I m not very satisfied with my mother in law s attitude...

As a daughter-in-law, the most stupid thing is to go against her father-in-law and mother-in-law in the bottom of her heart.

As the older generation, it is normal for them to have a solid personality.

But if they think of a person, they will give everything for a person unconditionally.

As a daughter-in-law, as an outsider, you must first be recognized by your parents-in-law.

So I hope you now respect them in everything and let him be three points.

Soon, your behavior will be loved by your husband and will also be recognized by the elderly.

Believe that your troubles will be effectively resolved.

A word to you: while you can't change the status quo or change others, you have to try to change yourself.

I wish you love and family harmony!

You're living in someone's house before you get married? The in-laws naturally look down on it, do you still want this or that? How can your parents let you live in your boyfriend's house without getting married, it's so irresponsible.

You see, now that people are married, they don't want to pay because they are determined to eat you. Why are there so many silly girls, hey. You can only care about it so much now, live separately, your husband is good to you, and if they have a headache and brain fever in the future, don't think about you to serve.

ps, whose name is this house?

The most difficult relationship in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is recommended that you and your mother-in-law need to be more tolerant, after all, it is difficult for your husband to be sandwiched in it, you need to talk to your mother-in-law happily and sincerely, otherwise, you will be very sad in the future! I'm not trying to scare you, that's how people have been.

Float by. It's not easy for outsiders to meddle in housework.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not related by blood, there is a large generation gap, and there is a relationship between two women who are very important to each other, it is difficult to get along, the key is whether they can treat each other sincerely, whether they can be less calculating and self-conscious, and more understanding and tolerant!! For the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I first want to say: why should women be embarrassed by women!!

For your mother-in-law, you have been a daughter-in-law for many years, why can't you understand your daughter-in-law? For your daughter-in-law, you have just started to boil, and one day you will also become a mother-in-law, so why fight so hard?!! The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may be a relatively bad relationship at present, mainly because of the large difference in thinking between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law is too self-controlled, daughter-in-law is too self-sufficient, does not give in to each other, and the original prejudices, etc., I think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be understood from the following three aspects:

First of all, your in-laws are elders, and they are equivalent to your own parents, so you should respect your in-laws, and at the same time you should be humble, after all, your in-laws and your thinking are quite different, so it is normal to have some different opinions, as a junior, you should learn to take a step back; Second, if there is a problem, we must understand the essence of the problem, if it is wrong, we should take the initiative to admit that it is wrong, if it is the mother-in-law, do not be unforgiving, after all, the people born in their era are very different from modern young people in terms of thinking and way of thinking, but one thing is certain, they also hope that the younger generation is good, although their words or ways are somewhat inappropriate, but we do not need to be judged; Third, whenever this kind of situation is involved, I think you should let your husband Chunxun communicate with her mother-in-law, your husband is your mother-in-law's son, no matter what your husband says and does, your mother-in-law can tolerate and understand, but if you come forward, it is easy to cause your mother-in-law's displeasure, because she will think that my son didn't say anything about me, you have to say this for life, so as a daughter-in-law, you must talk about ways and means, as a daughter-in-law, don't be too strong, care about your mother-in-law's affairs, try your best to come forward to do it, encounter problems, Try to let your husband come forward to communicate, this is the art of singing red face and white face!

The mother-in-law is born with a sense of superiority, and always thinks that no matter what her daughter-in-law does, she is a high man. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many women in modern times are unwilling to completely please their mother-in-law, and on the other hand, they cannot accept that their mother-in-law is dissatisfied with themselves.

What really affects the direction of the marriage is the attitude of the partner in the middle, whether it is biased towards the parents, or towards oneself, whether it is angry at oneself and blame, or at the parents to reason with one's brother.

No woman will be at home, able to tolerate that her partner does not care about her, does not help her, but still feels that her parents are right about everything; No woman will be able to endure her mother-in-law's criticism of her in her own small home, and even show the high posture of a hostess.

