My friend spoke to me like this, and my heart broke

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it happened to catch up with him and he was in a bad mood today. Don't judge the 13-year relationship because of such a trivial matter, and this doesn't mean anything, the sentence he scolded doesn't actually mean scolding your mother. Even if you want him to know that he said something he shouldn't have said, it doesn't mean much.

    I was thinking, maybe you're one of those friends, and you've had a very good relationship for 13 years, with very few conflicts. Otherwise, there won't be a 13-year friendship, and if he doesn't treat you as a brother, the USB flash drive will definitely not be lent to you. Maybe he's really in a bad mood today, everyone has that day.

    If it's a brother, you should ask him why he's so angry today. Don't think to yourself about what feelings are broken. Not to that extent.

    You listen to me, you go back and ask him if he has anything on his mind, out of a kind of concern, maybe he will feel very warm in his heart, will feel that you have always cared about him, and don't mention the things that scolded you in the morning, if he is still the most important brother to you. He will naturally feel guilty about what you have done.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't think about it, maybe he's just in a bad mood, I don't think it's anything, it's all trivial things, or don't worry about it, if you want him to know, he said something he shouldn't say, you just tell him directly, between friends, the relationship is not fragile like this, I still think you think it's you thinking too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe that USB flash drive really has some important data.

    Maybe your friends are just playing tricks on you!

    After a while, count it for a while! If the brotherly relationship of thirty years is shattered because of a small USB flash drive, then you and him are not brothers.

    There is no understanding between brothers. There is no real trust in each other!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe there really is important data.?

    On the bright side, I think so.

    Misunderstandings happen all the time.

    There is a knot in my heart. Say it in front of each other.

    Fuck you'It's just a momentary breath or a verbal word.

    As for you, you said something you shouldn't have said. "You kid.

    You're your peers...

    The USB flash drive still has to be returned. You borrowed something from him.

    As for letting him know that he said something he shouldn't have said.

    Just tell him directly. I was very upset to hear what you said at that time.

    No matter how good our relationship is. At the very least, respect is still there, don't be weak. Don't be too tough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Something must have happened to your friend! It won't be like this for no reason, it's better to be brothers for so long, it's better to say it clearly, don't ruin the friendship between two people for so many years because of a small misunderstanding!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I guess something has hit your friend recently.

    Twelve years of friendship can't be shaken by this little thing, this friendship is not easy to come by.

    Just tell him what you think to his face, and if he realizes his mistake, forget it

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Misunderstand, after so many years, this little thing is committed, but it is difficult for a man to make anyone soft, and there is no need to mention this matter, sit down to have a meal and drink a drink, and the smoke disappears.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your buddy is not in a good mood, you can pay it back as much as you want, you ask him if he is out of love, you ask him what he thought when he scolded people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Keep up the good work, victory is just around the corner.

    I am from Chongqing.

    In the future, if someone wants to ask me if I have ever played a boyfriend, I will say that I have played, the meaning of this sentence is that if someone asks her if she has a boyfriend in the future, she will say that she has a boyfriend, which means that you are her boyfriend, do you understand?

    I'm still crying, contact her directly, people say it's so direct, you can quickly take on the responsibility of your boyfriend, stupid.

    You can actually not contact her for a day, sometimes there are too many tenderness and mistakes, and the matter is solved quickly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Brother bravely chase it, they all live together, it means that there is still hope, I support you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love hurts, it hurts and loves, life is always making trouble for yourself, so that you are not lonely, mediocrity disturbs yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You'd better forget it and tell her to go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Alas! I can only blame you for being too stupid, let me tell you this, it is difficult for a long-distance relationship like you to have results, if this is his first betrayal, then, there will be a second time, a third time, even if you get married, he will still be like this, because he is not a man, at least not a responsible man, you know, if love is not only in the heart, but also needs a sense of responsibility, if you don't have love, maybe he will still be with you, when love fades, he will be bored, not to mention a long-distance relationship like yours? If you don't want to get hurt again, just let it go!

    Although the breakup is painful, it is much better than you being miserable later!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not worth it to be like him, divide it! Being betrayed once can be betrayed twice, I don't know what you think, hehe! I'm just talking, and in the end, I have to decide for myself, hehe! Come on!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He has a first time, a second time, a third time, can you forgive him every time? Even if you forgive, can you convince yourself to forget all this? The most important thing in love is loyalty.

    If you think he made up a random excuse and dumped the woman. On the face of it, you are the victor in this battle. But.

    You have to know that there are no victorious generals. Who knows if you're going to be that woman one day. Originally, it was not easy for two people to be together.

    Not to mention a long-distance relationship. Loyalty is even more important.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Such a person is not worth it, his means are too bad! Love! How can I lie to you with the sentence "I don't want to delay you for three years"!

    And then another sentence of "pregnant" dumped another man, on love! That's the attitude? Does he love you like this?

    Do you see his attitude towards love and give him his life at ease? ......Think clearly....

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone has their own way of being a person, maybe you and her concept is different, you are a very enthusiastic person, should be a helpful person, but she will take these lightly, people are different, understand each other! Because it's hard to be a good person, you will inevitably suffer some grievances, don't impose your own wishes on others, this will really annoy people. It can only be said that she is not suitable as the person you confide in, and you can just be an ordinary friend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I have always felt that only the person concerned knows how much hurt and pain there is, and others are sad, but they are just repeating reminders of a bad situation, blindly indulging and longing for comfort, not only will it not help, but it will fall deeper and deeper, so since she doesn't like to listen, what do you say? And everyone has advantages and disadvantages, think about his good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sometimes don't care so much if you pay, you can think about it from another angle, if you are unhappy, it will affect your friend's mood, it is your friend's poor self-control ability and can't enlighten yourself, so you find you to complain, and because of your ability, your friends will find you. My best friend is the same as your friend, so I don't tell her when I'm upset, and when I do, she always laughs and says, "Ouch, you're going to be able to handle this little thing, you're going to be able to handle it."

