isn't there a saying? Can diligence make up for it? Do more activities, think more, what is the plan of life, or what kind of work you want, and do your study (work) well is the key.

Only when you think more about what you should do and what you shouldn't do, and you can't do the wrong things anymore, and you can only have a better development if you are strict with yourself.

I feel that you are actually quite sensible and know what your shortcomings are, but don't worry, people are always learning to grow up slowly, and the key is closely related to your living environment, if the people around you are more responsible, or some very successful people, you will feel their influence, and you also have motivation and confidence in yourself. Believe that you will succeed.

Hehe, I'm just like you, and I'm not growing up, and others say that I'm about to get married, and I'm still so unserious.

But I still don't want to grow up, because when I grow up, I have to think too much about things, and it will be annoying, so no matter what others say, I still laugh and run around like that. However, it is best to pay attention to what you say, because after all, you are such a big person, and many people will not see you as a child anymore, and your words will also have meaning. Ordinary people say, "You can eat indiscriminately, but you can't talk indiscriminately."

It's simple, you can mature just by being in love!

However, considering that you are only 20 years old, the main goal is to study, and it is better not to get involved in the whirlpool of love too early.

Another way is to read more extracurricular books, such as some motivational books, which can teach you how to deal with relationships!

People, it is inevitable that they will encounter foolish things in life, but their growth has not stopped.

I often say to my friends: no matter how great a person is, no matter how smart a person is, he will always be a child in the face of the heavens and the earth.

Remember, the more careful and shrewd those are, the more tedious and tired life is, because in their hearts.

There is always a fear of losing what you have, and you have to find what you don't have or even someone else's.

So friends, you are growing every day, and so are everyone else, and there must be many of them who are smarter and better than us .........So who is happier? The answer is us.

Just have a righteous, kind, forgiving heart. You are the wise man forever. After hard work.

You will have everything you want.

The process of growth is the process of maturation.

Maturity depends on gradual cultivation, and this process cannot be rushed, and it is useless to be in a hurry.

Observe the world more, be familiar with interpersonal relationships, and use your brain more when encountering problems, what the friends above said is a bit reasonable, it is also a good thing to hit a wall, and you can grow a wisdom only by being tempered. Rich social experience is the foundation for true growth. Remember!

At least you have a good heart, and you don't have nothing. Lazy? Unmotivated?

Is it simple-minded? Since you can realize it yourself, it means that you are the one who can untie your own knots. There is only one time in a person's life, and there are about 30,000 days in life, who would be willing to fall forever, you lack motivation and confidence, you can find this yourself.

Tell you. Judging by what you wrote. Explain that you already have a goal in mind.

You're not who you used to be. At least you now understand what you should do. As long as you work hard, communicate with people more.

Read more books. The best in terms of communication. Look beyond the surface of things.

It takes time and process, take your time!

There's nothing wrong with a girl keeping a simple heart.

But don't rely on others, you can't just want to grow here, first of all, you must establish the concept of self-confidence and self-improvement, everything must rely on yourself, not always rely on others.

You seem to know your weaknesses in detail and comprehensively. I see you're growing up and know what's good and what's not. Now the question is that you can do it slowly and patiently.

Being used by others is not necessarily a disadvantage, but don't always trust others, because people have been blackened by money, it's better to be simple, don't think so much,

Read more books, read newspapers, and think more.

Reality will make you grow quickly.

You need a psychiatrist, you know, life is like this.

Failure is the mother of success, what can a person who has not experienced failure learn from it?

Only those in their thirties are eligible, and those in their 20s should not mislead others.

It's better for women to be simpler

1. Have courage to do things, dare to think and dare to do.

When I was a child, I was a good man and very obedient. I live all day long in the praise of my mother and the praise of relatives and friends. Remember.

When I was seven or eight years old, my mother asked me to respect my teachers and know how to "call people", but I often called strange passers-by "uncle" and "aunt", which made others and myself very embarrassed. "Good men" are easy to make themselves timid, cowardly, and follow the rules and be timid.

Don't live in other people's expectations, dare to pursue the life you like. Actually, no one really cares about how other people live, so don't tie yourself too tightly with other people's opinions. All successful people are envious and dare to break through the rules and regulations of the existing faction, have the courage to explore and innovate, and do things bravely, which will make your life very exciting.

2. Don't regret what you've done.

When I was a child, I did something wrong, and I always complained about myself, how good it would have been if I had done it before. In fact, even if a sage is a sage, he will make mistakes, as the so-called "a wise man must make a mistake in a thousand thoughts", so it is inevitable that anyone will do something wrong, and he will not be too much to blame.

The consequence of blaming oneself for being too perfectionist is that one hesitates to do things in the future, fearing that he will do things wrong.

Be open-minded, enlarge the pattern, don't regret what you've done, learn to bear the results, and learn from the lessons at the same time, which will make you live with confidence and hope for the future.

