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I can't agree with such a point of view, it's too subjective, too prejudiced, and we men are treated like a bunch of white-eyed wolves who don't know what to do.
I think whether a woman is good to a man or not necessarily related to the stability of the marriage, it depends on the relationship between the two people.
The subtext of this view is that you can't be nice to a man, and the more you treat him, the more he will hurt you, and your marriage will fall apart, which is very absurd and does not stand up to scrutiny.
The most basic thing in marriage is to love each other, love each other, if you can't even be good to him, then why should the other party be good to you, so I want to say that this sentence is not right, at least marriage is also like an interaction, you only pay to others, others can be better to you.
Some people say that bad women are easier to have a good life, I don't think so, just take myself as an example, my daughter-in-law is a particularly good woman, I say something from my heart, she is not very beautiful, she can only be regarded as an ordinary woman, her appearance is average, she just has a good wife and motherly temperament, what attracts me is this, the woman I want to find is such a woman who knows how to live, to this day the two of us have been married for ten years, and the children have gone to elementary school, I believe that our family of three will always be happy.
This can also show that a woman's goodness cannot be a reason to ruin her marriage, there are too many bad women who destroy their marriages because of red apricots, such as the star Li Xiaolu we are all familiar with, her marriage broke down, after all, it was because her own view of marriage was not correct enough, and finally betrayed her lover.
It can be seen that there is no necessary connection between a woman's quality and whether the marriage will break down, if you are a good woman, then although you can be a good woman, as for the rest, it will be left to fate, maybe fate is unfair, but we should not give up our own principles of life because of this.
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I don't agree with this view, there are many factors that ruin a marriage, and this may be one of them.
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I don't think that's the case, I think it's mutual, don't blindly ask each other.
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I don't agree, marriage is a matter of two people, even if a woman desperately wants to be good to a man, a man will feel good to you, which has nothing to do with ruining the marriage.
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I don't agree, because some people may be good to him, he will think that is what you should do, and he will only slowly get used to it.
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I think it's like this, men are like this, the more you treat him, the less he cherishes, so women desperately try to be good to men, which is to ruin their marriage.
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Men with low emotional intelligence not only include lack of respect and self-righteousness, but also often have other problems. hurting others through words and actions, as if he is only happy when he makes others unable to get off the stage.
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A woman marrying such a man can only add a lot of distress and sorrow. Fourth, the scandal has been going on around him, and there are some men who seem to be born artists, and on the one hand, he can engage in ambiguous relationships with different women outside
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Lazy, unmotivated, unsympathetic, machismo, bad-tempered, liaring.
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Whispering to the earth key nucleus, no principles, no bottom line, wronged yourself, infinitely tolerant, in marriage, don't dig early to use these ways to be good to the bright-spine man, so you can only move yourself.
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Don't spend money on men, don't pamper men, pay attention to the way you get along with each other, and don't keep moving the other party to dismantle the omen, not only the sedan chair should put your status too low.
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After trembling, he often regards a man as very important, will often care about him, and will help him with all the housework. Make fiber.
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The first type of man is a man with a tendency to domestic violence, even the most well-behaved wife may be bullied by her, the second type is an unmotivated man, this kind of man is not motivated, and blames his wife for staying at home every day, and the third type of man is a man who is not very independent, and he lets his mother do everything, which is also very bad.
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1. Ignore his wife in a cold and violent way, 2. Frequently quarrel with his wife, and feel that his wife can't do anything well, 3. Do not keep a distance from the opposite sex around him, and walk very close. It is because of these actions that they will destroy a good wife.
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The best way to retaliate is to make your life noisy better, go shopping, eat, work and study, dress yourself, let yourself exude the charm of self-confidence from the inside out, and live a wonderful day every day, so that the person who hurt himself regrets it!
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Generally, women who are hurt in their relationships will choose some ways to retaliate against nuclear men. Some will solve it with unconsciousness, some will solve it with silence, and some will leave directly, so that he will lose and infiltrate you.
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The woman will find a better man than this man, and in this way, she will take revenge on the man who has hurt her, so that the other party can see that she is very happy in her current life in Bo Beizhou. Base masking.
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If the woman is injured in the marriage, there is no need to retaliate, the two people should be together and disperse, hurting each other will only torture each other, and it is difficult to be happy in the marriage. It is wise to escape from an unhappy marriage of the Antrite faction. Take revenge on the man and leave him, so that he loses his mountain love.
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I feel that if you live and open up your own disgust, don't think about revenge on others, because while taking revenge on others, you will also spend a lot of time on your own self-care, and the final result is not what you want, and you will be very sad.
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In marriage, girls usually use more extreme ways to retaliate against the man who hurt them, so as a man, you should be kind to your wife.
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If you are divorced, there is no need to retaliate against the other party, if you have to say revenge, living a happy life is the biggest revenge for him!
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In marriage, a woman's most ruthless revenge against a man is not to ask, that is, to remove you from her heart, no longer love, and not to care.
