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The key is that you don't have a clear goal of your own! But it's no wonder that everyone is the same at this age. If your family conditions can afford you to study, since you don't want to study, then I recommend that you go to a technical school to learn a skill.
It's best to apply for a major you're interested in, after all, if your grades are not very good, even if you barely study, you won't be able to get a famous brand, and it's not easy to find a job after a few years in college. Learn a skill, at least so that no one wants it in society. Discuss it with your parents and do what you are interested in, as long as you don't play and degenerate, you will eventually achieve something.
Good luck!
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In fact, there are some things that need to be insisted on, such as doing the right thing, such as reading.
As long as you stick to many things, then you are much better than others.
If you don't want to learn because you don't understand it, then have you ever wondered if you will regret it after you are too young, and it is a great thing to be able to do it in this life without regrets, and being a man is also a success.
In fact, I myself had a similar experience to you, I had this idea in the second year of junior high school, but in the end, through the help of my family, until I finished college, the social start of college students is still higher than that of high school students, and the treatment is better, both in terms of work environment and work unit. And going to college is a cultivation of knowledge and temperament, the cultivation of vision and thinking, as long as you feel that you are still a motivated child, then everything is fine, don't give up on yourself!
If even you give up on yourself, then everything is empty talk!
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How can you go to work without studying? If you have the conditions or connections at home, you can get a job as soon as possible through these methods, but if you go out to work hard, you need too many things in addition to having hands and brains. Society is not as simple as school, we can't even complete homework, all kinds of tasks assigned by teachers, and those things in society will make you feel terrible.
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At present, the country still attaches more importance to technical talents. Regardless of whether boys and girls have mastered a skill, they will not have to worry about whether they will be able to find a job, get a high salary, and be able to support themselves in the future. Now that the automotive industry is developing rapidly, all major brands are innovating in technology, so it is also good to learn the technological development prospects of an automobile.
Nowadays, both boys and girls can engage in this industry, and the automobile major is not only limited to the two areas of auto repair and beauty, but also the 5S major suitable for male and female students, automobile business, operation, automobile sales, automobile culture and other automobile-related industries. It is recommended that you can go to the campus for a field trip to find out! You can refer to it!
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There are too many distractions....I never scored more than 30 points in elementary school math. But in the first semester of middle school, I took the top few exams...Because I went to high school in a foreign country...A strange place, no one I know...I don't have much to do but study...Later, I had more friends and more land projects, and my distractions came back, and my studies were over! So....If young people can't get rid of their distractions, they will ruin their future...
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If you make up your mind and want to study.
Tell your parents what you think, and if conditions allow, find some way to catch up with the progress, it's a big deal to repeat the school for a year.
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I studied science in three years of high school, and I played it, and then I took a junior college, and I was very unhappy, and I repeated the liberal arts in the fourth year, and now I am studying in 2 universities, mainly depending on your mentality.
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I colluded with my parents and took a break from school for a period of time, but I had to go to school.
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Read! Reading a good book depends on how much you want to read it.
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If it weren't for the sudden boredom of school, the situation would have hardened long ago. It's just that no one notices. It's useless to be anxious at this time, the more anxious you are, the more he doesn't want to go.
Ask patiently. You can't ask for reasons, ask patient questions, don't judge, don't blame, ask yourself if you go to school to understand. First, it is excluded whether the child has experienced school violence.
If the child doesn't even know himself, parents can't criticize in a hurry, patiently guide, let the child know the importance of learning, if there is a dream, you must work hard to learn, in order to realize your ideals.
The child has this situation for certainly not a day or two. Sometimes it's not a question that can be asked in a sentence or two. Mental expectations were done well before, don't lose patience too soon.
Study pressure. Otherwise, it may be that the pressure is too high, and the expectations of parents and teachers are too high, and some children can't bear it. Then tell the children what you think, communicate on an equal footing, communicate patiently. If your child has a good friend, ask him or her what problems he has had lately.
Listen to your child.
If the child doesn't want to learn, just look at what he wants to do, what he can achieve, and what help others need.
If the child doesn't even know himself, parents can't criticize in a hurry, guide patiently, let the child know the importance of learning, and if there is a dream, you must study hard to achieve your ideals.
Finally, the bell must be tied to the bell, and I have said so many reasons, which may not be the reason why this child is tired of school. Here, I would like to ask you that you might as well make up your mind to listen to your child's voice. The answer can only be found on your own.
After all, the people who get along with him day and night are his parents, friends and classmates, and I hope that every child can understand and love.
The child has this situation for certainly not a day or two. Sometimes it's not a question that can be asked in a sentence or two. Mental expectations were done well before, don't lose patience too soon.
Study pressure. Otherwise, it may be that the pressure is too high, and the expectations of parents and teachers are too high, and some children can't bear it. Then tell the children that your ideas are guessed, communicate on an equal footing, and communicate patiently. If your child has a good friend, ask him or her what problems he has had lately.
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You can choose vocational colleges, such as culinary technology schools, to learn chefs For example, Chinese food, Western food, and pastry majors The school not only teaches cooking skills Teaching the production methods of various cuisines, honing the basic skills of chefs, it is usually a practical teaching experience, but also imparting a lot of hotel management experience Oh Jiansui will also recommend employment after graduation It can also provide (college) education services and certification services.
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Be sure to let your child go to the countryside or on the construction site to experience life, so that the child will feel that learning is not bitter at all.
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If the child doesn't want to study, he must be patient and persuasive, or he can give the child a bad manuscript and leave school, so that the child can go to society to experience life, maybe he will change his mind.
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Temporarily take the child to experience the world's first real life in society, let Iwa know that it is difficult to gain a foothold in this society if he does not study well, and let him know the importance of learning.
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It is definitely possible to have confidence and belief in learning, listen carefully to the lectures, and regard the object as the driving force.
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Alas......Anyone of this age has such a problem! Obviously, you're not fit for puppy love! So it can do you more harm than good!
If you are disappointed in yourself, it means that you care about your future, feel guilty about your current behavior, blame yourself, and live up to the expectations of people who care about you! Low self-esteem is because you are compared to her, and you realize the gap! I want to work hard, but I can't use my strength, and the effect is not good, so I lose confidence!
I said that you always think about this and that, how can you have the heart to calm down and read!
Relax and don't worry about the things in front of you! It is safe to say that if you give up on her, you may be reluctant for a while; But if you break the jar, you will regret it for a lifetime!
Think about it, think about it, and believe that you will choose what you really want!!
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Now are you honestly thinking about your girlfriend in class, if so, it means that it is due to falling in love; If you don't think about it, it can be due to the inferiority complex, and you have to study hard in high school 2, and it's not too late to work hard.
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Don't give up, don't be anxious, it's important to lay a good foundation, relax and learn and you will get results.
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It's not too late to find out why, try to change it, and work hard.
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First of all, you have to face yourself, don't be numb to learning, establish confidence in learning, calm down first, think about how you can not study if you are good, make a good plan, and make a little progress every day.
Don't fall in love, friendship is more important than following.
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Of course, having a girlfriend will have an impact on your grades, but if you just want to humbly learn her talent and nothing else, your grades will definitely improve, and don't have low self-esteem, low self-esteem will bring you pressure and make you unable to study seriously, have confidence in yourself, believe that you will succeed, I hope my words can help you.
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Only I have a firm belief, think about the days to come, I will work hard for two years, two years of hard work can be exchanged for happiness in the future, so we must continue to encourage ourselves, believe that we can refuel.
The key is to find the motivation for the child to learn, sending the child out is not the best way, especially in adolescence, it is recommended that parents manage it better.
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