How to deal with hypocritical people at work?

I remember when I was working in one of my units, there was a colleague who was very hypocritical, and very sleek, shrewd and cautious, and wanted to take advantage of everything. Because of my work, I can't stay away from this person, but I have to protect myself, so when I get along with this colleague, I am fair and generous. As soon as that colleague makes a small move, I will immediately ask:

What do you want to take advantage of today? Who do you want to do? I wasn't angry, I wasn't nervous, I wasn't hostile, I just smiled and said my doubts.

No matter what I do, I will make all the steps that should be made public, and I will not give that hypocritical colleague a chance to do something. When you face a hypocritical and sleek and shrewd person, you don't need to spend so much effort with him, just be more generous, and no matter how much he has his eyes, he will not be able to take you.

To be an enemy of a hypocritical person, it is still the same sentence, unless you are more hypocritical, shrewd and cunning than ta, otherwise your life will not be easy. If you are an enemy of such a person, you want to be an enemy of a villain, you never know where he dug a hole for you, and he always thinks of a way to make you jump. We have to work, we have to live, we have so many things to do, how can we have so much energy to deal with such a person?

Again, when it comes to the day when you suffer, if you tell others, others may not believe you, because that hypocritical person will package things very "exquisitely" in his own words and behaviors before you tell your "grievances", so exquisite that others think that you are making trouble unreasonably, or you are cheap and behaved.

In front of another hypocrite, in addition to protecting your own privacy, you have to keep your mouth shut. Don't talk to anyone behind your back with such a person, even if you say good things, but you are heard by such people, and then after being carefully dressed up, and then spread it to you, then it must not be a good word in the ears of the person you are talking about, and you can't find a chance to defend yourself even if you want to. When meeting with such a person, just make a haha as much as possible, if you can avoid it, then it will be perfunctory, hum haha is better than anything else.

Knowing a so-called friend but they are all friends of Pingshui, it can also be said to be a cunning person! I was talking bad about me behind my back, how to deal with it? You have understood the so-called friend, then stay away from him, and when he hits a wall everywhere, maybe he will change himself, of course it is his own business, by him, if he is a colleague at work, then gradually alienate him, talk to him to the mouth to leave three points, in short, this kind of person is a villain, stay away from it, and don't compete with him, otherwise you will become him.

We can obviously find that villains are very good at the wind and rudder, talk about people when they see people, talk nonsense when they see ghosts, nod their heads when they see leaders, and command their weak colleagues when they see them. This kind of person you have to be tough on him, and bravely reject him without violating your own principles.

Hypocritical villain, stay away from the best. The villain is a ghost, and this kind of ghost doesn't know how disgusted and disgusted others are! Anyway, I'm very disgusted with hypocritical villains, this kind of villain has a good life.

The villain is the driver of interests, and when you damage his interests, he will retreat in order not to lose the interests he is chasing. Villains are also selfish and will care a lot about what they get.

Holding the mentality of hypocrisy and harming others makes people disgusted and disgusted. This kind of ghost may lack love and insecurity since childhood, and his personality is suspicious, sensitive and self-righteous, and he does not distinguish between right and wrong. I can't describe what it feels like to be disgusted with a villain to the extreme!

You must stay away from such people, because such people are particularly hypocritical, so in the process of interacting with each other, you must pay attention to it, try not to dig out your heart and lungs, don't waste too much time or feelings on the other party, and then you should improve your ability to discriminate.

Don't bother with him, just be yourself, and if he wants to provoke you, you can expose his hypocrisy and let him reveal his true colors.

We must not associate with these people, and then we must face them with sincerity, but never expose their lies to their faces, and give them some tips.

Why does everyone in the workplace have a withered face and a hypocritical face? What should I do?

1. Hypocrisy is a way for people in the workplace to protect themselves.

As an adult, every day I go to work, I will deal with different people, unsmiling colleagues, demanding leaders, difficult customer ......Let's be overwhelmed. We will find that in the workplace, many people will show their false side, obviously hostile to their colleagues, but show a very friendly appearance; It's clear that his work is not perfect, but he is full of praise. After working for a long time, we will also turn from boredom to habit, and we will also find ourselves becoming such people, because hypocrisy can allow us to gain a foothold in the workplace, can make us have more friends, and make our work smooth.

Second, you should learn to have high emotional intelligence.

to face different people in the workplace.

In the workplace, we have to face different people according to the actual situation, the most important thing is to learn interpersonal communication and solve problems in a way with high emotional intelligence. Say what kind of person you see, don't offend others directly, don't try to talk quickly and put yourself in a dilemma. If you praise others appropriately, you will find that your colleagues will be extremely happy, you will have more common topics with you, and you will be more comfortable working on your own.

3. In the workplace, you should also know how to refuse.

When it comes to work, many people try their best to be more productive.

When I can't solve a problem, I will ask others for help. If a colleague asks for it, he or she should decide whether to help them according to his own ability, and if he has a lot of work on hand, he can directly refuse and tell them that he really can't find time to hide it; If you are not good at the work of your colleagues, you should also tell the truth, so as not to make yourself anxious after agreeing, and you will not be able to carry out your own work, and if you do not complete it well, you will be complained by your colleagues. Therefore, it is very necessary to know how to say "no".

Because the workplace is very competitive, and there are many people who are very hypocritical, and they also tell you the truth, so I think you can be your true self, there is no need to meet them early, and there is no need to be in the same stream with them, because this is not conducive to their own personal development, so we must pay attention to this aspect of the problem.

Because people in the workplace never really believe in others, nor do they rely on others, it is more hypocritical to face people in the workplace. We should make some friends and maintain trust in others, and we should also have more contact with others to reduce the sense of distance that comes from them.

Because everyone's purpose is different, some people want to gain the favor of the leader in this way, and they also want to get more benefits. At this time, you must keep calm Liang Chun, have your own character of arguing scum, and don't go along with it.

Colleagues are hypocritical, I feel stupid that I have to go through the letter hall on my face, try to slip and manage interpersonal relationships, don't have financial dealings, just pay attention to protect yourself.

How to face the hypocrisy of colleagues, this does not have to be concerned.

You clearly understand in your heart that the other party is hypocritical, and you don't have to take it too seriously to fight you.

However, it is necessary to find out whether it is true and hypocritical, or if a colleague has not expressed it clearly, and do not misunderstand the other party. Stalking.