My annual income is much more than mine, what kind of attitude should I have?

If you have a small income more than you, you should keep a normal mindset towards it. Because although you grew up together, your experiences are different, your personalities are different, your learning levels are different, you go to college differently, your majors are different, and your future jobs are different. So it's normal for your annual income to vary greatly.

I am born to be useful, don't feel that my income represents my ability, everyone is born with a certain usefulness. A lot of things can't be measured by money, he earns more than you now doesn't necessarily mean that he will always earn more than you, everyone will experience a very different experience in the future, so you may earn more than him in the future.

You just need to do what you love and realize your life value. Money is an evil thing, and many people have gone to the point of no return because of money, but money is not the standard for measuring a person.

You have a small annual income more than you, and you have to see what his job position is, whether the job is comfortable, and whether it suits your heart. It's not that just because he's paid a lot doesn't mean he's doing well. You have less income, you are at least happier than him, so it seems that your quality of life is better than his.

If his job is something she likes, and the income is high. Then you have to look for the problem from yourself. Everything that everyone gets is obtained through hard work, and there must be a reason for his success, such as his hard work and family background. <>

There is no absolute fairness in the world, so you don't feel uncomfortable that others have a higher income than you, there are many people with a higher income than you. It's not just that you're getting smaller, but there are people whose income isn't as good as yours. Therefore, those who are content are always happy, and do not take money too seriously.

You can't compare yourself, and once you compare, you won't be satisfied with your current situation. If you're in a bad mood, what's the use of being in a bad mood, you can't change anything. So you have a small income higher than you, and you have to keep a normal heart.

Don't be jealous or envious, do your part well, and work hard to increase your income.

No matter whether others are flying planes or tanks, and whether they wake up in a villa of thousands of square meters or a house of tens of millions, you should treat it with a normal heart! Because this world is like this, there is no way that everyone lives the same life!

I have a few points I would like to ask you about this question you asked:

Your leaders earn more than you, right?

Some of your colleagues earn more than you, right?

Among your friends, there are many people who earn more than you, right?

Many of the people you know earn more than you, are better treated than you, marry a woman who is more beautiful than your wife, sleep with Simmons who is more expensive than your bed, drive a car that is more domineering than you, and so on.

What kind of mindset do you usually look at these things? Do you look at it with a normal heart? I feel that my luck is not as good as others, and my work ability is not as good as others, and I have not done better than others in the technical work of reincarnation! Consider oneself inferior to another. Isn't that so?

Since this is the case, then there is nothing to envy and hate!

He is your little hair, he grew up with you since he was a child, how to say that he is also an iron buddy who is as deep as the sea, he mixes well, shouldn't you be happy for him?

If you don't feel happy for him, and because he is better than you, and you feel uncomfortable, then you are sick! If you have the kind of disease that can't be seen in others, you have to be cured if it's a disease!

There are many people who are better than us! Don't look at what others have gained better than ourselves, you will be unbalanced in your heart. Maybe people pay a lot more than you do?

When you can't see it, where you can't see it, people have put in several times or even dozens of times the effort to be so much higher than your annual income?

O man! I just like mediocrity to disturb myself! In fact, contentment is the most precious treasure in this world!

I think you can search for Wendi Deng on the Internet, this girl's open-mindedness may make you feel ashamed as a man!

I think this is a very real problem, and it is very likely that I will face such a situation when I join the work in the future, and I think my own mentality is the most important.

Because the two of you are young and have known each other since childhood, your parents may compare the situation of the two of you, even if the two of you don't want to compare with each other in your mind, but in the eyes of others, you are too similar, or because you are too familiar, so you will be put together to compare, which is unavoidable.

In fact, I want to say that if you don't want to compare with each other, then you don't need to care so much when others compare the two of you, just like others treat the two of you as a talking point, and you don't need to care about what others are saying.

If you really feel uncomfortable, then you can change this situation, it can't be that someone else compares your small income to you, and then hits you deeply, and you are sad for a day or two and then you are like no one, right? Then you'll live with this kind of blow for the rest of your life.

So the most important way is to change the current situation, if your income is really not high, then you work hard, I believe that you work hard for a few years, it is impossible to stay up, by that time your income will definitely be much higher than now, even if you can't reach the height of your small hair, but it is much better than your previous situation, so it is also a big progress for you, right?

Therefore, people should be optimistic, don't think things so badly, and don't be indifferent to the status quo, the future is in their own hands.

It's a very balanced mentality, shouldn't you be very happy to have a small income more than yourself! I don't know what the mode of getting along with you and your hair is very good, and I have a very good relationship with each other, and I don't care so much. Her family conditions are much better than mine, but I don't feel uncomfortable at all.

She also takes good care of me, so if she earns a lot more than me in the future, I may feel very glad that there is another place for me to eat! <>

Actually, I can understand your feelings, after all, they are friends who grew up together, but the other party is developing so much better than themselves now, it really makes people feel a little jealous, and obviously they are not worse than each other, right? But you should think about it differently, don't treat the other party as your competitor, and treat the other party as your good sister from childhood to adulthood. No one knows each other better than you do.

If the other person has improved, then you should be happy for the other person, because your relationship is good, so you can also learn from her successful experience. Isn't it fun that you can redouble your efforts and make yourself like her after you have experience?