    It can't be helped, every time she's in a bad mood, I always play that role, and I'm happy to do it for my friends, and that's the magic of friendship. Happiness is meant to be shared, and pain is enjoyed by oneself. Let's take our time to understand this sentence.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of person is not worthy of deep friendship. Selfish.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Her personality is not suitable for listening, and she can't be blamed for that, she may be a chaser. This has a lot to do with people's personalities.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your situation is the same as mine, a friend is a friend, the person to confide in is the person to confide, the two are not one, of course, if you find a friend who can listen to you, then she is your confidant......Don't be confused, in fact, she is not your good friend, a good friend will think about you, she is not.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some people just want to talk but don't want to listen, persuade you to find someone who is willing to listen and talk about your emotional problems, how can everyone's temper be the same?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because you can't pray that she can do as well as you, it's not that how much you give, others will return you, so be too hoped, be yourself with peace of mind, friends are not so great sometimes, it may be better to talk to your parents, because of their unconditional love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    1 It is not necessary to have all love a person, as long as he is happy, it is not a good thing to bless silently.

    And after all, there is no development between you, and you don't know if you're a good fit, and you're not sure about his attitude towards you. If you get entangled in it, everyone will be miserable.

    You may not be able to get what you want, but what you can't get is always the best. Leave a little fantasy to yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hehe, whether you can conquer your sweetheart depends on your sincerity in conquering him, as long as you express and dedicate with sincerity, no man is a girl made of stone - you must have the ambition to conquer everything, including "him".

    The second point is to try to improve yourself, make yourself better, and don't think that you are breaking up others, because "love itself is selfish".

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not married again.

    And what can it be.

    Everyone's opportunity is fair.

    As long as you express your emotions in a fair way.

    Don't do things that hurt someone else intentionally.

    It would be nice to have a clear conscience.

    As for success or failure.

    At least you tried.

    It's not going to end up in the end.

    Be brave enough to pursue your love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    See if their relationship is good or not.

    You know if you have a chance.

    Don't be sad if you don't.

    If you love, don't regret it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Silently bless it. Or you're going to break them up? That's not good, isn't it?

    Love. Then you can't break them up.。。 Do you want to see someone you love sad?

    What's more, you are the one who hurt him. Even if you tear them apart or something. Is it possible for him to be with you?

    Or bless. Or wait and see.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The path you choose is borne by yourself.

    If true love you can continue in silence.

    If you forget it, you can bless them.

    It's all your own choice.

    It's hard because you care.

    Wouldn't it be nice if you didn't care?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The road will continue to go on, and maybe you will find the scenery you like more.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you go for it, there will be 50% success. If you give up, there is no hope.

    As long as he is not married, you have the right to have. If he deserves your love for him, then love him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is no grass at the end of the world.

    Actually, I'm pretty good.

    Or let's try to socialize.

    You'll have forgotten about him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Pain is a pleasure that only a sober person can have....

    Go after it boldly, at least you've tried hard!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Let it go, if he likes his girlfriend a lot.

    There is a kind of love called letting go", I should have heard this song.

    If he's happy with her, I think it's right for you to let it go.

    Wouldn't you be happy to see him happy?

    I wish you happiness

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Loving someone doesn't have to get him, as long as he is happy, it's enough, calm your mind,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is recommended to fight for it, don't regret it later, at most it will be rejected, and it is not a big deal.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If he doesn't love you, he's looking for a boyfriend, so why hang himself in a tree.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't be sad, if someone hurts you, go and make friends, mix better than him, is the best powerful response to him.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let it be! I persuade you to open a point, a good boy like you, she left you is her loss! Even if you are barely together, you won't be happy! Cheer up and shift your focus! Time will dilute everything! Go for it!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I support you, the age difference of 5 years is not a problem, you can make amends in persistence.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Dude, top you, you're awesome, it's hard to find a man like this.

    Don't cry, go and kill yourself, let men like you in the world die, let women suffer, and grieve and go.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The world is so big, there is a person who loves you and waits for you and you are waiting for you to grow old, what is the use of you being sad, you want to open something, you have to eat, you have to go to class, you have to sleep, life has to live, I felt the same way with you when I was young, it's all the same, no conscience, no emotion, no responsibility, no moral person, why do you want to die or live for such a person, it's not worth it, look forward, many beautiful girls are waiting for you to love you and you want you to ditch you are about to appear, what are you still sad about.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Doesn't she still have a father and relatives! You should be looking for a breakthrough here! And is there any reason for yourself? Otherwise, why wouldn't her mother let you socialize?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Why bother, there are many women in the world.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Do you understand why her mother is against you? What are the main reasons? You're good to her, that's one thing. But it is very realistic for parents to live for so many years. You should work hard now, earn money and make a profit, so that you can have the ability to fight for it. Come on, work.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Talk to her mom and don't worry.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Yes, yes, yes! Rest assured, everything will be fine.

    Time can dilute everything.

    It'll get better slowly.

    Broken love is like this.

    It will be fine in a few days.

    And in the future, you will meet people who will make you more tempted.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Find more classmates to socialize, both boys and girls, for those closer friends, you can also tell them some of your pain, it will take a while to get out of this shadow, it is best to get some help and comfort from friends, you will not feel lonely and helpless. So you can get out early.

    The road of life is very long, there are still many things waiting for you to do, and there are many people who want to care about you or want to get your care, don't always dwell on the past.

    It's also a good idea to get involved in more activities and exercise.

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