How do I make friends? What is a Confidant?

If I find that the other person is very open-minded to my friend and is willing to tolerate my friend after something unpleasant happens, such a person is very respectable and qualified to be my confidant and friend. At this time, I can extend an olive branch to the other party, try to get closer to the other party, and slowly become a confidant and friend.

If this person is sincere to me, and often communicates with me sincerely, then this person deserves to be a deep friend. If you have been dating for a long time and find that the other party's character is similar to mine, then you can slowly become a confidant and friend. Finding a confidant and friend is not something that can be achieved in a while, and you can't be in a hurry.

A person who does not panic when encountering problems, knows how to deal with it calmly, and is not afraid of difficulties and setbacks, bravely faces them, and has the courage to take responsibility, such a person should actually become our confidant and friend. We can learn from such friends that we can always keep a clear head when encountering problems. It's actually good for such people to be our friends.

A person with good taste and high temperament often has a better character. It would be a blessing if I could get close to such people and become friends with them. At this time, I can learn from the other person's elegant taste, and once I can become friends with the other person, I will unconsciously try to learn the beauty of the other person.

If the other party doesn't understand the world at all, which is what we often call uprightness, in fact, such a person is really not suitable to be a confidant and friend. After all, sometimes getting along with such people is often easy to drag us back, and even make us fall into a situation of "I am speechless". When we look for friends, we want to be happy, but we don't ask for trouble.

Learn to empathize, want people to comfort themselves when they are lost, and usually comfort their frustrated friends, don't be reluctant to approach others when they are down, and add icing on the cake when they are proud.

I feel that it still depends on my own attitude, I used to have a friend, his wife was sick and hospitalized, and he had no money in his hand, and after I knew it, he took out the only 5,000 yuan and gave it to him, he was very touched by this, and then we had a good relationship, and he would discuss anything with me.

On a rainy day, a friend posted a message in the circle of friends, saying that I couldn't get a taxi without an umbrella in the library, and I went to give her an umbrella after seeing it, and our relationship became very deep after this incident.

Mr. Lu Xun said: It is enough to have a confidant in life. It can be seen how rare a confidant is. So what is a real confidant?

Before I got married, I broke up with a friend of many years. She was the first person I showed my teammates to her. Although it is difficult to let go of this friendship in my heart, it will end in the end.

The wordless breakoff of friendship seems to be tacitly acknowledged, but I still have some regrets in my heart. So, after a while, she told me to go back and tell her that we were together.

I look forward to going back with joy. On the day I went back, I was told in advance that I was going back, but I haven't replied until now. The little regret that once remained, after a few spring and autumn seasons, is gone.

Since I saw a passage shared by Professor Chen Guo, I was instantly relieved. It turns out that we don't go both ways, she may just be someone we know, that's all.

Chen Guo, a professor at Fudan University, said that true confidants and friends are selfless. The following passage is the best interpretation:

The past is vivid, just like the long-sealed ** taken out for inspection, and then put back in its original place.

Some are destined to be familiar strangers.

As follows: a friend is a mutual consideration, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, willing to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind.

A friend is a friend who is on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties, it is a friend who reaches out to you; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person suddenly feels full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend.

The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of our friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost in front of them, a signpost in the way, and a heart in the same hope, expression, and cherishing such friends are true bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

In our daily life, we often feel that "it is difficult to find a confidant", and we feel that it is too difficult to make a close friend......This is so for several reasons:

1. Two like-minded people can become good friends.

Becoming friends is actually quite simple......As long as two people have common interests and hobbies and can talk to each other, they can become friends.

However, to become good friends, it is much more difficult......Only two like-minded people can become good friends and fall in love with each other.

2. Friendship needs to be tested by time.

Friendship is something that needs to be tested by time.

It is not very difficult or meaningful to maintain a friendship for a short period of time. ......Only by maintaining a long-term friendship can you truly make friends for life.

The above two conditions are very difficult to achieve in order to achieve the destruction of the trapped brothers. ......Because of this, confidants and friends are so scarce, so that we will sigh that "one confidant is enough in life" ......

In addition to the above-mentioned factors, the qualities of a person also directly affect the perception of others, which in turn determines whether they can develop a true friendship with each other.

Specifically, people who have the following characteristics are worthy of lifelong friends:

1. An honest and kind person is worth making friends for life.

Even if we are friends, we must first look at each other's character. ......Honest and kind people, bright and open, worthy of fellowship. ......Such a person is worth a lifetime of friendship as long as he is like-minded with him.

2. A wise and wise person is worth a lifetime of fellowship.

One of the most important purposes of making friends is to learn from each other's strengths and strengths, so that we can progress and improve.

Therefore, a wise and wise person is a person who deserves our fellowship. ......Making friends with them is very beneficial for us.

3. Loyal and responsible, such a person deserves to be self-respecting and self-centered.

Friends need to be loyal and help each other.

The above factors are worthy of making friends on their own and can maintain friendships for a long time. ......If you can really meet such a person, you must not miss ......This is worth making a lifelong confidant and friend, and you must cherish it!

They will constantly motivate you and make you see the good in yourself. They may not necessarily be your mentors, but they will certainly have a lot of experience in certain areas and will often give you a lot of advice in career, family, interpersonal communication, etc. Having this kind of friend in your life will become your biggest psychological support, and it will often become an "idol" who can "influence" you.

In the process of growing up, the support and encouragement of friends are the most precious. When you encounter setbacks, such friends can often help you share some of the psychological pressure, and their trust is precisely your "heart booster".

A confidant or friend refers to knowing and appreciating oneself, as well as a close friend, which can describe a close relationship with each other.

Many people are looking forward to having someone "who understands me" next to them and looking forward to the appearance of a "confidant". However, some students encounter frustrations, anger, and betrayal while establishing such relationships that transcend ordinary friends, and even no longer believe in the existence of "trustworthy friends", and their enthusiasm for making friends is greatly reduced. Is it so difficult to want a "confidant"?

In fact, if you want to pursue a confidant in life, you must first return to the definition of the word "confidant". "Confidant" simply means knowing and understanding one's inner friend. If you can't first examine your own thoughts about your "confidant" in your heart, and at the same time understand the other party's opinion of your "confidant", the two will rashly become "confidants", and in the end they will usually end up "separating because of understanding".

1. Confidant and friend means to know, understand, and appreciate personal friends.

2. A true friend is a lifelong confidant, and only a true friend is called a friend's friendship. Friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, and a true friend is a confidant worthy of cherishing and trusting. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other.

A true friend, an ordinary friend, please.

An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to make your tears water.

An ordinary friend does not know the last name of your parents. A real friend has their** on the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

When you get stuck. When you cry, she won't comfort you, she will count you down like this. She won't praise you when you're successful. She will be happier than you. But it won't show itself.

I know that I can talk about anything, and my friends are a little bit behind.