When it s dangerous, the boyfriend runs first

It can be seen that your boyfriend is more selfish.

It's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that he loves himself more than you.

In the face of this situation, you can only control your feelings and don't fall deeper and deeper, otherwise you will be very hurt, it is normal for a boyfriend to do things for his girlfriend, but you say that he only thinks about himself when he quarrels, and your personality is also strong and always quarrelsome, alas, I think maybe your personality does not match, lz think about it, if it is really not suitable, find one that is good for you. I wish you happiness.

It only shows that he loves himself more than you are selfish, but he shows it too obvious...

Stupid people, it seems that there are too many TV series, and your lover is right for this kind of reaction. It's human instinct, it's uncontrolled. It's not that he doesn't love you. It's just that his body moves more than his brain. You can't blame him. It's like pricking your eyes with a needle and you close your eyes.

This is human nature, but nature can also be changed.

For a beloved woman beyond his own life.

He can't say he loves you.

I can only say I like it.

This kind of person is very dangerous, and in his subconscious he is still the most important, but now that they are all only children, this is inevitable.

It can only be said that you are not the first in his heart, but himself.

The reality of love in TV dramas is very rare and calm!

How to say it! That's a bit too much, at least to call you. I can only say that he is very selfish, maybe when he gets married and has children, he will change a little bit when he has to take responsibility.

Breaking up with him, as a man, the most basic can't be done, how can you talk about love?

Others don't say that you know it, you posted this post, you just don't believe your own opinion, but this fact. He's just in love with you, not in love with you, and after that, I don't think you have that kind of affection for him.

It's actually good for you that something happens, at least you know what kind of people love you.

Such a boyfriend is very selfish, and he only thinks of himself at a critical moment, and he will not be happy if he marries him in the future, so break up as soon as possible.

Personally, I don't think you can have such a boyfriend. When he first encounters danger, he doesn't think of you, which means that you are not very important in his heart. In fact, if you run away alone, you can also see that if there is any danger between you in the future, he will not care about you.

After encountering danger, run away alone, such a boyfriend is not wanted, it means that he does not take you to heart, and may say that he does not attach so much importance to you and loves you, so he will only think about himself.

I don't think I can ask for it, I don't have the sense of responsibility and responsibility that a man should have, and I only know how to retreat when I encounter things, even if such a man gets married in the future, he will not be happy.

When encountering a dangerous lover, it is instinct or choice, in medicine, there is a concept called freezing reaction.

It refers to the fact that when a person encounters sudden danger, the person's first reaction is not to run or fight, but to stalemate due to hormone secretion.

The length of time for this freeze reaction varies from person to person and is also related to the size of the danger encountered.

In short, in medicine, running away in danger is not the first instinctive reaction of people.

Of course, when the freezing reaction occurs, the brain will think for a short time and then control the body to make a choice.

It could be running away, or it could be a challenge.

Some people say that it is human nature to run away, and it is human nature to do so.

No, it is actually human nature to run away, it is the nature of animals.

It is the natural instinct of animals to seek advantage and avoid harm.

And choosing to stay and choose to fight is the choice that people make after thinking about it and belong to human nature.

It should be forgiven. Although out of rational judgment, at the moment of danger, everyone has two choices-

Run away or fight.

However, at that moment, the choices made in the brief processing of the human brain do not actually represent the true thoughts of the individual.

The firefighters were able to rush into the house against the flames, and that was the result of training.

The PLA was able to brave the rain of bullets and bullets to rush forward, and that was the result of training.

Therefore, if there is an ordinary boy who is willing to choose to stand in front of you when he encounters danger.

That's not taken for granted, but he overcame his own nature of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and chose to protect you.

You should be grateful to him.

And if he chooses to run away, you should understand him.

Because he's just an ordinary person too.

He failed to overcome his nature.

But this is normal.

It should not be forgiven.

If I am the one who was left behind by my lover and ended up facing danger alone, should I really forgive him?

No matter how much he regretted it afterwards, how willing he was to repent in front of me, and how much he longed for my forgiveness.

But how can I forgive?

How much he regretted it afterwards, how helpless and desperate I was when I faced the danger alone.

The scar has been imprinted in my heart, I said forgive you, will my heart really forgive you?

I say forgive you, will you believe it yourself?

After this incident, the relationship between the two of us will never go back to what it used to be.

It's better to leave it at that.

Some people say that you can stop here, but only if you forgive him, you can let go, you can travel lightly and continue to live your life well.

But it's not.

Who says forgiveness is letting go?

Forgiveness is the easy way forward?

Actually, the truth is just-

Never mind. That's right, it's "forget it".

Our lives are good, and at the end of the day, we don't have the extra energy to forgive you.

It's often just because I'm tired, so with the passage of time, let the years wash away, and then only leave one sentence -

Never mind. There is no forgiveness.

Just forget it, that's it.