Why is there no pure friendship between the opposite sex?

Because the truth of opposites attracts is eternal, the reason why there is still a pure friend relationship between you and your friends of the opposite sex is because you or the other party has a person who does not agree to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and there are many factors that do not agree to be boyfriend and girlfriend, not necessarily dislike, and the other person wants to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend with you, otherwise how can he spend so much time with you A person who is just a pure friend, wouldn't he mind if he has a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

Let's take women as an example, women usually have a good pure male friend who plays with themselves, but I think the man at this time should like you, but it is possible that you have a boyfriend now, his conditions are not as good as your boyfriend, he is not handsome, his family conditions are not good, etc., etc., etc., but you don't want to ruin this friendship, so you have been maintaining a relationship with friends. And the reason why the man is still playing with you is that he doesn't have a girlfriend yet, he has time to spend with you, or he still wants to wait for you.

I used to have a person who was considered a male girlfriend, but that was before I had a boyfriend, and I played with a boy very well, even if I was a little playful to a big hair, he also expressed his liking for me, but because it was a village person who was afraid of gossip, so I didn't stay with him, and he also understood me, so it was equivalent to playing ambiguously as a friend. But after finding a boyfriend, no boy who loves you can accept that you have such a good male friend, so he gradually distanced himself from him, and he also had a new girlfriend and started a new life, but every time I meet him, I feel very close, and I am very good to me.

A pure friendship between people of the opposite sex will not exist, because it will not necessarily be pure, and there will be at least one person's emotional factor mixed in with it, or mixed with the practical reason of not being together.

The so-called same-sex repulsion, opposite-sex attraction, just to answer this question, I think between the opposite sex, if you want a pure relationship, it is simply a very difficult thing to exist, like many TV series, there are also to play this kind of emotion between men and women, and eventually it will be pushed to a normal relationship between men and women. So I think it's like a lot of people will question, will there be a real pure friendship between boys and girls, but in fact, as long as you have friends of the opposite sex, I believe you will understand, in fact, you will find that no matter what you are, there will be a special emotion, will not be willing to be friends with you, so between the opposite sex, I think if you think that there is a possibility of development between you, then you can start as friends and get to know each other more, which is also a very good start for lovers.

Like I had a few male friends before, and then I played very well, that is, I would take special care of you if I did anything, and the conversation was also very compatible, but in the end, you get along more and more, and you will feel that it is very wrong between two people, and then it won't be long before some people will express their own emotions to you, at this time, I will feel very awkward, obviously the identity of a good friend, suddenly changed feelings, I will feel very embarrassed, And then I don't want to get along with each other anymore, so you may not be able to accept the situation that you want to be friends with someone, so if you have a good friend, then I think it's a pity. So if you want such a pure friendship between the opposite sex, I think it's still more difficult, I think there will still be a possibility, so the key depends on the way the two of you get along, but in the end, I still hope that everyone can find their real good friends, because the opposite sex, in fact, it is still worth deep friendship.

For myself, I feel that there is still a pure friendship relationship between the opposite sex, because I also have friends of the opposite sex around me, and my friends also have friends of the opposite sex, but some of them are also boyfriend and girlfriend friends, so you can't beat everyone who has friends of the opposite sex with a stick, it's not fair.

In fact, I can understand that some people say that there is no pure friend relationship between the opposite sex, because in the eyes of many boys, he doesn't want his girlfriend to have a better male girlfriend or a confidant of the opposite sex, because in their opinion, they are all men, who doesn't know what is in someone's heart, are you right? After all, there are some people who are friends with the opposite sex, and they have some unknown thoughts hidden in their hearts, they are just going to the spare tire position, they just want to get a love, not friendship.

But what you can't deny is that there are still some pure boyfriend and girlfriend relationships in real life, and there are many of them that make us well-known, such as Xie Na and He Jiong, the two have been in love and killed each other for so many years, and they have always maintained a good relationship, and each has its own family, isn't it good.

It is also worth mentioning that Ren Quan and Li Bingbing, a pair of good friends, have known each other since they were in college, and it has been more than 20 years now, although the fans of the two also like the two together, but they also have their own lives, isn't this also a good thing! So don't say anything about the fact that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, I admit that some people are not pure friends, and may hide individual thoughts, but you can't kill all good friends with a stick.

As long as a person has a bad appearance, then there is a pure friendship relationship between him and the opposite sex.

Whether a woman can maintain a pure friendship, if you stand still at a certain point to see, it should be fine. If you look at the timeline of a movement evolving, do things change?

Because since you can be friends, you must have a good impression or appreciate some aspect of the other party. Will your liking for friends of the opposite sex increase? To what extent do you like it? Will your intimacy increase? To what extent does the increase change?

Those who say that there is a pure relationship should be that the liking has decreased over time, or the liking has increased but not to a critical point, or the liking has increased and decreased so that the relationship has stopped. And those who tell you that there is no pure relationship should have seen the moment when "quantitative change causes qualitative change".

Because opposites attract, there are always some different factors in it, and it is easy to have feelings.

Because I didn't hold it well when I was with friends of the opposite sex, there was no pure friendship with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a good friendship between boys and girls, and in the author's opinion, there are the following:

1.Men and women are friends who grew up together, and both men and women share the same values and worldview, and men and women can cherish each other.

The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.

2.When friends get along with each other, they must know how to understand each other.

Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

3.To maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along.

In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends.

Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings.

4.A boy is more rational in his external interactions, but it is difficult for him to grasp the distance and scale of his interactions, because he will not be as imaginative as women. Girls are prone to admiration for the opposite sex who care too much about themselves, while boys treat female friends as brothers.

Therefore, it is very important to grasp the distance and scale.

A popular way to play on social media platforms is that you take your boyfriend's hand and see how he reacts. In most cases, we can see that the boy in ** will hold the girl's hand firmly, and everyone will say that there is no pure friendship between men and women. Some people will joke that it is quite simple to have pure friendship between men and women, as long as one of them is extremely ugly, and it is guaranteed that there will never begin.

In fact, this is not necessarily true, we still have a lot of friends of the opposite sex in our lives, and we may be able to become friends because we have the same interests or hobbies or are classmates or colleagues. If you don't do some excessive behavior, you can still maintain a long-term relationship with friends. If you want to maintain a good relationship with good friends for a long time, you can't get too close to each other in the first place.

It's not a big problem to make an appointment for a dinner party, but the frequency of this meeting should not be too high. Some things that are only done between couples, such as watching movies, are best avoided between ordinary friends. The warming of feelings is accumulated in meeting again and again, as long as the number of times does not accumulate to this point, then the feelings will not increase, and they can still maintain the position of friends with each other.

When two people meet, they should also grasp the degree between getting along. No one said that two people must walk shoulder to shoulder and hold hands. A road is so wide, can't you find a distance where two people can walk side by side?

Especially like the game that is popular on social platforms mentioned earlier, this kind of temptation is better to do less, and it is not something that should be done between friends of the opposite sex in the first place. And being able to be friends shows that the three views are at least consistent, and doing these senseless temptations under such a premise is for the boy to give him a hope, and it is clear that he doesn't want to be friends. And many boys themselves will laugh at themselves and say that the attitude of boys is not to refuse and not to take the initiative, even if this temptation is just for fun, it may make your friendship deteriorate from now on.

The last point is that when your friend of the opposite sex has a partner, then you need to automatically and spontaneously keep your distance from this friend of the opposite sex. Especially some daily cares, these things no longer need you to do, people have their own objects to do these things. You should retreat to the position of a friend, even if it is just a general person who nods the head, and don't interfere in the daily life between other couples.