I wanted to talk to my boyfriend about everything, and he said that

There are several possibilities:

1. He is afraid of hearing the word "divorce", or his family has had such a tragedy, so he is more sensitive to divorce. Or maybe he has a good vision for your future and doesn't want you to think too much about your sister because she wants a divorce.

2. He thinks it's your family's business, and there is no need to tell him, even if he does, it won't solve anything.

3. He hopes that you should be happy together, and he doesn't want to have unpleasant topics to make the atmosphere dull.

I think you're thinking too much, and if you're still haunted by this question, you might as well tell him and look at him and everything will be clear. Tell him why you said this, so that he understands that you only said it as the person you trust the most.

He said that he was afraid that you would be sad, that's it, don't always think about things crookedly, men are afraid that women think about everything so complicated. Just be happy, he loves you.

In fact, a man's mind is something that a woman will understand, and men always live in this worrying environment, I feel so.

In what tone did he say it? Does his "don't say this" mean that you don't want to think about bad things, or if you really don't want to listen to something unhappy, or maybe you don't pay attention to the occasion when you speak? Or does he not want to listen to you at all, and he doesn't want to listen to anything else?

Did you understand what he meant, did you misunderstand. Or is he just a person who lives in his own world, indifferent to your thoughts? We are all outsiders, and we cannot judge you on the basis of a single conversation between you.

So you still have to figure out for yourself what kind of situation you belong to, and then analyze it according to this.

Addendum: Then he thinks about you, he is a careful person, but he is not good at expressing himself. I guess I'm more introverted.

Some boys don't like to listen to girls' chatters like this, and my boyfriend is like this, and he always doesn't like to hear these things when I say them, because he's a boy, don't think too much, everyone loves people in different ways, and you can't let people be obedient, try to tell him, you want you to be friends who talk about everything, if he loves you, he knows your psychological thoughts, and he will change it for you, don't be in a hurry, take your time.

Good luck.

Maybe he thinks that you are moving in the direction of marriage, and it would be very unlucky to mention divorce now

It's not that serious, don't think about it!

Pay attention to the environment in which you speak. and atmosphere.

One of them is that he has a fear of divorce, you know? If you and your boyfriend are developing in the direction of marriage, you should know him more and understand your boyfriend's true thoughts, so that everyone will go on happily together.

He's afraid of divorcing you, so that's what he said.

Don't think about the problem so desperately, in fact, love is what you can understand best.