No woman will put up with her mother-in-law while educating her children"Will you bring children? Are you your own mother or not?"。But even if a woman has been tortured by her mother-in-law in marriage, as long as her partner cares about her and cherishes herself, she will not resolutely choose to divorce.

In the final analysis, she loves you based on the fact that you are the choice of a lifelong partner, not because you love your parents All relationships should give way to the relationship between husband and wife, which is the basis for the harmony of human development, and decent parents are graceful to withdraw when it is time to leave, not to participate in the second half of their children's lives, but to mix with their children's newly formed family.

I think the best way for my mother-in-law to be dissatisfied with herself is not to try to please him. The more he flatters you, the more dissatisfied he will be with you. Just get along normally. If you really can't get along, try to avoid it.

If your mother-in-law is not happy with you, you must communicate with your husband in a timely manner. Tell your husband that he must be a good intermediary, that he must stand his own ground at critical moments, that he does not favor another person, and that he does not feel that he is his mother, and that he should let her do everything. As long as your own husband takes a clear stance and doesn't take sides, there won't be much of a problem.

Because your husband was raised by his mother-in-law, he may feel that his son is particularly good, and he may also feel that most people are not worthy of his son. And taking care of her son for so many years, and suddenly she is good to another woman, she will also feel unbalanced in her heart, so it is normal to be dissatisfied with herself. In fact, you yourself are married to his son and not him, and you have no obligations to him, so if you don't want to get along, you don't want to get along with him.

Don't be respectful to your mother-in-law just because you love your husband so much, and listen to whatever he says. I feel that there are some issues that I must stand firm on and not let my mother-in-law meddle in your housework. You can get by on some issues, but you must be strong on certain issues, so that your mother-in-law will know that your bottom line is **, and he will not easily offend.

The mother-in-law looks at her daughter-in-law very pleasing to the eye, which is too rare. Sometimes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to be natural enemies, because they haven't been with them for too long, and they don't have a deep relationship, and they suddenly become a family, and they will be a little unacceptable. But this is also a normal situation, and it is possible that you yourself do not like your mother-in-law very much.

So you will also especially understand the feelings of your mother-in-law. As long as there is no head-on conflict.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always appeared from ancient times to the present, if your mother-in-law is not satisfied with herself, then as a daughter-in-law, you must understand, learn to be tolerant, and let your mother-in-law slowly accept herself.

You are not satisfied with your mother-in-law, but you have to face her, will you feel very broken, will you be helpless?

In fact, the best way to get along with your mother-in-law is: live separately and don't stay together. When a relative gets along, it will last a long time, so that there will be no disgust and disgust.

I will first review whether I have not done enough in any aspect of myself, respect my mother-in-law as a mother, and ask her to go shopping with her to promote the relationship in my free time.

If your mother-in-law is not satisfied with herself, she will be honored more by her side after marriage, accompany her more, and move her with your filial piety.

Communicate with your other half to express your thoughts to him, and let him communicate with each other, which will get twice the result with half the effort and effectively alleviate the emotional problems between the two.

It's best not to live with your mother-in-law, and since he's dissatisfied with himself, try not to appear in front of him and don't have too much contact.

If there is not too much contradiction, let him go, do his duty, fulfill his obligations, and see the hearts of the people for a long time.

First from the side, for example, let your husband understand that he is dissatisfied with you, and if it is indeed a bad job, then slowly correct it; If it can't be corrected, such as personality incompatibility and living habits, then try to avoid getting along and living together. If it is the mother-in-law who is unreasonable, then you can only let your husband adjust, the key is to stay together as little as possible and have less contact, you still have to bear the responsibility of your daughter-in-law, and try to participate in each other's lives as little as possible. Just live your own life with your husband, don't worry too much.

My mother-in-law, maybe Chang'e will not be satisfied with marrying her son, all kinds of high requirements, I can't meet them, and I don't deliberately try to please her, what's the love.

