The boyfriend I chased backwards is very unconfident, what should I do?

The boyfriend you are chasing backwards, not being confident in your heart is actually a normal behavior, you must think that I chased him first, I took the initiative, and normal people should have such behavior. However, you must know that it is not the person who takes the initiative to pursue first that is a disadvantage in the relationship, the person who takes the initiative first is just the first to realize that he likes her, but he has more courage to express his inner thoughts and say it, which can be said to be a very courageous person.

Once two people establish a relationship and become male and female friends, it doesn't matter who chases who is not good at all, the result is that the two people are very happy together. As long as they are in a relationship, two people are fair and equal, no one is at a disadvantage, who is at an advantage, there is no survival of the fittest in love, who loses and who wins.

If you are still not confident in yourself, then in order to be more worthy of your boyfriend, you can work hard to improve yourself, and the process of improving yourself is never too late.

If we are not confident in ourselves, then we will improve.

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Actually, I think if that guy really likes you, he will do his best to let you know that you are great, I like you for what you become, and he will not abandon you because you feel unconfident and say that he doesn't like you anymore. If he will dislike you for the reasons above, such a boy really doesn't want it, don't make yourself feel inferior in vain, and make you angry.

In many people's minds, boys should always be the active party of feelings, and girls should be the ones who are confessed. The idea is too one-sided and absolute. Men and women are equal, and the same is true in relationships.

None of them exist, who should take the initiative? The question of who should be passive, if you like it, you have to pursue it, so as not to leave regrets for yourself, I appreciate those girls who are brave enough to chase for love.

You said that the boyfriend who chased backwards was very unconfident, and I don't think there was any need for that. If your boyfriend doesn't like you, he won't be with you. In addition to being with you, it means that both of you are equal in the relationship, no one is standing in too high a position, and no one is low to the dust, you don't think so.

If you yourself feel that you are not good enough and not confident enough, then I think you are the weak party in this relationship, and you can't even talk about equality. You are only worthy, you will always be obedient to your boyfriend, unconditional tolerance, do you know that this will make him feel that your feelings are dispensable, you are the same, you don't have to be worthy of him to cherish, you will be good to him. Change and become confident, a confident girl is the most beautiful, and in the relationship, the other party can't take their eyes off.

In fact, I think you have to change your unconfident view, and then you have to realize that you and your boyfriend are equal in the relationship, and there is no distinction between high and low. Also, while maintaining the relationship between you and your boyfriend, you should also strive to enrich and improve yourself to make yourself better. This is your confidence.

A girl who is confident and connotative, and is very beautiful inside, I think any boy will be attracted to her, and it is no exception, if you become such a girl, I think your boyfriend will love you more and can't do without you. It doesn't matter who chases whom, the important thing is to see whether the two people's inner and three views are compatible, when you become better and better, your self-confidence will follow. You don't have to worry about it, your boyfriend won't be able to live without you.

There is a question that has always bothered me, is it a stereotype for boys to be active and girls to be passive in love? Or is it supposed to be the case? There is a saying since ancient times, called women chasing men, I don't know how this came about, maybe this concept has been from ancient times.

To be honest, as a man, as a man who is a bit of a straight man, I just can't stand it.

What do you mean by chasing backwards? Girls chasing boys is called chasing backwards? I think the story of the prince chasing Cinderella is also regarded as a reverse chase, but there is no sexism in this regard, and I finally got back a game!

Why is it that the status and identity are all equal, and women chasing men are called chasing backwards? This gives me the feeling that love itself seems to have a status? After the man chases the woman, it is not good to be "three or four low", and some time ago, the girls were spoiled by the marketing account.

Love should be equal and two-way, it is not a problem who chases whom, and there is no such thing as who chases whom.

My girlfriend and I were together at the time, and no one chased anyone, and when we were together, it was completely because of the relationship, and it came naturally. My girlfriend first told others that she was with me, so wouldn't she chase me? Just kidding, I've never felt like I'm being chased.

Afterwards, one day my girlfriend said to me, you seem to owe me a pursuit? No, you'll have to make it up to me someday!

You see, even she thinks so, but until now I owe her, and it's not the same as a good life.

are all enjoying in love.,As long as you really care about who chases whom.,In fact, I don't think anyone is chasing whom.,You just like it.。

In the final analysis, you don't face up to the thing of love, and understand it as a hierarchical thing, no matter how you look at it, it's not a good thing. So, change your views, make your love more sunny, and the most beautiful people who are confident are the most beautiful!

In exchange for the other party's liking, it is inevitable that there will be some distrust of the other party's feelings, these starting points are distrust of yourself, you can do more things to enhance the relationship between the two people to stabilize the relationship between the two of you, but don't just pay by yourself, if you are only working your own feelings, it can prove that the other party does not like you very much.

If you're chasing your boyfriend, then if you're not confident, then you'll have to be a little stronger at this time, and it will be better.

