Why the hell do men think

You say that he is very introverted, introverted people will have more mental activities, that is, easy to cranky or live more idealistic, he told you that he can live to the age of forty, he wants to be alone for the rest of his life, never get married, introverts are easy to lack self-confidence in themselves, easy to be pessimistic, I think he loves you very much, but his character determines that he has no confidence in himself, and then produces pessimism, and then cranky, plus the physical condition is not very good, will have the idea of not wanting to affect you, etc., This is a manifestation of love and deep pain.

I think what you can do for him now is to try to improve his self-confidence, praise him more, encourage him more, or secretly help him, let him do a few things in his field, help him build self-confidence, and show that you really care about him, don't want to lose him, he is your only one, and that it should be enough.

Actually, your personality is really similar to mine.

Hehe!! When a man says these words, he may just want to see how you react!! Of course you said he was very negative.

Men often have a sense of responsibility attached to them. Just think about it!! If he doesn't have a stable job, he doesn't have a stable income.

What did he take to marry the woman he loved? Even if the beloved woman is willing to marry her! At that time, it will only be two people who will suffer together!

Maybe even children will suffer!! Rather than that! He might as well choose not to get married!!

Given this situation!! I think you should talk to him more often!! Open him more!!

You have to make him think that you are a very good girl!! Make him feel that you are very suitable to be his wife!! Let him be moved!!

This will increase his motivation from the side!! made him work hard in the future!!

I think he likes you, so he wants to fall in love with you, and wants to have good memories with you, but he is afraid that his body will not take care of you well in the future, he said, he can live to be forty years old, he wants to be alone for the rest of his life, and never get married for the rest of his life, the reason why he says this is because he loves you and doesn't want you to suffer with him!

He himself is very negative, has no ideals for the future, has no goals, generally speaking, such a boy is insecure and untrustworthy. If you are a very motivated person, you can motivate him and make him self-motivated. But it's hard work, it's up to you.

He is introverted and doesn't like to communicate with strangers, but he wants to talk about his psychology to people who know him, but because he has a lot of shortcomings in some aspects, he always feels that he is not as good as others and is not good enough for others, but he is afraid to say it casually, and he doesn't want his depressed mood to affect his beloved lover. He said these words very contradictory, because he wanted to give you happiness, but he felt that he was not capable enough, so he was very helpless to say such things, in fact, he still loves you very much, but he is a little conflicted in his heart.

He is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness, so he believes that there must be someone who can replace him to give you happiness better!

Let you live a better life!

Treat him well!

I'm sure he will cherish you!

Love depends on two people holding hands!

What's your relationship, boyfriend friend?

You lack self-confidence!

Ask you if you want to hear your encouragement or praise him! Or hint at your substitution!

Make up for him to know that this is what you love him, let him understand that you don't dislike him!

It doesn't affect your love for him like this!

Time will tell!

But the process is tiring, can you do it?

Love tends to burn in silence. He may love you, but he is not sure if he can give you happiness, which cannot be said to be selfish. What men need is a complete result, not a perfect process.

I just fell out of love and it was painful. Don't take my word for it.

Negative men are not lovable

Giving pain.

If you really love him very much and don't marry him, then try to praise him every day Men seem to be happier to hear pertinent praise.

Maybe he deliberately said it to you, and asked you to accept him, but in fact, he loves you very much, because he is afraid that you will dislike him

If you love him, you should help him and bless you

When he tells you this, he actually hopes that you will be good with him, but he will not marry you, if you want, such a person will be together without marriage. But if you're smart, you should choose a man who makes you happy.

He has feelings for you, you can change his depravity, you can change his life, you are important to him, you are an angel in his heart, he wants you to take care of him, see what you think, I wish you a happy life.

I've always been happy in love, but I'm insecure about girls who want to start a family. However, in fact, a sense of security can not be given with a certificate.

In fact, he doesn't want to lose you, but you should also think about yourself, if you can still bear it for a long time, after all, mental torture is very hurtful.

He also wants to have a share of love, and to have a relationship.

Good luck if you really love him, because he loves you.

Don't guess what he thinks, in fact, whether this man really loves you or not, you can observe.

If you want to judge whether a man really loves you, it is not unruly, as long as you observe more details of his behavior and listen less to what he says, it is not difficult to come to the right conclusion.

1. The man who loves you is no matter how busy he is, he can make time for you, because he will miss you, think about you, worry about you, and even be afraid that you will be left out and robbed by others.

2. The man who loves you has said "good night" to you, and will also say "good morning" to you, the man who loves you will be very patient with you, he will take care of you when you are sick, will help you when you are in difficulty, will take care of your little emotions and temper, and will coax you.

3. The man who loves you will remember your preferences and needs, and even if you don't say it, he will observe it, or take the initiative to understand it from the side. What you say, he will take to heart.

Guess one, he may feel that the time is not ripe, and your relationship has not yet arrived!

Second, maybe he may still be testing you, so chat and laugh with you, you are on the investigation!

Third, he may reject you tactfully, think you are not suitable, and are afraid that you will be hurt, so he jokes and chats with you and does not reply to you positively!

No matter what this man thinks, I suggest you stick to being yourself! Let it be, it's yours that he can't run! There are many good men in the world! May you be happy!

He may not want to reject you, but he doesn't like you, he just wants to be friends with you, rejects you for fear that you will be hurt, this man is like this, but you need to talk to him and think about your relationship so that neither of you will be hurt.

Extroverted personality, he can say whatever he thinks in his heart, because he wants to live for himself.

Masters are lonely, depending on your requirements, it's really suitable and what you need is how you talk.

Don't take the initiative, don't refuse, don't accept, what else do you want him to do?

It's a good friend of the opposite sex, but he doesn't want to be a couple, he does that because he doesn't want to hurt you, and he is afraid that he will decisively reject you and make you sad.

It's kind of like a courtesan, there are a lot of friends, and there are a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and there is no feeling of having to book down.

Isn't this a tactful refusal?

Some of them will lack roots, and this kind of thing has to be grasped by yourself.

That's allIt seems that this man just treats you as a friend!

This shows that he is a flower heart, not a true love for you!

I just want to play ambiguous and stay away from him.

What should be experienced is always experienced, and it is not all bad for you to think this way, which means that you will introspect.

It may be that you are too busy at work.

Jiang Taigong fishes, and those who wish to take the bait!