Inner contradictions, quickly solve them, please, how to solve the contradictions

It's a very simple thing, you are just impulsive, just met in cram school, it is love at first sight, there is not much understanding just by simply meeting a few times to have a good impression of him, this kind of feeling is the shortest feeling, you can try to let go first, not to mention ten years, three or two years later, you look back to see if you still like him very much, if you are still loyal to him after three or even four years, then you can consider waiting for him for a few more years, only until you yourself change your mind, If you can keep your mind unchanged, then bless you, you are really serious and you can stand the test of time, and then it depends on whether he can also stand the test of time, whether he is still in love with you in three years, five years or ten years, if not, then there is no way, this is actually a matter of the future, now what you have to do is to avoid him and do not study by mistake, if it is not good in a cram school, then change to another cram school. Now you must learn first. You can actually wait for this kind of thing.

Because you're still too young. That's all for kids. I wish you success in your studies.

Worthy of yourself and worthy of your family.

Isn't that the problem?

We'll talk about it then"Hm.

Meantime. Because he asked if he could wait for him for ten years.

In other words, he doesn't want to develop this relationship now.

I like it. Nor do they want to develop further.

So I think. This question can be done directly.

Truly. It is impossible to wait 10 years.

But. For the sake of a friend and his temporary relationship. That's all right.

It's not nice to say. The chances of remembering this vow after 10 years are very low.

10 years is not short. Can you really stay for him for that long?

Will you still be in touch during this 10-year period?

Are you sure you can change your mind?

Basically, it's impossible.

Or when you look back. You'll think it's just a child's joke.

Puppy love is not supported.

Everyone else has said that it has been ten years later. Pour cold water on it. Advise your friend not to devote himself to himself.

Hehe, children have some emotional impulses, and adults can explain it to them, and it will naturally dilute after a while. Don't worry too much. If it's too good, it's better to go to another make-up shift.

You tell them that they are still young, that they should study hard, and that the things in life will be lost in time and slowly change and mature.

Ha ha. It's unrealistic to wait for more than ten years.

Ahh

It's so cute. Ha ha. I dare not say anything, for fear that I will hurt you by saying the wrong thing.

At a young age, I remember that my studies came first.

Don't miss anything and just study.

It's precocious

I can't wait, who knows who in 10 years It's not bad to be a good friend now, but don't affect your studies, otherwise you won't have a job in the future, and it's awkward to look at each other

No one can predict what they will become in the next moment.

10 years? Can you guarantee that it will not change for 10 years?

Maybe you like each other today and change direction tomorrow.

Don't be a child...

Wait, as long as you have faith, you can wait, but you have to solve your own business.

Brain broken?

Wait 10 yearsIn 10 years, you will be 23If he comes back and has a partner, you won't wait in vain.

Besides, it's useless to talk about 13 years old

10 years? I laugh

Children.. You know what will happen in 10 years???

Let's have a simple cut-off!

In intimate relationships, the breaking of feelings is due to the inability to sit down and communicate, and communication is the best medicine to resolve conflicts.

As long as one of them is willing to put down his position and think about the problem again from the other party's point of view, he can make a big difference.

And effective communication has eight outline questions:

1 What do I want?

2 Are there any misunderstandings that should be clarified first?

3 Which of the emotions I am expressing are absolutely true?

4 Do I or my partner's emotions sound familiar?

5 How did this sentiment come about?

6 How can I respond to this emotion?

7 What are the feelings behind emotions?

8 Can I respond to this feeling with love?

If you know what the consequences will be if you don't communicate effectively, you may be more willing to do your best. If you don't resolve the power struggle in a harmonious way, you risk allowing your relationships to experience a third deviant, which is "revenge."

As the saying goes: a little noise is pleasant. When the conflict is dealt with, both sides can understand each other better.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

You can't have both fish and bear's paws, it's useless to contradict each other, let's sacrifice our lives for righteousness.

Theory is linked to practice and emphasis is placed on reality.

That's all a bad trick to torture yourself.

Why forget about it! If you like it, you're together. But 12 years old. No matter how precocious. Love this piece regardless of age. Don't miss it, don't make a mistake.

Why forget? If you like it, stay together.