In fact, if two people love each other, they should trust each other. Maybe your boyfriend has some bitter loyalty, and he doesn't confess to you probably because he is afraid that you will misunderstand, so he didn't say it. Maybe your boyfriend just treats her like a regular friend.

You should have faith in your boyfriend. If your boyfriend is so confused, I'm sure he'll love you even more. May you love each other forever.

He's afraid. Then you can have a good talk with him and explain the words.

If he doesn't say it, he should still care about you, otherwise he can break up with you directly.

I think he'll be touched when he sees you slapping him so well.

If you can forgive him, you should turn back.

It's okay to talk about it, but there is a backlog of small things, and once it breaks out, it's more powerful than a big noise.

Good luck...

Hehe, I'm worried, I'm worried if I change.

Believe in yourself and believe in him If your boyfriend is really chased like this, if he really wants to leave you, there is no way, all you have to do is believe in yourself, believe in him, and treat him better, as if there is no such thing, it mainly depends on your boyfriend's attitude

Maybe he didn't take it seriously at all, don't worry about it, have confidence in yourself, so that he can love you! ~

Be kind to him.

Trust your boyfriend.

Wouldn't it be If you don't delete the ambiguous text message when you receive it, it means that he wants you to know, but if he doesn't say it, he's waiting for you to provoke it first, so the responsibility for the quarrel is entirely yours. I think he definitely thought so, because he was clever enough to delete what he sent out.

Observe him for a while and see if his attitude towards you has changed, and basically the same as before, trust your boyfriend. A weak-hearted person will definitely show a fox's tail. Good luck ha.

If he wants to lie to you, he deleted the text message a long time ago, and he can also let you find out that he should be bored with that woman, you think too much.

1. Wait and see what happens.

When you find clues, for example, you find ambiguous information in his mobile phone, just sent by someone else, you must be calm, observe your boyfriend's expression, if it is very unnatural to answer ** in front of you, or dodge, the phone does not dare to show you, there is a problem. You have to calm down, observe your boyfriend like your prey, and then look for the appropriate way to deal with it.

2. Confess leniently.

If you find that your boyfriend is different from usual, or a little abnormal, he must have something on his mind, see if he wants to tell you, if there is a girl chasing her, men will generally tell you, saying that vanity is doing trouble, it is not an exaggeration, of course, some people are afraid that you are worried, and directly refuse, this is still quite decisive, but then, he still has to tell you later, let you praise him. The man who loves you will not have secrets from you. Even if he doesn't tell you, you hit him from the side, and the guy will confess everything.

3. United front.

In fact, when encountering this kind of thing, first of all, you should feel happy, prove that your boyfriend is very popular, in fact, since he tells you something, it proves that he has you in his heart, so you must take this matter seriously, don't be angry with him, play a little temper, you have to stand on the united front with him and be his spiritual pillar. Tell him that it's okay to politely reject the other person. If the other party is too much, you let your boyfriend show no mercy and refuse directly.

4. Intervene.

If you directly refuse for fear of hurting the other party, there is another way to make the girl die, that is, your appearance, is the best reason, maybe the other party does not know that he has a girlfriend, if it is a girl in a unit, you go to the unit to find your boyfriend, for example, say a few words, or send something or something, when others ask, he will naturally say it. At that time, I believed that the girl would die.

How can I bear this, stand up and declare sovereignty, and say to the girl, I have contracted this man, don't be boring anymore, otherwise you will act according to the rules of the rivers and lakes.

Express your opposition immediately. Because love is selfish, if you are generous in this kind of thing, you will end up hurting all over your body.

In this case, you should still fully believe in your boyfriend, since he already has a girlfriend, he will definitely not accept other girls, you have to have a little confidence in your boyfriend.

can't accept it indifferently, let the boyfriend tell the girl very carefully that he is a person with a girlfriend, don't come to disturb his life.

If your boyfriend doesn't want him, let him reject him, and if he wants to, let him make a choice.

If your boyfriend is being pursued by someone else, it means that he is attractive and you should be happy, but you have to be careful, your position may be lost at any time.

You must believe in your boyfriend, you can't lose your temper because of this, and you have to make it clear to the girl that you don't chase anymore.

As long as you can take your boyfriend's heart. It fully shows that you have found a very good boyfriend, and you should be proud.

There should be someone behind him!This causes him to be a little indifferent to you, he will think that without you, he still has others, as long as you can meet the standards in his heart, I think you will be happy together!

It's sincere. If you don't want to lose him, make yourself excellent. He's waiting for you.

The person who is good to you with his actions is sincere, but the sweet words he says are not necessarily sincere, so he is very real to you. He does this to give you the opportunity to excel and if you don't have a distance between you, it will progress too fast and affect your personal growth. That is, he doesn't want to "hurt" you until you are mature, he is waiting for the right time to live with you.

Judging in this way, he is a good man who is mature, far-sighted and determined. Personally, you should be calm. That's right. Well.