3. Don't make fun of others.

I've seen a lot of similar news: so-and-so beat his classmate to the point of bleeding because of a joke from his classmate. Everyone's self-esteem strength is different, and so does the ability to endure, and sometimes the little things you think are not worth mentioning may cause others to feel that their self-esteem has been seriously hurt and take revenge violently.

Year after year, every year do you have something that you remember?

There will always be something about our growth that you will remember.

But I think that year after year has passed, every year we have some things that make us feel that the memory is deep and high, is that we grow up and always have some experiences that you will remember, so I think sometimes our people are constantly growing and changing, because many times we always have some things that we feel are unforgettable, because in the past year after year, we have experienced countless ups and downs, and sometimes we may feel that it is not easy to go all the way. But we should be grateful to ourselves who can persevere all the way, because in this way you can have continuous motivation to fight for the future, but we all have to constantly change and make some achievements, so I think sometimes we should be grateful for the original self and the self that has persevered until now. Because sometimes year after year, there are always things that make you feel memorable and unforgettable.

Allow yourself to make a difference.

It is that year after year, we will always experience some things that make us remember, but we also have to make changes to ourselves, because in the past year, we will summarize some things that we feel will be memorable and things that are worth improving, so we can have enough motivation to make changes for ourselves, because sometimes we have to grow up, we also have to pay a certain price, and sometimes the past can only be recalled, but our lives still have to go on.

There are times when each of us is growing, because year after year passes, we may have a lot of memorable and unforgettable things, but we can't stop grinding the tassel ruler step in the present, we can only slowly look back on the past, but we don't forget to move forward, we only keep moving forward can let us have enough memories, let us have more motivation, and work hard for ourselves.

Most of those who give up on their children make difficult choices because of difficulties in life, or because of their lack of self-ability.

Therefore, we must continue to allow ourselves to grow and improve, so that we have enough ability to educate and protect children, so that they can grow up more confidently and happily, and achieve a better self in the future.

If we want to improve ourselves effectively, we must pay attention to the right way to improve:

1.Pay more attention to reading in your daily life.

Books are wise**, the more books you read, the more wise you will become, people who read often have breadth and depth when thinking about problems, it is easier to solve problems appropriately in a wise way, and often read books when thinking and dealing with problems, more independent and rational, can expand our horizons and increase our knowledge.

2.Have the courage to admit your shortcomings.

It is not terrible to have shortcomings, what is terrible is not to dare to face up to and correct it, shortcomings and advantages can be transformed into each other, the premise is to correctly understand and correct the deficiencies in a down-to-earth manner, everyone has their own shortcomings, but the focus is to understand and recognize and value them, with their own actions and positive attitudes to make changes, so that they become better and better.

3.Do things with the power of action.

Reflect your initiative and positive attitude with action, prove your ability and level, and be full of positive and autonomous actions to make your ability to be effectively improved, continue to learn in action, choose the method that suits you, accumulate and summarize experience, so as to make yourself more and more excellent.

4.Learn from people you admire.

The reason why you admire that person is because they have a certain good quality that we don't have, and this good quality is the direction we need to learn, so learn from the people you admire, so that you can continue to effectively improve your knowledge level and ability, so that you can become a better talent.

5.Learn to summarize yourself.

Let yourself be completely quiet, think about whether there is anything wrong with dealing with people that day, carefully reflect on whether there are deficiencies in your communication style, and know how to introspect and summarize, in order to accurately find your own shortcomings, and then you can better improve and improve yourself.

In life, in the details of daily communication and care of my own life, I will feel such a situation.

Therefore, in fact, we must strive to continue to grow ourselves, improve our knowledge level and ability, so that we can face life independently and positively, so that we can create our own beautiful future.

To strive to grow ourselves, we can focus on the following points to allow ourselves to grow effectively:

1.Exercise every day.

If you are full of positive yearning for life, learn to start exercising, and insist on exercising for a period of time, you will find that your life has become different, your physique has become better, you have become more serious in talking and doing things, and your focus time has become longer, whether you are working or studying, you will be more efficient, and you will become more and more confident, as long as you start to change yourself, life will develop in a better direction.

2.Learn to summarize yourself.

Learn to calm yourself down completely, think about whether there is anything wrong with dealing with people that day, carefully reflect on and summarize your work is if there are deficiencies, etc., know how to introspect, in order to discover the strengths and weaknesses of your personality faster, to look at yourself objectively, to do self-improvement, a person only clearly understands himself and realizes himself more quickly to become an excellent person.

3.Make an effort to learn something new.

The most intuitive and effective way of self-growth is to learn new knowledge, you can try to learn a little new knowledge every year, start from scratch, and finally summarize when you can find that you have made great progress, learn new knowledge, not only can make time more effective use, but also enhance people's self-confidence, as long as you want to learn, you can start to do it, a little progress every day, we can get closer to a better self.

4.Focus on cultivating your own interests and hobbies.

Many people will say: interest is just interest, but in fact, interest can effectively improve oneself, the first thing to do is to stick to one's hobbies, such as painting, painting a picture after work, it will not take too much time, of course, you should also take time to learn relevant professional knowledge, and slowly make yourself professional and excellent.