-
No, my mother and I communicate very well, you have to have a good temper, there are things that are not too excessive to talk to your mother, no matter what opinions your mother raises, you listen first, obediently, and then you are telling your mother your own opinion, don't be anxious.
-
Introduction: If a parent has no way to communicate with their child, be sure to find a way to communicate.
Parents see that their children do not communicate with themselves, so first of all, you must empathize with why you have no way to communicate with your children, you must find a suitable way for your children to communicate, and you must learn to listen to your children's voices. If a parent is often unable to communicate with their children, the first thing parents should do is to guide their children to help them slowly, so that the children will be happier. Parents can talk to their children well, and they must learn to communicate with their children and parents to correctly guide them, and not let their children feel confused.
Many parents see that their children have no way to communicate with themselves, and feel that they are meddling, at this time you can consider for your children, and you can not misunderstand with your children, nor can you have conflicts with your children, which will make your children's inner thoughts very sad. Some parents will make decisions based on some things, if the child is always dirty, parents should not always be angry, and must think about it with the child.
If a child is often reluctant to communicate with his parents and is not willing to communicate with his parents, then at this time you can think about why the child does this, and if a child often covers his ears, parents must pay attention. If the child is very honest when he is young, parents should use simple methods to communicate with the child, and the child can not be incomprehensible, so that the child has no way to tell his parents that his thoughts will produce rigid thinking, some children feel that they want to do something, parents can also teach the child, if the child does not know how to tie shoes, parents can also help the child. Many parents will feel that the child is immature when they are young, so at this time you don't put your own point of view on the child, the child also has his own ideas, you have to use the child's mind to think, so that the child will become very happy.
-
I should respect the child, I should also care more about the child, talk to the child more, don't nag in front of the child, and don't put too much pressure on the child, so that the child's emotions can slowly stabilize and communicate well with the parents.
-
I think that when parents communicate with their children, they should empathize and understand their children's ideas, so that they can develop better, understand each other better, and better enlighten their children.
-
If you want to solve such a problem, parents should care more about their children, think more from the child's point of view, and understand more about the child and not have conflicts with the child, so that they can better communicate with the child.
-
First, if parents and children do not want to communicate, then children will inevitably find someone who is willing to communicate. In this case, the child can come into contact with any kind of person, and you can't guarantee what kind of person your child will meet. Slowly, the child will become more and more rebellious, less and less inclined to go home, more and more alienated from the parents, and eventually the child will inevitably go astray.
Second, if parents and children do not communicate for a long time, the child may become more and more quiet, introverted, and silent, which may not only develop into psychological problems such as depression, but also cause him physical and mental suffering. The so-called "child" is rebellion and unfilial piety. If you argue according to reason, then you are a cruel and ruthless person, and you have failed all your suffering and suffering.
This point seems to be emphasized on the first floor, but I don't think it can be regarded as the root cause, it is just a set of words, just parents looking for legal support for their words and deeds. In conclusion, I think the fundamental reason why parents impose "children" is that many parents do not understand that this "child" has become or should become an "adult" who is independent and responsible in thinking and acting. What's even more vicious is that many parents themselves have only aged a few years and don't even know how to become "adults".
The same thing is not that the father is unwilling to communicate with his children, but that his starting point is different from ours, he thinks differently than we think, he does not want to accept our ideas. He felt in his heart that I was a father, you were a child, and you had to listen to me. When two people disagree, there is a conflict.
He suddenly felt that he was not important, he felt that he had a white-eyed wolf! Therefore, two people should find a common language when they speak.
-
Parents and children are the closest relationship between them. It was supposed to be close. Harmonious communication is the only way to do it.
However, in real life, many children do not communicate smoothly with their parents. Didn't run into many issues. The reason for this is that the age gap leads to different lifestyle habits and different experiences.
There are three reasons for the inconsistency of each other's ideas and the difference in their goals for work and life. First, poor communication between parents and children is first caused by a large age gap and different living habits. The number one problem that causes miscommunication between parents and children.
It's the difference in living habits between each other. There is a very large age gap between parents and daughters. This creates a difference in the living environment between parents and children.
and the resulting differences in living habits. This difference in living habits directly leads to different understandings on many issues. This can lead to miscommunication between parents and children.
Second. Due to the different experiences of parents and children, the perception is inconsistent, which leads to communication difficulties. Parents have many years of experience in working, studying, and living.
And because children are young, they don't experience as much as their parents. This situation makes them very different in terms of concepts. When looking at the same issue, different understandings are often formed.
Therefore, when parents communicate with their children, it is often difficult to reach an agreement because of their different concepts. This can lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children. Third.
They have different goals for work and life. It can lead to communication difficulties between parents and children. This is why there are difficulties in communication between parents and children.
The most direct reason is that each other's goals for work and life are different. Parents often want their children to have a stable job and life. And children generally hope to pursue a better state of life through their own efforts.
As a result, there will be differences of opinion between parents and children. Difficulties arise when communicating, and this is the root cause of communication difficulties between parents and children.
-
Parents and children have the closest relationship, and they should have a close relationship and harmonious communication. But in real life, many children do not communicate smoothly with their parents, and they will encounter many problems. The reason for this situation is that the age gap is caused by different living habits, different experiences, and different goals for work and life.
1. Poor communication between parents and children is first caused by a large age gap and different living habits.
The primary problem of miscommunication between parents and children is the difference in their living habits. ......There is a very large age gap between parents and children, and this has led to differences in living environments between parents and children, as well as differences in living habits. ......This difference in living habits directly leads to different understandings on many issues, which can lead to poor communication between parents and children.
2. Due to the different experiences of parents and children, the concepts are inconsistent, resulting in communication difficulties.
Parents have many years of experience in working, studying, and living in their old age, while children do not experience as much because they are young. This situation makes them very different in terms of concepts, and when they look at the same issue, they often form different understandings. Therefore, when parents communicate with their children, it is often difficult to reach an agreement because of their different concepts.
This can lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children.
3. Different goals for work and life will lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children.
The most direct reason why parents and children have difficulties in communication is that they have different goals for work and life. ......Parents often hope that their children can have a stable job and life, and children generally hope to pursue a better life through their own efforts, so that there will be different opinions between parents and children, and it will be difficult to communicate. ......This is the root cause of communication difficulties between parents and children.
Communicate with them as friends.
Parents should first be emotionally calm.
Then talk about things, distinguish between right and wrong, praise those who do well in time, and correct estimates in time if they do not do well. >>>More
Communication skills with children:
1. Treat children equally. When communicating with children, squat down and keep eye level with children, you can avoid condescending and giving children a bad feeling, and adults also need to respect children. >>>More
What the parents say, the child does not understand. I don't understand, I don't want to listen, they just talk about us. Communicating with children is really a big problem. >>>More
Adolescent rebellion is a relatively normal phenomenon, and your child must have something wrong with it, or be dissatisfied with something, and want to try to vent it. But as a parent, when your children's performance does not satisfy you, don't blindly blame your child, don't show your own weight, and don't always say something in front of him that he has no self-esteem, which will hurt his self-esteem, he will play personality with you, and he will show some abnormal performance to maintain his self-esteem. I used to be a rebellious teenager, and I fully understand why teenagers are so rebellious nowadays, that is, you are too authoritative as parents. >>>More