The man s parents objected, whether the child wanted it or not

I think you should have a good talk to your lover about this and see what he thinks. FOR IT IS A GREAT THING FOR BOTH OF YOU ... Although you said that you are not very demanding of anything, and we will not talk about what his parents are against for the time being, but you have to think carefully about whether you have the ability to raise your baby now?

It's not easy to raise a child, when you really decide to bring him into this world, you have a very heavy responsibility, you have the crystallization of your own love is a very beautiful thing, don't let his hurried arrival become your burden in the future, right?

So I think you'd better be prepared to think about it when the new life comes ...

I wish you happiness and happiness!!

In terms of pregnancy. You're a kid doing things. Too naïve.

I don't know how old you are now. If you want to have a child, you have to convince his parents. Or the two of you can take the household registration book to apply for a marriage certificate privately.

Get another birth permit. Then you can give birth. Wait for the child to be born, and then tell your father-in-law what happened.

Hehe. I think it's poisonous enough. If you don't want to, you'll have to kill it early.

There is an old family member. Better than a treasure.

There is some truth to the views of the elderly.

After all, they have seen and experienced much more than the younger generations.

Don't just be resistant.

There's less communication between you.

For example, you should tell them truthfully that they have had children before.

And tell the truth about your concerns that you may suffer from recurrent miscarriages.

They may think differently about the problem you're facing.

The situation may take an unexpected turn.

Don't be presumptuous.

At last. Peace to mother and child!

In fact, such a big thing, you ask others to help you get the idea is not very good, you yourself or take the final idea, you have had a fetus, if you play again, there may be a habitual miscarriage, I personally think, there must be a road before the car to the mountain, there is no need to give birth because you are not ready for a while, maybe you will be ready after ten months of pregnancy?

Think about the good in everything!

Want! The child is not his parents!

Communicate with him and his parents before making a decision.

There must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I wonder what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I don't think you need to stick to it.

Because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, the prince and princess live a happy life like this, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage, It doesn't make much sense. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!

Marriage Mu Bi hopes to get the blessing and support of his parents. This kind of marriage is the happiest, if your marriage is not supported by the man's family, then you will feel sad and uncomfortable. After all, if you are not supported by the other party, even if you get married, you will have a pimple in your heart.

There are many reasons why parents oppose their children's marriage, but generally speaking, there are such as whether they are the right person, whether they dislike the poor and love the rich, whether there is a problem with the other party's conduct, the problem of age disparity, the problem of work, the problem of separation between the two places, etc.

No matter what the reason for the parents' objection is, children should calm down and consider their parents' opinions, after all, their parents' life experience, understanding and wisdom are much more practical than the love theories in the books.

Secondly, don't be in a hurry to blame your parents, as your blood relatives, no matter what they decide, they are good for you, so don't blame them for not understanding at this time, but reflect on whether there is really a problem in your relationship. Your parents' opposition to marriage may be due to the fact that they do not know each other well enough and judge you as unsuitable, so they will prevent your marriage. At this time, children should create more opportunities for each other to understand each other, so that parents can believe that your love can last.

Another reason for the opposition of parents may be because of a misunderstanding of something that happened in the process of getting along before, so it is necessary to re-sort out the ins and outs of that matter, and redeem the parents' prejudices in a salvable situation, and if it is irreversible, you can try to use another similar incident to make the parents change their views of each other again.

The opposition of parents is never unfounded, they all say that love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. When your parents disagree, you should seriously consider your previous relationship from all aspects, look at this phenomenon with a rational attitude, and deal with it in a rational way. This situation is a test for your relationship, but also a kind of growth.

The two have a good relationship, have a common language and hobbies, work hard, work hard, have a regular life, have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, understand, tolerate, pay, and be filial to your parents, your parents will definitely accept your boyfriend. Slippery stove dan.

Being intervened by parents when they are in love is really a common phenomenon for wives. There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years. Of course, there are very few male guests like "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" are so tough.

When asked by the female guest how to deal with the relationship between the spouse and the parents, how to deal with the opinions and participation of the parents when choosing a mate. The male guest made something unexpected, he bluntly said that he would not consider his parents' opinions, and even Grandpa Meng expressed his amazement. After in-depth understanding, I found that the male guest's hardness was not without reason, but because the original family itself was very tolerant, supporting him "I am the master of my life", and giving the male guest enough space to choose.

But the truth is that not everyone's family of origin will be so tolerant. Some people say, "A marriage that has not been approved by parents is a marriage of courage." "It takes a lot of courage because you have to face more difficulties and obstacles, so it is best to have the support and approval of your parents for love and marriage.

And when facing the interference of parents, what we have to do must not be to worsen the existing situation, but the following three points: respect when there is a difference of opinion, first of all, we must respect, not only respect the parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are determined, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person. Communication is followed by communication with parents, no matter what kind of result you want to achieve, effective communication is always essential!

Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship. Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing. You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them.

Balance Finally, for parents interfering in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings, we must stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, ourselves, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration. Sister Fei still hopes that everyone's love can be blessed by their parents, and they can be properly handled in the face of family interference, because love and family affection are very important.

Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, and it shall be forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other party, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage must not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049:A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051:Marriage is null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

Communicate well with your parents.