What to do if your mouth is too stupid to speak

First, we must take a correct view of the matter of speaking. Whether it is at work, study, or between friends and family, the purpose of speaking is to communicate, not to see how much is said, the most important thing is to see whether there is effective communication.

Second, we must take a correct view of the fact that we are stupid and can't speak. The reason why you are stupid and can't speak does not mean that you are worse than others, because everyone has their own good side, don't completely deny yourself because you are stupid and can't speak. Therefore, you should start from this moment and actively change yourself.

Third, we must correctly understand the real reason why the mouth is stupid and cannot speak. People who are stupid and can't speak often don't suddenly become stupid and can't speak, most of them are because they have little communication with people since they were young, and they don't like to talk, so they lose the opportunity to learn to speak.

First of all, you must build self-confidence and dare to change yourself. You can read more books, cultivate some hobbies, participate in more activities, and experience more things to increase your knowledge. Again, you need to think a little about yourself when you speak, and don't say things that hurt others, so as not to cause misunderstandings.

Finally, summarize the communication style of the speaker, learn to listen more, and at the same time slowly forget that you can't speak, and learn to infect the other person with sincere words.

Read more, experience more, and enrich your horizonsIt's because I don't know what to say, and I can't say nutritious words. It requires us to read more books, more books on socialization, psychology, improving emotional intelligence and communication skills, etc. Experience more things, improve your social circle, and communicate with some excellent people to enrich your horizons and expand your thinking.

You didn't speak through your brain, you didn't think about how to express yourself in better language, don't rush to express your opinion after encountering something, you must learn polite language, at least call your girlfriend's mother an aunt. This has a lot to do with your personality and the environment in which you live, which means that your family has not noticed this and has not been reminded and corrected in time. This will be an obstacle to your communication on the road of life, control your feelings, think carefully before speaking, and master more etiquette knowledge.

It's very simple, then die.

Buy a copy of Speeches & Speakers and take a look. In addition, I have a lot of contact with people. When others speak, you should pay attention to what others say, what they say under what circumstances, and remember it for a long time! Learn the art of speaking from others.

Insist on writing a mood diary every day, it must be something true in your heart, and then insist on reading your favorite excellent prose aloud for 30 minutes every day, and it will definitely be effective in half a year.

Eloquence requires a lot of practice, and just reading a book doesn't work at all. I don't know if you are a ** person, if you are closer to Wenzhou, you can buy a set of elite eloquence training secrets. Some of my classmates have learned this, and the effect is quite good.

The card is to break through and dare to speak, to reach to be able to speak, and then to say skillfully. Social skills can be improved. Hope it helps!

Exercising eloquence cannot only rely on those teaching materials, the key is to practice! Say more, practice more! If you have time, you can go to the street to help people distribute leaflets, and communicate with passers-by when you distribute leaflets.

Poor communicators and eloquence**? 100 days of eloquence? I want to practice my eloquence, but I don't have a clue ...... at all

Try to talk to the people around you, and slowly it will change.

Communicate with redundant people, don't worry about making mistakes, when the time comes, the communication ability will naturally be good!

Communicate with people more, but don't learn to be smooth, remember, you prefer real people to people who can speak, and you will be more diligent if you are stupid, so that you are good or bad, even if you don't say it, you know it in your heart.

You can go to the genius voice, the genius voice children's host training, which is for children's training, and the reputation is still relatively big.

Don't be afraid, this is your advantage, don't be entangled, the leaders at work often educate us to say less in the unit to say more to see, less to say more to do, disaster from the mouth, more to say useless, etc., this is the predecessors of the summary of the golden jade good words, but also the unit work to abide by the rules, of course, not necessarily applicable to everyone, but what we have to do is to be normal, do not suffer from gains and losses, do not follow the crowd, to be the best of themselves is enough....Good luck to Piri!

It's not a problem to talk sooner or later, just be positively guided, don't worry. It has nothing to do with being stupid or not.