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I used to be quite an introvert myself, and in one sentence, my former classroom teacher basically couldn't call me by name, because I didn't like to actively participate in group activities.
But I think I'm a big gap from being an introvert now. Here are some of my experiences growing up out of introversion.
Method 1: Introverts are often closed to themselves because they are unwilling to touch new things. When I was in college, in order not to continue to become timid, I joined a student organization, and it can be said that after more than two years of perseverance, through this student organization, I really grew a lot, because of joining this organization, I had to stand on the podium in the classroom, speak to the student cadres below, and have to try to communicate with the leaders of the college.
It would have been impossible for me to walk to the front of the podium on my own, but because I joined this student organization, I was forced to keep moving forward, becoming more and more bold and composed.
Method 2: Go to crowded places and have contact with strangers, and participate in group activities as much as possible.
For example, in freshman year, the school requires every class to put out a show to participate in a gala. At that time, there were not many people in the class who were willing to participate, so the class president decided by drawing lots, and unfortunately and fortunately, I became a member of the stage.
It was a breakthrough experience, and in the face of more than 500 people in the audience, my classmates and I successfully completed a stage play. At that time, I was very proud of myself, and during the rehearsal, I met with the classmates and found that each of them was different from what I usually saw, and in private they seemed more cute than usual.
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Participate in more activities, such as clubs organized by the school, and communicate with others. If you can, you can also take advantage of holidays to go out with your classmates to play, travel or something, which is also very helpful. Of course, the most important thing is to have the confidence and determination to change, and then have more contact with people.
In the class, you can try to raise your hand more questions, of course, on the basis of your own knowledge. Usually participate in more group activities such as sports meetings, galas or something, and at the same time exercise yourself and enhance your relationship with your classmates, which is really a thing to count with one stone. Another thing is to learn from friends, especially the kind of cheerful and optimistic type, and if you have more contact with them, you will become more extroverted.
At home, you should talk to your parents more, take the initiative to talk to them about your life at school, and ask them about interesting things that happened at work, in short, communicate more. If you have any doubts or sadness in your heart, you can usually get their encouragement or comfort, after all, they are the closest people to you, if you can't let go of them in front of them, let alone others.
I used to be quite an introvert because I suffered a bit as well. Therefore, I am also trying to correct this personality, try to get in touch with others as much as possible, and try to clearly explain my views and suggestions to them. It seems to be fruitful for now, at least not as afraid of speaking in front of unfamiliar people as I used to be.
In short, the subject should not easily give up the overcoming of introverted psychology, try to force himself to talk to others more, start from the closer people step by step to enhance the contact with the outside world, participate in more group activities, enhance confidence and better integrate into everyone. Finally, I wish the subject to complete the transformation as soon as possible and become a better version of himself
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I think first of all, you have to understand that there is nothing wrong with being introverted, you don't understand him as a burden, extroverts have the advantages of being extroverted, and introverts naturally have the benefits of being introverted. Living in this world, everyone doesn't have to rush to envy anyone and what to do. By believing that your own things are good, and moving forward without burden, you can switch roles flexibly and freely in this complex world.
Introversion and extroversion are the best ways. So first of all, you have to be confident in your current state, and then you can pursue something else without any other consideration. If you think that introversion is a failure, then the stigma that you are in a hurry to let go of will make you lose yourself.
And then you have to remember that the past was hard at the beginning. But some things are actually not difficult, it's just that you don't want to, it's just that you're still worried.
With the first common sense, nothing is a problem in the future. All we need to do is take the first step, and then you think about the next few steps. What I emphasize is that the first thing to do is to act, whether you are willing or forced to do so, you have to make yourself not cowardly, not cowardly.
For many ways you can find the most rare, such as showing yourself on the stage, whether it is singing and dancing or reciting speeches, you have to show yourself to more people, I believe that when you work hard and work hard, you will receive a round of applause and praise, you will receive an encouragement, and you will gain a self-confidence.
With self-confidence, you will be able to face all kinds of things calmly! Whether you're facing yourself or facing something outside of yourself, you need this as a support.
I believe that after the first attempt, you will be clearer and more courageous in your future explorations.
Remember that there is no absolute superiority or inferiority in this world, and you are the best yourself from your heart.
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An introvert is almost always thin-skinned, has no self-confidence, does not like to talk to others, is afraid that others will dislike him, etc.
So an introvert wants to be a little more extroverted. First of all, this person must become more confident, self-confidence can make a person more powerful, become confident, just like a person asks you how much one plus one equals, do you be able to answer casually, so you must become confident at the beginning. And how to become confident depends on what aspect of your social circle is.
If you are a student, try to improve your knowledge of learning and learn more about your communicative skills.
And then you have to be thick-skinned.,About thick-skinned people, you can go and see the book "Thick Black Learning", if you can read it, it's the best, even if you don't finish it, it's enough to read half of it. Thick-skinned people are more likely to express their inner thoughts than their own thin-skinned people, and when you can express your inner thoughts, then you have taken an outward step.
After that, you have to learn some necessary skills, good skills can make you get more people's hearts, with people's hearts you have friends, with friends can you still not speak? These skills are desperate such as hip-hop, calligraphy and painting, dancing, ** and so on. If this is a group activity in a school, this group activity needs some performances.
It just so happens that you can dance hip-hop, and then you go to dance, will someone applaud you, and then will someone come to you to learn and communicate, so some social skills are still necessary.
When you've learned all of this, you'll be able to change from an introvert to an extrovert. When you decide that you want to communicate, you have to remember to wear new clothes, because when you wear new clothes, you will naturally become confident in yourself and have a strong feeling. <>
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