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My heart cares about you, and I want to hurt each other, so does such a marriage have any meaning? I'm still very scary, such a former suspicion of marriage and hunger would rather have a beginning.
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You eat me, use me, wear me, spend so much money on me, and you're still a hen that doesn't lay eggs" The most hurtful thing about a married woman is the disrespect that men have for her, especially when a woman has no children under her knees. Marriage and childbirth, inheritance of the lineage, this is the fine tradition of our Chinese from ancient times to the present, so in the thinking of men, having children after marriage is the most important.
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It can't be said that a woman's figure has changed, that a woman is getting uglier and uglier, that a woman has a temper tantrum, that a woman is incapable of working, that she regrets this marriage, etc.
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I think in marriage, a man must not say to a woman, you are just at home with the children and doing housework, how tired is this person? When you say such words to your wife, it is easy to hurt the other party and affect the relationship between you, which is likely to become the fuse for the breakdown of your marriage.
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A man cannot hurt a woman with words like divorce, which would make her very insecure.
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Often blame each other, ambiguous with others, don't understand her husband, often make trouble unreasonably, quarrel at every turn, these things hurt a man's heart very much.
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Betraying men, hitting men's self-confidence, often insulting men, often making men compare with others, often saying that men are not good enough.
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Regardless of any occasion, he does not give face to a man, is very ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex in front of a man, respects a man's parents, and does not respect the other party's decision.
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What kind of marriage is it that you have to keep in a marital relationship? Most marital relationships are run by both parties. Some people wear it in marriage, some people are proud in it, and they end up losing it.
So, marriage is a way of doing business. If you know how to treat each other, you can reap more of your feelings. Then the woman must know how to feel the feelings, these three actions are most likely to hurt the man's heart, do not understand!
In marriage, these three behaviors of women are most likely to hurt the hearts of men, don't understand!
1.I don't know how to respect each other, and I always compare myself with others.
In fact, the most feared thing is that the more you compare, the more likely it is for men. The man is born better, the big man is in marriage, the woman treats the person who does not trust, it will bring his own family to compare, so only one person's self-esteem is hurt. In life, once a woman complains, the more demands create stress and burden.
And men also need protection, to know how to respect him and to know how men enter his heart. If an average comparison is asked to do what a man does for you, this will only keep a person away from you earlier. Feelings need to be respected for the other person to understand and support, so feelings will last forever.
2. A smell needs to be paid for.
Emotions and marriage are functioning and keeping each other. Not only a responsible person, but also a woman who has to fulfill her duty. Two people live together and rely on each other, the woman must know how to understand the pressure and hard work of the man, the same man must understand the hard work of the woman, both know each other, understand more, feel more and more good.
If a woman asks a man to pay and treats a man as a sum of money, you should spend money for you, give you a good life, don't put your man in your heart, so you will be so late, you can also hurt the truth of the man.
3. Say in front of a man that his family is not.
You know, no matter what a man or woman is, they are their own family. Since it chooses to live with a man and step into marriage, you should use yourself as a member of the family. If a woman does not recognize his position, a woman separates from that family, saying that the man is not, this is not mutual respect, do not consider his family as his family.
And then marriage is the most taboo, there are things that can be communicated well, and responsibility will only make the man more disgusted and will hurt the man's heart. Most men can love you very much but will never let you hurt his parents. Therefore, if you want to be harmonious, you have to get to know people and treat each other as your family, so men will love you more.
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In marriage, I often dislike and attack my husband, hook up with other men, and like to compare my husband with other men, etc. This kind of behavior hurts a man's heart very much, so you must not do it.
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Regardless of the family or children, just make themselves happy, often appear in entertainment places with friends, don't come home late, say things that don't change repeatedly, always make the same mistakes, and always feel that they are very reasonable, and often divorce this man.
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When a woman talks about divorce in marriage, this behavior is the most heartbreaking for men and is not conducive to family harmony and emotional stability.
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Women ignore men and don't care about men's feelings, women take the money earned by men back to their parents' families to subsidize their parents' families, and never care about men's lives, nor do they care whether men have eaten and whether they have a good day.
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disloyal to men, messing with flowers and grass outside, and provoking other men; has no sense of responsibility, disregards family unity, often makes petty temperament, and makes the family jump; stingy and stingy, only caring about himself or his mother's family, ignoring how difficult the man or man is at present, and even just sitting back and enjoying the results, not knowing how to pay.
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A woman uncovers a man's scars everywhere. A woman who always exposes a man's scars everywhere and says that a man can't do it, then this behavior of a woman will hit a man's self-esteem very much. Second, women complain about men everywhere and are dissatisfied with men.
Women begin to complain about men everywhere, show dissatisfaction with men, and not understanding men will also hurt men's hearts the most. The three women are ambiguous with other men. In the process of married life, there is a very serious behavior for a woman, which will especially hurt the man's heart, that is, the woman is ambiguous with other men, which makes the man jealous everywhere.
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Traditional marriages are outdated, long live open marriages!
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