The harmony of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have a great impact on the marriage. Mainly embodied in:

1.The influence of the atmosphere of life. A harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will create a relaxed and harmonious family atmosphere, which is conducive to the stability of the relationship between husband and wife. Tension in the relationship will make the living atmosphere full of pressure and troubles, which will invisibly hurt the relationship between husband and wife and affect the quality of marriage.

2.The influence of value identification. The harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law indicates that there are common values to some extent.

This is conducive to the unity of the husband and wife in the direction of life philosophy and value, and the conflict in marriage will be reduced. But tensions in the relationship, differences in values can exacerbate the conflict, making it difficult for couples to reach a consensus, which can pose a threat to the stability of the marriage.

3.The impact of economic interests is absolutely unbalanced. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are harmonious, and mother-in-law will give financial care and help to daughter-in-law.

And when relations are strained, support in this area will weaken or even disappear. Economic factors are an important aspect of marriage, and changes in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can have a significant impact in this regard.

4.The impact of moral support. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, and husband and wife can receive spiritual support and encouragement from their mother-in-law when facing difficulties.

However, when the relationship is strained, this support will disappear, and the couple will need to rely on themselves to face all kinds of pressures and difficulties. In the long run, this can make couples feel isolated and can cause cracks in their marriages.

5.The impact of a child's education. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, and it is easier to reach a consensus on the education of children, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children.

Tensions in the relationship will inevitably lead to greater disagreements in this regard, which will make the children the object of wrestling and will also bring confusion to the children's growth, which will inevitably damage the relationship between husband and wife.

Therefore, in general, the rapport of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship will have a profound impact on the marriage. A harmonious relationship can provide support for a marriage, but a strained relationship can have a negative impact on the marriage in terms of life, values, finance, spiritual support, and children's education, which can seriously threaten the stability of the marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very critical part of the success of marriage.

This deserves the attention and efforts of the couple before and after marriage.

My mother-in-law's family doesn't respect me, and I won't be mad on the spot, I should take the initiative to communicate, communicate, and resolve misunderstandings and contradictions, especially with my mother-in-law, without any misunderstandings and contradictions, I can live happily.

How to respect each other and live happily as a family, there is a good way in the family relationship, that is, you take the initiative to do it, take half a step earlier, and take more than half a step to give, which will often make the relationship with each other more harmonious.

After a long time with the family, you must know what she likes, what she likes to hear, and how she likes to be treated. Then treat her like this and coax her well.

Clause. 1. You treat him like a child;

Clause. Second, you take the initiative and do more.

It's like having two little children at home, and your own child is well loved, and everyone loves him. And this old child, this life is very hard, and she has never been satisfied, so you have to take the initiative to give her more.

In fact, you just need to do your own ideological work, and then, take the initiative to care more about her, for example, when Zelu goes out, buy a cake, Xiaobao prepares a copy of Sparrow, and an old baby. Buy a new dress, one for your children, and one for the elderly. Or what she likes, or praise it casually, you see how smart my baby is, exactly like his grandmother ......

Linguistically direct and active love language. In reality, I took the initiative to take care of her more, and deliberately gave more ...... with my heart

When you take the initiative to give and care about her, when you become the same position as him and become a family, even if she doesn't perform well enough, maybe you won't have so much disgust and impatience in your heart.

Because we look at people, we tend to be more tolerant of our own people, shortcomings, and faults. Moreover, we have a position when we look at people, and the more uncomfortable a person is, the more uncomfortable he becomes, and the more he looks comfortable, the more comfortable he becomes.

Therefore, people in this world cannot look at age.

Many people look like children, adults, and the elderly, but in fact, the people who are hidden inside are children.

Especially many elderly people, they are really hard, they have been coping with life all their lives, and they have not received any spiritual care.

He may not have gotten it emotionally, imitatively, or materially.

If you care about him like an old child, it will be easier to get close to him and become a family that loves each other.

When you take the initiative to be good to him, you have already cared for and cared for him as your own person and your own family. It's like taking a child out, or even taking a husband out, if the husband has some bad behavior, you will have a sense of honor and disgrace, and you will not stand on the opposite side and think that he is not good.