And I think that being small is actually my own strong backing, before I was because the salary was not high, I bought too many things at work in the first month, and then I had no money to eat. I didn't dare to tell my mom, so I was looking for her help! So I think it's really good to have a little hair who is much better than me, and I'm just waiting for her to take care of me.

So you treat her with a positive attitude, learn more like her instead of always feeling that you are inferior to others, so that you will not feel unhappy or jealous of the other party!

For this, I don't think I can compare, his income is his, your income is yours, he earns more now, then he must suffer more than you, I firmly believe that this is not wrong, if you want the gap between the two of you to shorten, then there is only one way, that is, from now on, you have to redouble your efforts, so that you have the strength to earn a lot of money like him, otherwise you will alienate him and live his ordinary life.

If people's abilities are not the same, the harvest will be different, you can't be unhappy because others earn more, you still have to celebrate for your buddy and be happy for him, as for your own heart, you have to work hard to improve yourself, you can't let yourself fall behind too much. But the mentality must be correct, otherwise it is easy for you to feel jealous.

This phenomenon is very common, people who are not as good as themselves slowly become very powerful, and their work and life are better than themselves, and they will inevitably feel sad in their hearts, and the gap is still quite big. I don't particularly like to look at the circle of friends, but when I'm bored, I will flip through it, and look back little by little. Sometimes I see a tall ** sent by friends, there are many people who live and travel, and so on.

Whenever I see these, I will feel envious of them, and at the same time, I will reflect on what my current state is, and take these ** as an encouragement to me, so that I have the motivation to work harder, they have what they have, I have to have them, I have to have them, this is my attitude towards these.

I don't think this kind of attitude can be said to be positive, but it's not negative jealousy, at least I'm taking action, and I'm using my own actions to make up for the gap in distance. Not for anything else, just for yourself to be able to live a better life and live no worse than anyone else. I think it's enough to have that kind of attitude.

I don't know why I was invited, but since I happened to see me, I'll be the next "bystander" point of light, maybe not all right, if it's wrong, please bear with me, don't spray if you don't like it.

First of all, no matter who is self-motivated, put aside the emotional rational thinking problem, the other party must be better than themselves, and from a certain aspect, they should take the initiative to learn the advantages of the other party. Becoming friends at this time is beneficial and harmless to oneself in all aspects, and you should face it happily.

Maybe the other party earns more money than himself, or he may be more prominent than himself in a certain aspect of the right time and place, not in school, but it cannot be denied that since the money is earned, the other party still has a better side than himself. If you deny this, you can't see any advantages in the other party, and your mentality will not be good.

See the good in the other person and then learn. There is nothing wrong with being naïve and attentive in this regard.

One of the mindsets: learning. Don't deny people who are better than yourself.

Mentality 2: Ordinary heart. Don't think that rich sons are rich second generations.

Mentality 3: Love. Even if the other party is rich, he is an ordinary person, and there are ordinary people's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and it is difficult to read, and when the other party encounters dissatisfaction, you can drink some wine and chat with each other, I don't understand your man's communication, see for yourself.

Then, as a passerby, I would like to say to you: I don't ask you to make too much money, I just ask you to have a clear conscience.

There is nothing wrong with being a sleek person, there is nothing wrong with shopping guides, there is nothing wrong with service courtesy, and there is nothing wrong with sweating dry. The important thing is to be happy, to be attentive, and to think a lot. The brain is a good thing, don't be bothered by boring feelings that shouldn't exist.

All negative energies retreat.

Just because you have a high income doesn't mean you're richer. What if he earns 10,000 and spends 15,000?

Small feelings, money cannot be replaced, and sincerity for sincerity has nothing to do with money.

Slap yourself twice, then look in the mirror and ask yourself why you can't do it, what is missing, just work hard.

Ignore his salary, eat, drink, and play and don't you still be together, it doesn't matter

Be normal, others have more ability than you, and this is what he deserves.

Be calm, work hard, and believe that you can too.

Ordinary heart. The most important thing in life is to recognize yourself, compare with others, and there will always be someone better than you. Cultivating your own hobbies is more than tangled, in just one lifetime, why bother?

Just because you have a high income doesn't mean you're richer. What if he earns 10,000 and spends 15,000?

Be calm, work hard, and believe that you can too.

Look at this problem, you have to look at it with a normal heart, what you want to observe is the environment in which Fa Xiao is located, his personal ability, his organization, his income is higher than yours, no matter from which point of view, there must be a reason, find out the reason, and correct your own shortcomings, enrich yourself more, and when you have precipitated enough yourself, success is just a matter of course.

Can this also be a problem? Does Ma Yun's hair have to commit suicide? Ma Huateng's hair is too small to live? Bill Gates has to eat rat poison when he is small? What should I do, don't you live ...... anymore?

Be normal, others have more ability than you, and this is what he deserves.

Other people's money has nothing to do with you. You are richer than he is, and he will not give you a small flower. So dwelling on the topic itself is very boring.

Live your life well. The most important thing is to enrich your knowledge. Many people in China are stupid people who compare themselves with each other.

Weak...

Look at the relationship between you and Fa Xiao, but there is really nothing to be jealous of, there are so many rich people in the world, it is really better to be jealous than to die, it is better to study more if you have that kung fu, and the opportunity is for those who are prepared.

Small feelings, money cannot be replaced, and sincerity for sincerity has nothing to do with money.

Ignore his salary, eat, drink, and play and don't you still be together, it doesn't matter