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Hello bro! I'm a man, and I don't think it's too much for you to do, but it's not a wise thing to do.
First of all, I want to say that family affection is priceless, and we can't hurt our feelings because of money.
From an economic point of view, if you don't have a tight hand now, if you take 20,000 yuan to the bank and save it, how much is the stake in a year? It's better to lend your brother-in-law to do business turnover. I believe that he will make a lot of money in the future, even if he is not grateful to you, he will be grateful to your wife, and will also let your father-in-law and mother-in-law enjoy the blessings.
Besides, if you chase him, your wife will say that you are too stingy to be a man, which will affect the relationship between your husband and wife. If you don't call him back, your wife will say that you are generous and decent, and you may depend on you in everything at home and abroad.
Spending 20,000 yuan can please four people (brother-in-law, wife, father-in-law and mother-in-law), why not?
As for the 20,000 yuan, let your wife help you chase it in the future!
I don't know if I have a point?
Addendum: I would like to say that I am a man.
After reading your supplement, I feel very uncomfortable inside, I think you are too masculine.
Is it possible for both husband and wife to have equal income?
If you love your wife, you shouldn't say such things.
If you are the one who loves your wife, you should take care of her feelings.
You are also an insightful person, you try to empathize, if you are your current wife, what would you think when you see your husband say such things? Will your heart feel good?
When I saw you say that it was from Beijing, I just want to remind you that Beijing's divorce rate now ranks first in the country, about 40%, do you know the reason?
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Is he from your wife, and my brother is also your uncle! The money borrowed by my relative has not been repaid for ten years now, because when we borrow, we will not ask him for it, and if we have money, we will naturally pay you back, isn't your wife's mother your mother? Do you think 5,000 yuan a year is too much?
The most basic thing, you are a ** person! It's really shameless to say these things here, your wife really has no eyes to look at people like you is her misfortune, maybe the environment you grew up in, and the different things you experienced! So much so that you are so unplanted!
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Let me start by saying that I'm from the city, and I'm a college student.
Brother, I think you're a bit of a bully.
Marrying a wife and not giving a bride price is in itself a very rude act The bride price is a sign of being devoted to one's wife, and not giving one in a thousand miles is in itself disrespectful to the wife.
Her brother lends you 20,000 yuan, and gives 5,000 yuan a year, and he earns 3,000 a month without a fundamental contact, don't you make money?
And brother, I'm curious, you picked up a daughter-in-law from a 211 engineering university for nothing, and you still have a lot of thieves.
If I meet 10,000 yuan, the bride price is 10,000 yuan, and the change fee is 9999, I don't have a younger brother, if I have borrowed money, I will pay all the money to the family, and my brother will borrow money, just tell you, not to ask for advice, but to inform you.
5000 bucks? It's still a year, and you're going to send it away? My dad and my mom pick up such a good wife for 10,000 a month, and so many things!
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You still suffer, and you can really tell it.
If you really treat them as a family, you can still be so careful.
Of course, her brother owes you money to ask his brother for it, but why don't you give your father-in-law and mother-in-law living expenses, of course it's normal for you to want him to pay back the money, but it's too exaggerated for you to calculate why you don't pay living expenses for 5 years.
Don't feel like you're at a loss just because you're from Beijing.
But if his brother is really an inadequate, he doesn't need to help him anymore, but don't just make a fuss for 20,000 yuan.
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Her younger brother is her younger brother, her parents are her parents, 20,000 yuan should be critical, and 5,000 yuan a year should be given. The two can't be confused, your lover was raised by her parents, not her brother, so it's natural to ask for money, don't open your mouth, in fact, it's better to let your wife care about her brother. As for your wife's parents' money, it's another matter, you have to give it as usual, isn't it?
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You didn't give the bride price, why should they give you a dowry? Do they owe you what they owe you, and their daughters will pay it back? If you have this condition, don't worry too much, you will have to spend more than 200,000 yuan to marry a Beijinger, can they live for another 40 years?
Brother, you are really picky, when prices are soaring, others buy houses in installments, and you buy a wife in installments, and in three or five years, five thousand can only buy straw paper, there is love and care about these, do you think you are a man? I can't imagine that there is anyone more 'evil' than me now, Khan!!
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Excessively. Sir, people have to talk about feelings, and not everything is measured by money.
Since you said that 20,000 yuan is not a lot of money for you, I don't think it's better.
I still advise you to let go, man, you won't regret it.
Don't say that he is a loser, the person who didn't see it at the beginning was you, didn't you?
The money given to the elderly is not charity**, not to repay debts, but to fulfill filial piety.
I want to open a point. Think again.
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Be sure to give! His brother is his brother! Their mom and dad will die without living expenses.
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bs you rural people have no money, why do people have daughters who graduated from 211, why don't women who graduated from 211 see your face clearly. You're disgusting.
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their daily living expenses. It also takes a lot of money to exist.
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I don't think it's a private collection, but the reason for the high prices in the city.
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In fact, for this kind of thing, they also have some uses of their own lives.
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I think this is because the cost of living in the city is also relatively large.
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