Is it filial piety to obey your parents?

Today, the meaning of "filial piety" has changed further. From blind obedience, deepened to seek great harmony, small differences, from the spiritual, material aspects of filial piety, we often see: every weekend, some old people are always full of children, everyone gets together, the old people shout for the cold, buy some supplements for the elderly, chat with the elderly, watch TV, make the old people happy, this is the embodiment of "filial piety" in the new era.

Society is progressing day by day, from the ancient obedience to the current spirit, and filial piety in both material aspects, all of which reflect the importance that Chinese attach to "filial piety".

In our current life, we have to listen to our parents, but we don't listen to what we say, and we certainly have to listen to what we say right. To parents we should:

1. Provide for parents and do not make them lacking: In life, the material needs and spiritual care should be satisfied to the parents, and there should be no lack of them.

2. Whoever does something, must first confess: no matter what children want to do, if they want to create a career, they must let their parents know, don't let their parents feel that you are hiding him, let him feel that his children have full trust in him.

3. What parents do, be obedient and not disobedient: Parents want to do good deeds and make a difference, as children, they must obey their parents' wishes and not be disobedient. How can we bear to disobey our parents all our lives?

Therefore, in China's inherent idea of filial piety, it is easier to achieve filial piety, more difficult to obey the standard, and more difficult to obey the wishes of parents.

Fourth, the righteous orders of the parents, dare not disobey: we should not disobey the legitimate orders of the parents, he should do good deeds and good deeds, do not disobey him.

Fifth, the parents' positive business should not be interrupted: If the parents create any good business, such as nursing homes, orphanages, or schools, and some social welfare institutions, the children should not let it be interrupted, and they should inherit the parents' positive business, which is filial piety.

It's impossible for someone to really do it! But obedience will make the old man comfortable! From this point of view, it is filial piety!

The key to dealing with differences between oneself and one's parents is to pay attention to the method. It is necessary to be both filial and obedient. Contradictions must also be resolved.

Obeying your parents is a manifestation of filial piety, but not all, filial piety to your parents can be obedient, but the most important thing is that you must be by their side when your parents need you, even if you are far away!

Strongly oppose listening to the wrong reasoning of your parents, you can listen to what is right, and you can't blindly obey what is wrong, which will bring a certain direction to your future life and survival.

Parents have Buddha hearts, but they are ordinary people, and there are right and wrong.

If you obey your words and do something wrong, then you will suffer first, resulting in a poor mix, and in the end, your parents will think that you are unproductive.

This is the "chi" of no adoptive parents.

Therefore, obedience to one's parents is not necessarily filial piety!

How to support the "physical and mental aspirations" of parents, that is, how to better honor parents? It's also a science!

It's not enough to have filial piety!

Obedience is not filial piety, "respect" and "freedom" are!

First, the family of origin.

Second, children have a unique nature.

3. Parents believe that obedience is filial piety.

4. Live your truest self.

Fifth, the pain of your parents' pure calling should not be borne by you.

Mom and Dad, I love you and love you from the bottom of my heart! Don't doubt it!! Sippai

Hello: I agree with this statement. Obedience is only superficial obedience and obedience, while filial piety is a deep emotional and behavioral manifestation.

Filial piety is not only to obey the requirements of parents, but also to care for and take care of their lives, respect their wishes and decisions, and create better living conditions for them within their own capabilities. Therefore, filial piety requires more care, understanding, and reverence than just obedience and obedience.

Obedience is also part of filial piety.