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Let them be satisfied spiritually and materially, and the spiritual is greater than the material.
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It is good to mix well with oneself is to be filial to the great, and then care more about them.
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If your parents are sick, you have to find a way to cure them as soon as possible.
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The two ways to be filial to your parents in the world are as follows:
Companionship is the most affectionate confession. Take the time to destroy the front as much as possible, the key is to accompany your parents with high-quality laughter.
Now that the economic conditions have been greatly improved, the gifts of daughters are indispensable for the New Year's holidays.
Delicate daughters can even do Women's Day, Father's Day, and Mother's Day.
But that's not what parents want, or even that.
Just as children always expect their parents to accompany them more, listen more, and play more with their parents when they are young, fresh toys can only bring temporary surprises and happiness, but companionship can bring warmth and strength for a lifetime.
When the parents are getting old, they understand the different concepts and habits of the two generations, they are happy for the independence and harmony of their daughter's small family, and they repeatedly read the public tweets that teach their parents to let go, but these do not prevent them from longing to get married, whether it is rare to meet, or to live together, to be able to accompany them with high quality.
For example, sit down and have a long talk with them, put down your husband and children to have a meal with them, take your children to accompany them, and go with them to see the outside world.
High-quality companionship is the action force that a daughter can best add color and temperature to her parents' sunset red.
Let parents feel that they are slim and elevated"It works"to focus on their sense of belonging and worth.
A social survey shows that the biggest psychological problem of the contemporary elderly is that they often feel themselves"Useless", full of powerlessness.
When I am with my daughter after marriage, the parents who are the women especially want to save their daughter from the tedious and busy care of the small family.
At this moment, women should not hold the husband and children of the small family too high, and ignore the sense of belonging and value of their parents.
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Filial piety comes first. Many people are expressing their filial piety to their parents in their own way. Buying good food for my parents, buying clothes, giving money to my parents, inviting my parents to go on a trip, etc., is very touching.
However, the filial piety that I feel the most strongly is the most basic content, that is, we must live a good life, live our own small life, and don't let our elderly parents worry about themselves and be afraid of themselves!
Good health, a relatively stable job, a home, and offspring, don't let our parents worry about us anymore, let them have an object to rely on, when they can't walk, they can lean on, rest, and let their parents feel at ease, this is our greatest filial piety.
Parents all over the world are hungry and envious for their children, in fact, the most expected is not how much money we earn as officials, but hope that we are safe and healthy, have a happy marriage, and have a warm home! Otherwise, it is our unfilial piety to let our parents worry about our living situation and even be uneasy, and let our elderly parents worry about it every day.
The body is rotten and not your own. Only if we are physically strong enough can we carry the white-haired mother when we need it.
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The Book of Filial Piety: The Opening of the Righteous Chapter" mentions that "standing up and doing the way, making a name for yourself in future generations, in order to show your parents, and the end of filial piety." It means: In the world, people follow the path of benevolence and righteousness, shout virtue, make achievements, and show their reputation in future generations, so that their parents will be distinguished and glorious, which is the ultimate goal of filial piety.
If it is said that "the body is skinned, it is ...... by the parents of the spine and the wilderness."If we are required to practice self-love, then "stand up and make a name for ourselves in posterity......It requires us to be self-reliant and self-reliant. Self-reliance and self-improvement are actions of self-love, and people must be self-reliant and self-reliant if they want to develop. At the same time, Cheng Qizhi is a self-reliant and self-reliant person, which is the ardent hope of parents for their children.
Every adult should consciously enhance the sense of self-reliance, and filial piety should do this. Filial piety should not only be self-reliant, but also self-reliant, and strive for self-worth. "Stand up and do the way, make a name for yourself in future generations, show your parents, and end your filial piety.
It is undeniable that this sentence is somewhat utilitarian, but if it is really done in the practice of filial piety, then it is objectively indeed conducive to the realization of self-worth. Parents all over the world hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, and it is the greatest satisfaction for their children to be able to achieve something in their careers. "Standing and doing the way" is the real filial piety.
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Filial piety comes first.
Filial piety to parents is an important thing for children to take for granted!
What is true filial piety to one's parents?
Confucius said two words: color is difficult! That is to say, never give your parents a look, and always be kind to your parents.
Personally, I think it's very difficult to do. Not to mention the rebellious period of adolescence, most children contradict their parents. Even when you become an adult, you will be unable to be kind to your parents all the time because of many aspects of disagreement and poor communication.
Take myself as an example, due to the differences in many concepts and habits with my parents, there is a big gap in family meals, living habits, consumption patterns, children's education, etc., which also causes some conflicts and contradictions.
On reflection, many times there is a lack of patience with parents, and it is true that they are not so polite and polite in terms of tone of speech.
Actually, the parents are old. Becomes a bad memory and loses everything; Repetitive language, chattering; thrifty, reluctant to pour leftovers; inadequate hygiene; unscientific eating habits; Becoming sensitive and petty, like a child, is a normal part of getting old.
In addition to providing our parents with the material conditions for a worry-free life, it is more important for us to be patient with them, to be more tolerant, to speak in a better tone, and to coax them more.
Although I am very filial to my parents in my heart, I am not very good at this!
I want to work hard to cultivate my heart, have more love and understanding for my parents, more companionship and care, and more spring breeze and warm way to get along!
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Because Chinese parents think that their children are born to them, they are Lao Tzu, and the children have to listen to them. Zheng Fu Therefore, since the birth of the child, they have begun to manage their heads and feet, restraining all the activities of the child, not allowed to do this, not allowed to do that, and have to interfere in everything, without the slightest sense of proportion and boundaries.
Imposing their own ideas on children and forcing them to do things that children don't like to do, many children rebel in the process of growing up, conflict with their parents, and even run away from home. Children can't stand such parents, they want to rebel.
Most children in China accept the reality that they think that their lives are given by their parents, so they have to obey their parents, so they obey their parents from childhood to adulthood, and they do whatever their parents tell them to do.
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Huang Xiang, a native of the Eastern Han Dynasty, knew how to honor his father when he was nine years old and warm the quilt for his father. This is something that everyone who is filial to their parents should practice and emulate.
When Kong Rong of the Han Dynasty was four years old, he knew that he would give his brother a big pear to eat, and this kind of respect and friendship for his brother is something that everyone should know from an early age.
Expand] "Three Character Classic".
The Three Character Classic is a traditional Chinese enlightenment textbook. Among the ancient Chinese classics, the "Three Character Classic" is one of the most simple and easy to read books. The "Three Character Classic" is based on allusions, including literature, history, philosophy, astronomy and geography, human ethics, loyalty, filial piety, and righteousness of traditional Chinese culture, and the core ideas are included"Benevolence, righteousness, sincerity, respect, filial piety.
While reciting the "Three Character Classic", you will understand common sense, traditional Chinese culture and historical stories, as well as the principles of life and work in the connotation of the story.
In terms of format, the three characters and one sentence are catchy, because of its popular, smooth, easy to remember and other characteristics, so that it is called the three major readings of traditional Chinese Mongolian studies together with "Hundred Family Names" and "Thousand Character Text", which are collectively called"Three hundred thousand"。
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