Filial piety to one s parents means that one must obey one s parents in everything, and one s own af

Zi said: "Parents give a few advices, see that they do not obey their will, and they do not disobey, and they do not complain." Parents are not saints and have the same shortcomings and faults.

As adult children, we have our own thoughts and understandings, our own judgments, and the actual situations we face, and it is not necessarily that the methods adopted by our parents or the principles we adhere to will necessarily apply to us. In each era, in every historical period, each different individual has his own characteristics and characteristics, personal pursuits, styles, etc., in the past, "the more knowledge, the more reactionary", "stinky old nine" and "capitalists" are the main objects of criticism, can you say whether it is correct or not! It should be in line with the reality of the time and the individual.

We understand and are deeply grateful for the parents' intentions, but we have advised them a little about their possible mistakes, and they are unwilling to listen, and we are still respectful and do not disobey the old man's heart. We can worry but not resent. I think we have the same right to insist on our own persistence, as long as we are so sure and can fully bear all the consequences, only we know best what we want, what can make our own lives feel meaningful.

We always want a person to complete the meaning of our own life, and parents or anyone can only participate in sharing part of the connotation, and it is impossible to replace it. Parents can understand the truth of this, we communicate patiently, but we can't understand that we must be satisfied with their attitude, and the actual operation is not our own. Isn't the happiness and satisfaction of our life the satisfaction of our parents, and they will finally understand that the greatest respect for my parents is that I respect my own life and fulfill the different responsibilities and obligations corresponding to different identities in my life.

It depends on what happens, and it also depends on who is right and who is wrong, after all, your parents have more life experience than you, and you can give their opinion on everything, but they are not perfect .........Listen to what is right, talk to them if you are wrong, treat them as friends, don't think that there is a generation gap between us and them, they are also from our age, they have also been young, and they have been vigorous for love, so we have to take them as friends, they will always love us the most...

Parents must listen patiently, even if you don't agree, but their intentions are good, and they are the most credible words in the world. As for whether you carry it out or not, it is negotiable. Making parents feel that their children are obedient is also an expression of filial piety.

Listen to your parents in everything and call it foolishness! Listen to what is right, don't listen to what is wrong, and use euphemisms or success stories to convince parents.

The leader chatted and said that the old mother living in the rural hometown complained to herself that the three of them and the two sons came to visit the old mother less often, and they were not as filial as their daughters. The leader enlightened his mother and said: "You old people don't care if they are filial or not, it's good for your daughter to be filial to you, one girl is better than three sons."

The leader told us that filial piety to parents is our own business, and it has nothing to do with others, and we don't need to compare who takes care of more and who takes care of less, and we just have a clear conscience.

Filial piety to parents is one's own business, the picture is one's own peace of mind, clear conscience, has nothing to do with siblings, and has nothing to do with any outsiders. In my hometown in the countryside, I have seen a lot of cases of disobedience to my parents, and I have also seen too many hypocritical comparisons of filial piety, usually do not meet, buy a padded jacket for the old man for the first time, and quickly take the clothes to his brothers and sisters in front of him intentionally or unintentionally mention a sentence, showing off the comparison, I bought a dress for the old man, how much yuan was spent, in order to show her respect for her parents and hypocritical filial piety. What the elderly need is not expensive clothes and jewelry, but the warmth of a porridge and a meal, even if it is coarse tea and light rice; What is needed is the joy of children and grandchildren and the long-term companionship of children, even if they are wearing old clothes.

Filial piety to one's parents is one's own business, and it can be done by oneself, and it has nothing to do with one's spouse, and oneself has no right to ask one's spouse to be filial to one's parents. How can parents be qualified to ask others to do it if they have neither given birth to nor supported their own wives (husbands)? It's good to maintain a level of mutual respect between them.

As long as the spouse is good to him, his parents have their own filial piety. Slow land.

When it comes to filial piety to my parents, my mother set a good example for me: whenever there is something delicious at home, my mother will bring it to my grandmother, even if it is just to cook a pot of hot porridge. My grandmother was not feeling well, so my mother took her to the clinic to see a doctor.

My grandmother's socks were worn out, so I asked my mother to buy them. When my grandmother wanted to eat, my mother would always buy something and send it over. My grandmother was old, and her hands and feet were inconvenient in winter, so my mother took her to take a bath.

Mom never said that her siblings were filial to her grandmother or not, she always did what she had to do. I think I will be as filial to my mother as my mother is to my grandmother.

This statement is not necessarily true, because the love of parents for their children is selfless, and all children are equal, and there is no distinction between filial piety and disobedience. Every child should do his or her best to honor their parents and make the best contribution to them.

However, sometimes it is true that there are some filial children who encounter some grievances in the process of taking care of their parents. This is because these children may give up their jobs or lives to care for their parents wholeheartedly, sacrificing their time and energy. They may take on more responsibility and pressure, and may even suffer from incomprehension and complaints from other family members.

However, this does not negate the importance of filial piety. Filial piety is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, which is a manifestation of respecting parents and inheriting family customs, and honoring parents is also a behavior that is beneficial to physical and mental health. We should do our best to honor our parents, but at the same time, we should keep our lives and jobs in check, find a balance, and avoid sacrificing our lives and futures.

Why honor your parents.

First, our parents gave birth to us and gave us life, the grace of a drop of water, and the spring reciprocated, not to mention the grace of nurturing.

Second, our parents have contributed to the family and paid a lot for us, they have worked tirelessly to make money outside to raise us, and always leave the best to us, all in order to let us grow up in the best state, this love is selfless, does not ask for anything in return, and deserves our respect and filial piety.

Third, putting aside personal feelings, the morality and law of the entire human society to the present require us to have a heart of filial piety to our parents, which is our responsibility and an important reason why human beings have been able to postpone their obedience to the present.

Fourth, if we do not set a good example of filial piety to our parents, how can we convince our children to be filial to us in the future?

As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, and the old saying is that a family is as old as a treasure. An important reason for having more children when you are young is that you hope to get more filial piety when you are old. At the same time, as children, when their parents are old, especially during the New Year's holidays, they will gather together to accompany the elderly and gain more filial piety.

The eldest cooks for everyone, the second helps the eldest to help, and the young give their parents exquisite gifts to win the joy of their parents, everything is so fine. However, when the elderly's body is no longer strong and they can't even take care of themselves, and many of them need their children to take care of them, maybe some problems will come to the surface immediately.

The ages, personalities, and abilities of the children are very different, so how to take care of their parents will always be a difficult problem in their hearts. After ruling out the possibility of hiring a nanny, the question is how to divide the labor, and each person takes turns to take care of each other for a month? In fact, no matter how the division of labor, there will inevitably be a problem:

"Compare with each other" means that you will always compare your efforts to take care of your parents with those of other siblings, and your care for your parents will be reduced. The root cause of this generally comes from the preference of the elderly for individual children or the degree of adaptation of the elderly to a certain child, so I will not discuss it too much here. But here it is important to emphasize:

No matter how many brothers and sisters there are, filial piety to parents should be based on the fact that if your parents only have one child, you should do it, and should not be disturbed by their stuffy factors.