I want to change myself, and I hate who I am

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well, that's good, do you have any areas that you are good at?

    You can do whatever you want, and then do what you want to do about it.

    Even if you're on the Internet, you can mold yourself into the kind of personality you want.

    At the same time, you have to read a lot of books, and you can dabble in any genre.

    Enroll yourself in a class, such as yoga or something, and then pay attention to your own maintenance, makeup, and wear clothes in your own style.

    When a woman has an outward appearance, she will naturally have self-confidence, and you can ignore him and turn your thoughts or confusion into motivation.

    Make him your goal.

    You think you're ruthless, but you're not, you must have something to make others envious, and it's a common problem to be consistencing.

    A lot of people have this mentality, you can try to buy a big piggy bank and throw a coin into it every day.

    And then after a while, start counting the coins so you know exactly how long you're holding on.

    And of course, the most important thing is your determination to change yourself, which is your permanent belief and support.

    Hope you succeed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Participate in more social activities, meet a lot of mentors and friends, re-cultivate hobbies, correctly establish a correct outlook on life, values, and more friends, people will become cheerful, lively, and confident, and slowly goodbye to yesterday's haze, low self-esteem, and depression. Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget that person, it's not worth it, it's not worth it at all, a person who makes you sad is not worth going like this, you can go out for a walk when you have time, and you can also go out to travel .!Anyway, don't be bored at home alone!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no endless love, only unspeakable love! When you want to give a love, you can give it to anyone, but when you have a love that you want to say, you can't find the right direction to talk about. With someone who can make you say love.

    Maybe you love someone, but that person is not someone you can say you love. To say love is to have empathy and the language of love. The price of love can be made.

    It's not too late to know that you have a negative mindset, as long as you can analyze what the negative mindset will do when something happens, and what the positive mindset will do, then you will like who you are now. Finally, remember to say that when you have love, you don't know if his departure is wrong or wrong for him, but it is really a good thing for you, at least it can make you realize yourself! Hopefully, you can come out of your demons.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I hate my current self, doing work I don't like, and constantly brushing the circle of friends to kill time. No hobbies, no goals, no motivation, can't find the way forward, superficially positive but actually decadent.

    Commuting to and from work every day, blindly busy, looking back and summing up and finding nothing.

    Brush the circle of friends every day, watch other people's wonderful lives, very envious... I want to change, increase the sense of ritual in life, and make life more exciting. However, when I think of savings, mortgages, imminent babies and poor wages, I am reluctant, and I feel that the so-called sense of ritual is a waste of money.

    I wanted to change but I didn't have the courage or the capital.

    I hate who I am, feeling like I'm worthless, but I don't know how to change it.

    I hate my current life, I don't think it's fun, but I don't dare to make a breakthrough.

    How can we become optimistic, positive, and change from the beginning?

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